Author: Bagong Nanay

  • Raising Future-Ready Kids: Street Smart PH by Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    Raising Future-Ready Kids: Street Smart PH by Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta? I’ve been busy with my firstborn daughter’s 7th birthday, but I was looking forward to sharing this story of Mommy Andrea Nicole Balcorta, a 30-year-old Bagong Nanay of one from Pasig City and founder of Street Smart PH.

    My daughter was able to attend a 3-hour Money Masters 101 free class during the recent Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup at the East, and boy, did she learn a lot of new and important things! Nagulat ako when I asked her to write down what she learned in her notebook the next day – she had learned and understood the concepts of wants vs. needs, credit cards, and even checks!

    What my 6yo learned from the Money Masters 101 workshop! Courtesy of Judy Aladin

    So for July, I am happy to share the Bagong Nanay Biz story of Mommy Nicole, who literally started her business during her maternity leave, and recently marked its first anniversary!

    Read on and be inspired.

    In Her Own Words: How Nicole Balcorta started Street Smart PH

    Life Still Surprises You

    If you had told me a few years ago that I’d be balancing a corporate career, building a social enterprise, and learning the ropes of motherhood all at the same time, I probably would’ve laughed.

    The truth is, I’m still figuring things out every day.

    By day, I work as a trade marketer in an FMCG company. Beyond work, I built Street Smart PH, a passion project close to my heart. And above all, I’m a wife and a mom to a little boy who reminds me every day why this mission matters.

    Looking back, I realize that every season of my life, from leaving home at 12 years old to becoming a first-time mom, was quietly preparing me for something bigger than myself.

    Learning to Adult the Hard Way

    I became independent at a young age.

    When I was just 12 years old, I moved into a dormitory for high school. Living away from home taught me responsibility early on, but it also exposed something I didn’t realize until much later—I wasn’t truly prepared for adulthood.

    School taught me how to solve equations and write essays, but not how to budget my allowance, prepare for a job interview, understand employee benefits, or make smart financial decisions. Like many young adults, I learned those lessons through trial and error.

    I often found myself thinking, What if someone had taught us these before we actually needed them?

    My Son Didn’t Know It Yet, But He Helped Me Start a Business

    Fast forward a few years, I was happily building my corporate career when I became a mom.

    Mommy Nicole and her son. | Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    During my maternity leave, I unexpectedly found myself with something every new parent wishes for—a little extra time. My baby boy was surprisingly calm, and in those quiet moments while he slept, I couldn’t stop thinking about an idea that had been in my heart for years.

    I realized I finally had the chance to build my passion project.

    As I looked at my son, I knew I wanted him to grow up not just academically prepared, but life-ready. And surely, many other parents wanted the same for their children.

    That’s how Street Smart PH was born.

    More Than a Business, It’s a Mission

    Street Smart PH exists to help build future-ready Filipinos by teaching the practical life skills that many of us wish we had learned earlier.

    Mommy Nicole at work! Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    “There are days when work needs me more, and days when my family comes first. I’ve learned to let go of the pressure of getting everything right all the time. Progress is a much kinder goal than perfection.”

    -Mommy Nicole Balcorta, Street Smart PH

    Today, we conduct online and onsite workshops and create interactive workbooks covering financial literacy through Money Masters 101, entrepreneurship through Business Bosses 101, investing through Wealth Warriors 101, home responsibility through Home Heroes 101, and career readiness through Career Champions 101.

    The goal has always been simple: to help young Filipinos feel more confident before life throws its biggest lessons at them.

    In our first year alone, we’ve been blessed to conduct 31 workshops, teach 432 students, distribute 512 workbooks, and partner with 11 schools and organizations. Every learner we meet reminds us why this mission matters.

    This Is Just the Beginning

    Our dream is to make life skills education more accessible to Filipino families.

    We’re working toward launching our e-commerce platform so parents and students can easily access our workbooks anywhere in the country. We also hope to scale our workshops online, collaborate with more schools and homeschool communities, and introduce even more programs (such as Travel Titans 101) to prepare learners for the real world.

    Mommy Nicole and Street Smart PH facilitators! Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    As Street Smart PH continues to grow, people sometimes ask how I balance everything.

    The truth is, I don’t always have the perfect answer. I’m learning as I go (just like every other mom). But if there’s one thing this journey has taught me, it’s that motherhood has shaped the way I lead, work, and dream. These are four lessons I continue to carry with me every day.

    4 Things Motherhood Continues to Teach Me

    1. Find a purpose that’s bigger than yourself.

    Of course, we all want to provide for our families. But when our work also creates a positive impact for others, it gives us a deeper reason to keep going…even on the most exhausting days.

    2. Embrace partnership.

    One of my biggest blessings is having a husband who builds this life with me. We’ve learned that marriage isn’t about dividing responsibilities perfectly. Rather, it’s about supporting each other’s dreams while building a life that’s meaningful for our family. Growing together as partners allows us to grow as individuals, too.

    Mommy Nicole’s family. Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    3. You don’t have to do everything perfectly.

    There are days when work needs me more, and days when my family comes first. I’ve learned to let go of the pressure of getting everything right all the time. Progress is a much kinder goal than perfection.

    4. Focus on energy management instead of time management.

    We all have the same 24 hours. What has helped me most is being intentional about where I give my energy. When I’m at work, I try to be fully present. When I’m with my family, I put my phone down and enjoy the moment. It’s not about doing more. It’s about being present where you are.

    I’m still learning every day, but these reminders have helped me embrace each season with a little more grace.

    Let’s Build the Future Together

    I believe preparing children for the future takes a community.

    If you’re a parent, I’d love to invite you to join one of our upcoming workshops. Follow Street Smart PH on Facebook and Instagram for the latest schedules, and as a reader of Bagong Nanay, you may use the code BBNxSSPH to enjoy 10% off your workshop registration.

    If you’re a school, homeschool community, company, or organization, let’s work together through customized workshops, exclusive learning sessions, or event partnerships.

    And while Street Smart PH continues to grow, my “why” has remained the same. Whenever I look at my son, I’m reminded why I started this journey. I dream of a future where he, and every Filipino child, steps into adulthood with confidence, courage, and the life skills to thrive.

    Because life skills are more than lessons. They’re gifts that last a lifetime. Together, let’s build a generation of future-ready Filipinos – one life skill at a time. 

    Follow Street Smart PH on social media: Facebook, Instagram, and Threads.

  • Frances Santiago: Coping with Grief and Loss

    Frances Santiago: Coping with Grief and Loss

    Trigger warning: Mention of miscarriage, loss, and death

    Hi, Bagong Nanay.

    Kumusta? Recently, we’ve been hearing so many reports about children dying in spaces where they should’ve been safe. I cannot imagine the pain these parents are feeling, lalo na ng mga nanay. Mothers aren’t supposed to bury their children. How does a mother cope with the grief of losing a child?

    That’s why I am honored to share the Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of Mommy Frances Santiago, a mom I met online who eventually became one of the pillars of our Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetups. Through our meetups, I’ve come to know her and her story. She experienced multiple miscarriages, and these experiences made her the strong woman she is now. I knew that by sharing her story with more moms, it would touch lives and glorify the Lord.

    Read on.

    Kuwentong Bagong Nanay: Frances Santiago

    Her motherhood journey

    Motherhood has been the greatest blessing of my life. God blessed me with beautiful, wonderful children, and I truly thought I already knew what my motherhood journey would look like.

    But life took an unexpected turn when I experienced three miscarriages. I lost four babies in three pregnancies. Yes, one of those pregnancies was with twins. In total, I lost four babies. Four little lives I loved from the moment I knew they existed.

    Each pregnancy came with hope, and each loss left a heartbreak that words could never fully describe. I grieved not only the babies I lost but also the dreams and future I had imagined with them.

    “So if you know a mom who has experienced miscarriage, don’t rush her healing. Because love doesn’t end when a life ends. A mother’s love is forever.”

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    After years of waiting, praying, and trusting Him. God surprised me once again. 11 years after my last child, I became pregnant again. It wasn’t just another pregnancy; it became a testimony of God’s faithfulness. Throughout this journey, God kept reminding me of His promises.

    Frances wrote this for Bagong Nanay | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    One verse that stayed close to my heart was Luke 1:45 “Blessed is she who has believe that the Lord would fullfill his promises to her.”

    What a mother’s grief is like

    Losing a child through miscarriage is a different kind of heartbreak. Tapos na-experience ko pa nang paulit-ulit. Sa bawat dalawang guhit sa pregnancy test, kasabay ng saya ang takot, “Sana this time, hanggang dulo na.” Pero sa bawat pagkawala, parang may bahagi na ng puso ko na hindi na maibabalik. Kasi sa ganitong situation, hindi lang baby ang ipinagluluksa mo, kundi pati ang mga pangarap, mga pangalang naisip mo na. First birthday, first steps. mga future na inakala mo na mangyayari.

    Grief after repeated miscarriage is like carrying invisible scars. The hardest part wasn’t just saying goodbye once. It was learning how to survive after saying goodbye over and over again.

    Please don’t carry the weight of blame. Your losses do not define your worth, and they do not mean you failed as a mother.

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    As a Christian, hindi nawala ang faith ko, pero hindi rin nawala ang sakit. Natutunan kong pwedeng sabay umiyak at magtiwala sa Diyos noong time na yon.

    Psalm 30:5 became one of the verses I held on to during those darkest times. There were nights filled with tears, heartbreak, and questions I couldn’t answer. But God reminded me that “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”

    Living with grief

    What helped me cope with the grief was to admit to myself that I’m not okay and cry. Cry myself out and let myself grieve.

    In my experience, bumibili ako noon ng mga gamit na pang-baby like shoes, bonnet, socks, mittens, headbands, etc. Nilalagay ko sya sa box tapos itinatabi ko rin. Walang may alam noon, ako lang at si Lord. Lalo na yung mga may rainbow design. Kasi nga diba a rainbow represents hope after a storm. A rainbow is a sign of God’s promise that He is faithful.

    “Darating din ang araw na may kasamang paghilom, kapayapaan, at panibagong pag-asa.

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    Mga isang taon din akong ganon, bili ng bili tapos nakatago lang. Nangangarap na, if God will gift me a child again, magagamit nya yon. But later on, pinamigay ko rin lahat. Kasi parang nung time na ‘yon, ang daming buntis sa paligid ko. Ni-let go ko na kay God, sinurrender ko na lahat kasabay ng pamimigay ng mga gamit.

    At doon naman ako nahilig umakyat ng bundok. Doon ako nagdadasal, na balang araw mabubuntis din ako at magiging healthy pregnancy na ito.

    Frances conquered Mount Pulag | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    Message to Bagong Nanay navigating loss

    My message to them is grieve. If I could say one thing, it would be this: Please don’t carry the weight of blame. Your losses do not define your worth, and they do not mean you failed as a mother. And if you’ve gone through this more than once like me, I know the fear becomes different.

    Every pregnancy brings hope, but it also brings anxiety. You start wondering if you’ll get to hold your rainbow baby. You question your body, your faith, and sometimes even yourself. Minsan mapapatanong ka na rin kay Lord, “Bakit ako?” o “Hanggang kailan?” at okay lang yan.

    Frances, with her rainbow baby, Teo. | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    Hindi ibig sabihin na mahina ang faith mo. Kahit ang taong may matibay na pananampalataya, napapagod at umiiyak din. Hindi ka kulang, hindi ka pinaparusahan. Hindi mo kasalanan ang nangyari.

    Darating din ang araw na may kasamang paghilom, kapayapaan, at panibagong pag-asa. Ang kwento ng buhay mo ay hindi pa tapos. God is still writing a beautiful story, kahit hindi pa natin ito nakikita ngayon. One day, the tears we cry today will become part of a testimony of his faithfulness.

    Hindi ibig sabihin habang buhay ka na nasa dilim. Darating ang umaga. Maaring hindi ito dumating sa oras na gusto natin. Pero darating ito sa tamang panahon ng Diyos. Ang umaga ay maaring dumating sa anyo ng healing, renewed faith, peace, answered prayers o simpleng lakas para muling bumangon.

    What Frances wants other people to know about grief

    Hindi madaling ipaliwanag ang grief ng isang ina. It’s not just sadness; it’s love that has nowhere to go. Para kang araw-araw na lumalaban habang may kulang sa puso mo na hindi na mabubuo sa same way again. You smile. You function. You love, but deep inside,
    you have changed. Forever changed by loss and longing.

    People often say “At least maaga pa,” or “Makakabuo pa kayo ulit.” They mean well, but grief doesn’t measure time. Araw-araw natututo kang mabuhay ulit. You smile, you work, you take care of your family. Life goes on, but deep inside may bahagi ng puso mo na tahimik na nagluluksa.

    So if you know a mom who has experienced miscarriage, don’t rush her healing. Because love doesn’t end when a life ends. A mother’s love is forever.

    Frances’ family | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    This is my motherhood journey. A story of love, loss, faith, waiting and God’s unfailing grace.

    As I continue this journey of motherhood, I want to remind every mama that motherhood isn’t measured only by the children we get to hold. It’s also found in the love we carry the sacrifices we make, the prayers we whisper, and the faith we choose to keep even when life doesn’t go as planned.

    Want to share your Kuwentong Bagong Nanay? Comment below or send me a message on Instagram @bagongnanay

  • A Bagong Nanay’s Guide to Breastfeeding and Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    A Bagong Nanay’s Guide to Breastfeeding and Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    Hi, Bagong Nanays!

    Whether you are planning to or currently breastfeeding your child, alam nating hindi siya madali. Kaya naman whatever would help a new mom navigate their breastfeeding journey helps a lot!

    I stumbled upon a post on Threads of a Mommy Viktoria Melgo (@mvmlg), listing the lactation and breastfeeding areas she has found in Metro Manila malls (with photos!). With her permission, I compiled them in this article for easy reference for Bagong Nanays. I also included here the comments of moms who shared theirs as well.

    Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    Las Piñas

    📍SM Southmall

    2nd floor near Ace Hardware

    Spacious for one momma. One at a time lang here, nasa loob ito ng mall clinic. Overall, it’s nice and comfortable, not too cold just enough para hindi pagpawisan. The only con is not allowed ang pag-change ng diaper here, but there’s a diaper changing area in the comfort room across.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Makati

    📍Powerplant Mall

    You have privacy with accordion doors, you can change your baby’s nappy sa cubicle mismo. And pinakaimportant is malamig!! And may bantay na lady guard outside. Ayoko sa lahat yung cramped na lactation room tapos pawis pa kayo ni baby huhu Contributed by @honaluli (no photo)

    📍Rustans (inside Glorietta)

    3rd level

    Need I say more? Super shala and comfy parang pwede ko pa papasukin ang mga kamag-anak ko sa laki. Lactation room ba to o nursery na? 😂 One mom at a time lang since isa lang yung door na pwede ma-lock. Sakto lang ang lamig sa loob and kung mainitan ka, may ready na fan! Pwede sina daddy, lolo, lola sa loob 😂

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍SM Makati

    4th level, SM Store near Women’s Intimates area

    Very comfortable here. It has two booths and a common changing area with a sink. I like na yung two booths are different (yung isa maliwanag, yung isa dim kasi walang ilaw).

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Mandaluyong City

    📍Shangri-La Plaza

    Pros: Malamig, comfy LazyBoy chair, my baby fell asleep while feeding because of the comfy chair and throw pillows, and nice lighting too. There’s a sink, microwave, and changing area also.

    Cons: No separate areas for each mom, you’re all in one common room that’s why dads are not allowed inside. Contributed by @nicooolesantos

    Photo by Nicole Santos Tagle

    Muntinlupa

    📍Festival Mall

    Basement level, near Riverpark (below JCo)

    It is also nice here! There are three booths with accordion doors so may privacy and may common changing area outside with a sink and a fridge.

    Cons here are no companions allowed, and mahina ang signal for both Smart and Globe users.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍Rustans, Alabang Town Center

    Baby section, near cashier

    Spacious! One mommy at a time lang. It’s nice and cozy here.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Paranaque

    📍Landmark, Ayala Malls Manila Bay

    Grocery level near Food Court

    No privacy! See the glass by the door? I had to put the chair ng nakatalikod para lang di ako kita ng mga nasa labas. Also, the mobile data signal is bad here.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍 Ayala Malls Manila Bay

    Outside the mall 🥵 Exit near McDonald’s then turn right, nasa dulo (yes, nasa labas ng mall, tapat ng mga PUV)

    The room itself is nice, it has two booths. Yung nasa pic is what each booth looks like. Companions are allowed din. Only con is nasa labas siya ng mall. Hindi ko sure kung mainit sa loob o sadyang mainit yung feeling na lumabas ka sa mall then lakad onti para makarating dito. 🤪

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Pasay

    📍Ikea

    3rd level, near entrance of showrooms

    I also like it here! The only cons is medyo mainit sa loob so might be helpful to bring a fan para comfy kayo ni baby. Pwede din ang companion sa loob.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍Okada

    In between Jollibee and Starbucks

    I super love it here! Super comfy and pwede mag sleep si baby since tahimik, plus pwede si hubby pumasok sa loob!

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍SM Mall of Asia

    3rd level, near Mary Grace

    I love this. Super spacious, madaming pwede i-accommodate na moms, plus may footrest! Omg, naka tulog si baby here for an hour since walang light sa loob ng booth.

    Cons here is mahina signal both Smart and Globe, and hindi rin pwede ang companion sa loob.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍S Maison

    Near Coffee Bean

    One lactation room area only and no diaper-changing area here. Cozy naman ang ambiance. The only con here is although may glass door, may curtain naman for added privacy.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Pasig City

    📍 Estancia Mall

    Private room and may changing station sa loob. Pwede companion pero mainit ang temperature. Very spacious. Contributed by @4rm_atoz (no photo)

    📍SM Megamall

    3rd level, SM Store

    Cool temperature. Bawal ang companion. May changing stations and hot water are a plus. Contributed by @4rm_atoz

    Photo by 4rm_atoz
    Photo by 4rm_atoz

    Quezon City

    📍 SM Fairview

    Isang room, may three cubicles with a single couch each. Although may sink for handwashing, bawal naman mag-change ng diaper, kaya every time na magla-log ako, sinusulat ko ‘Changing station please’. Hirap tuloy, pupunta pa ng CR para palitan ang babies, eh malayo pa naman yung may maayos na changing station. @lyneliciousss (no photo)

    📍Trinoma

    Six years ago, ‘yung breastfeeding station nila ay nasa loob ng Member’s Lounge. Ngayon, sineperate na nila. This is located sa 3rd floor (ata, hindi ko masyado maalala, basta sa tabi ng Fully Booked!)
    Ang lungkot nito compared to what they had before. Allowed ang two moms sa loob, but in my case, I had to wait for the first mom, kasi kasama yung dad sa loob, and jampacked sila with a stroller pa. Tapos curtain lang din ang door, labas-masok pa yung ibang mall employee kasi yung likod/tabi nyan ay HQ nila. Contributed by @_tubillokat

    Photo by @_tubillokat

    San Juan

    📍Greenhills Mall

    5th level

    Really nice here. Many changing stations and breastfeeding booths. Booths can be a little warm so bring a fan! There’s a play area and a lounge (which can be crowded in the afternoon). Overall, the entire place is kinda warm. I think they made it like this para hindi tambayan since wala bantay dito. Companions are allowed here, too!

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Taguig

    📍Mitsukoshi Mall

    Wala akong picture but super ganda doon! Hahaha. May CR sa loob para sa family. May parking area ng mga stroller. Three ung private rooms. Contributed by @zandragonslayer (no photo)

    📍One Bonifacio High Street

    Upper Ground, near Cole Haan

    With fee, but naalala ko hindi naman super mahal. With 2 lactation booths and common changing area with sink. They call it a Family Lounge, and yes, very spacious and multiple families can tambay/rest at the same time. With small play area and madaming cubicle for both male & female restrooms. Very comfy mag rest here nakatulog si hubs! 😆 Contributed by @leysvelasquez

    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez

    📍SM Aura

    4th floor beside Fully Booked

    There are three breastfeeding booths that have comfy chairs and a side table each. Only one changing station (no pad, just plain countertop), so there might be waiting time, which is okay lang kasi may couch naman na pwede paghintayan.

    Another con besides the one changing station is that there’s a 40-minute time limit for each mom. May attendant to check, which I don’t think is a con naman since it’s enough time naman yun for one feed and nap ni baby.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Any other lactation rooms / breastfeeding areas in Metro Manila that you want to add to this list? Comment below or DM me at @bagongnanay on Instagram.

  • Jaahzel Jadulco-Alvendia: Faith Over Fear

    Jaahzel Jadulco-Alvendia: Faith Over Fear

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    As Mother’s Month comes to a close, I wanted to honor the strength of this Bagong Nanay who became a mom at 23 years old. She was a graduating student, working on her thesis, when she found out that she was three months pregnant with her first child. Not to romanticize becoming a young mother, but to honor the strength it took to navigate motherhood so early in life.

    It was during the Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup at the North when I got to know the story of Jaahzel Jadulco-Alvendia or Mommy Jazz, and I knew then and there that I had to share her inspiring story about faith, courage, and love. Her baby, Reeses Kiara, was diagnosed with a congenital heart disease at two months old, and underwent open heart surgery at barely five months old.

    Mommy Jazz shared her story with me over Zoom, and I’m honored to share with you her Kuwentong Bagong Nanay. Read on.

    Kuwentong Bagong Nanay: Jazz Alvendia

    Her motherhood journey started with a terrible headache.

    Jazz was 23 years old then, on her last semester in college, busy with their thesis. She had no idea she was pregnant because she was drowning in acads and also had polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). She commuted from Quezon City to Morayta in Manila to go to school every day.

    “Akala ko normal lang kasi mahihiluhin ako sa biyahe, may thesis pa kami nung time na yun kaya stressed din ako sa school. Until one night, iba na yung sakit ng ulo ko tapos gusto na ako ipa-CT scan ng mother ko, buti nalang hindi natuloy. Before ako i-CT scan, pinregnancy test ako, tapos doon nalaman.”

    Because of a terrible headache, Jazz confirmed she was pregnant with her first child.

    She then had a transvaginal ultrasound, and it confirmed that she was going to have a baby. “Nung na-transvaginal ultrasound ako, nakita na buo na siya, may heartbeat, may kamay na, gumagalaw-galaw na rin siya, tapos nasilip na rin ng doktor na baka girl ito!”

    “Hanggang sa nanganak ako, sobrang smooth lang ng journey namin. Dinala ako sa ospital ng 7 AM, tapos 7 cm na pala ako, unmedicated birth yun, tapos ang bilis lang ng labor. 9 AM, baby out na. One hour mahigit lang ako nag-labor. Parang hindi iyon yung pain na in-expect ko. Parang di niya ako pinahirapan. Tapos okay din siya.”

    Jazz became a Bagong Nanay at 24.

    They thought everything was okay until they had to go to another pediatrician for Reese’s routine checkup when she was two months old.

    “Nagulat ako kasi pag nagwe-well baby checkup, laging normal naman. Pero doon sa isang pedia, parang iba agad yung reaksyon niya paglapat niya ng stethoscope.”

    “She recounts, “Bigla nalang nagtanong si Doc, “Meron ba kayong lahi na may sakit sa puso?” Sabi ko, “Wala po.” Sabi niya, “I’m scared, kasi parang feeling ko may butas sa puso si Reese. Diretso na kayo sa Heart Center, ipa-check niyo na kasi ang lakas ng murmur, tsaka parang hindi rin siya maliit,” the doctor explained.

    They went to a hospital where they know a pedia-cardiologist first, and scans confirmed that Baby Reese had a ventricular septal defect (VSD), or a hole in her heart. Her family and doctors initially hoped the hole would close on its own.

    “After two months, iniscan ulit, nag-twice na yung size nung buttas. By October, gusto na nila ma-operahan si Reese. Lalaki na daw yung butas at magmamanifest na daw yung symptoms in a few months.”

    Their first step was to get Reese baptized by September. They asked to extend for another month to save up for the hospital costs, which amounted to P800,000.

    Jazz shared that after Reese was baptized, blessings poured to their family.

    “Madaming gustong tumulong. May mayor sa Pangasinan na mother din siya, bumili siya ng plushies ni Reese tapos tinransfer nila agad yung pera. Kahit andyan na yung lahat ng sign, ready na kami, ayoko pa ituloy. Yung decision ko, di pa consistent,” Jazz recounts.

    Reese’s surgery was finally scheduled to November 4.

    “Ang gulo ng isip ko nun. Yung husband ko yung nagpupush na gawin kung ano yung makakabuti kay Reese. November 2, na-admit na siya. November 4, na-operahan na siya. Sobrang smooth lang.”

    “The night before, nandun na yung mga waiver, mas lalo ako kinabahan kasi pwede daw magkaproblema sa nervous system, ma-paralyze or magka-infection. Lahat ng possibilities. Sila yung pinaka at risk, pero at the same time, sila din yung pinakamagandang operahan kasi yung puso nila bago pa, if ever may mga adjustment, mabilis silang maka-cope up.”

    She spoke to Reese’s pedia-cardio, who said there’s a 94% success rate with her condition.

    “Binago ni Reese yung buhay namin in so many ways. Mas lumakas yung faith namin. ‘Yun rin siguro yung way ni Lord para mapalapit kami sa Kanya.”

    – Mommy Jazz Alvendia

    “7 AM bumaba na kami. Nung time na yun, di ako takot na takot. Mas stressed na stressed yung mga lola, lalo na yung mother ko na nasa US, kasi anak niya ako tapos wala siya sa tabi ko. Yung mother-in-law ko, naghi-hysterical na. Ako, ang gaan. Pinagaan ni Lord. Hindi ako natatakot anong mangyayari.

    Strong baby! Reese underwent an open heart surgery at 5 months old.

    10 AM palang tapos na. Ang bilis. Lumabas yung surgeon, all good na. Nagulat sila na ang laki na daw ng butas. Sabi nila, “Buti nag-decide kayo na ipaopera siya.”

    12 NN, pwede na silipin si baby sa surgical ICU. Nakita ko siya, bilang nanay, ang daming tubo, may mga aparato.”

    While Reese had a successful operation, things took a turn when she had a fever.

    “Nagkaroon siya ng sepsis, nilagnat siya bigla. Ang taas ng bacteria na nakita sa blood niya.”

    They spent about 20 more days in the hospital.

    “Nagtatanong ako, bakit hindi siya nagrerespond? Bakit hindi siya nagsasmile? Sobrang dami rin niyang antibiotic.”

    Reese’s doctor assured her that they were doing their best.

    They celebrated Reese’s 6th month at the hospital.

    “After four days, tsaka lang siya ulit nag-smile. Tuwang-tuwa ako nung nag-smile siya tapos dumedede na siya. Takot na takot ako makita yung scar niya, pero nagulat ako, pagtingin ko sa sugat, tuyo na siya. Ganun pala kabilis mag-heal kapag baby pa. Doon na kami nagkaroon ng pag-asa, kahit may antibiotics pa siya, okay na si baby.

    “Nung gabi na iuuwi na siya, dinaan namin siya sa chapel ng Heart Center. Ang saya saya ko lang, kasi ang bilis lang din ng recovery niya.

    November siya inoperahan, dineklara siya na fully healed na and wala nang maintenance by March.”

    Happy 1st birthday, Reese!

    Reese celebrated her first birthday on May 16, and Jazz shared her Bagong Nanay story three days after.

    Three things Jazz learned about a mother’s love and a child’s strength

    Jazz and her family. Photo by Baby and Company Photography

    A mother’s love is limitless

    “Ibibigay mo pala talaga lahat, pag nanay ka na. Nung time na yun, first time ko yung nanghihingi ako ng tulong sa iba-ibang tao, pumipila ako sa DSWD, sa mga party list, sa mga pulitiko. Kaya pag sinasabi nila na grabe daw ako mag-dress up ngayon, ang gaganda daw ng damit ko. Naranasan ko nasi na ako talaga nag-aasikaso sa mga papers niya. Hindi ko in-expect na sa buong buhay ko, gagawin ko yun. Nilunok ko yung pride ko, naming mag-asawa, kasi para sa baby namin yun eh.”

    “It’s okay to ask for help sa ibang tao, hindi siya pagiging weak o what, kakailanganin mo talaga ng tulong. Hindi mo kakayanin ng mag-isa ka lang.”

    – Mommy Jazz Alvendia

    Faith over fear

    “Binago ni Reese yung buhay namin in so many ways. Mas lumakas yung faith namin. ‘Yun rin siguro yung way ni Lord para mapalapit kami sa Kanya. Naging faith over fear ako noon, kasi wala naman akong ibang paghuhugutan ng lakas or sasandalan. Talagang kumapit nalang ako sa Kanya, nagtiwala ako sa Kanya, kung ano yung plans Niya para sa amin. Kami rin ni MJ mas tumibay kami kasi every time mag-aaway kami, naaalala ko, meron kaming mas malaking laban na dapat harapin.”

    Babies are braver than we think

    “Ang galing ng babies. Yung ine-expect natin, na pag babies delicate sila, nakita ko yung version ni Reese na sobrang lakas niya. Madaming nagsasabi wag namin ipa-opera. Pero nagtiwala rin kami sa science, sa mga doktor, at kay Reese.”

    Jazz’s message to her Bagong Nanay self

    “Nakaka-proud ka. Noong time na nalaman ko na pregnant ako, one sem nalang sana tapos OJT. Tapos sa US sana ako mag-OJT kasi andun yung mother ko. Parang nirepurpose ako. Ngayon na-realize ko para dito siguro pala talaga ako, para maging mother. Makikita mo palang yung best version ng sarili mo.

    The Alvendias. Photo by Baby and Company Photography

    “Hindi ko inakala na ganyan ka pala ka-strong. Kasi young mom, tapos five months postpartum palang din naman ako noon, sabi ko, di pa nga nag-si-sink in sa akin na mother na ako dahil ang bilis din ng pregnancy journey ko. Sobrang proud ako sa kanya, na-overcome niya lahat, may mas better version pa pala ako. Hindi lang pala ako anak, hindi lang pala ako yung magaling na classmate, or girlfriend, magiging magaling ka rin pala na mother.”

    An advice she holds deeply

    There’s one advice that Jazz received when she was a Bagong Nanay that she will forever cherish, “Nung nalaman na namin na may heart condition si Reese, may nagsabi sa akin na parang “There’s always a light at the end of the tunnel.”

    ‘Yun yung talagang ni-look forward ko, matatapos din to, kahit ang bagal ng oras pag may problema ka, parang kailan ba ‘to matatapos, malalagpasan ba namin to? Pinanghawakan ko talaga na after nito, ginhawa naman. Pagsubok lang to. Hanggang ngayon, pag may mga mothers na nakakausap ko na struggle sila sa first year ng motherhood nila, lagi ko sinasabi na there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel.

    Naging meaningful niya sa akin. Noong nandun ako sa situation na sobrang bigat, sinasabi ko kay MJ, “Paano pag nawala si Reese?” Lahat ng possibilities kasi pwede. Sabi niya, “Malalagpasan rin natin ito.”

    3 things a Bagong Nanay needs to thrive in motherhood

    “Every mom needs a village talaga.”

    Jazz believes that what helped her get through the hardest parts of her motherhood journey was her support system.

    “Kakailanganin mo talaga ng tulong, kahit anong pride mo. Nung mag-jowa palang kami, ang taas ng pride namin eh. Bata pa kasi kami, kaya ma-pride kami. Sabi namin, ‘Wag tayo magpost, wag tayo humingi ng tulong,’ pero kinailangan namin. It’s okay to ask for help sa ibang tao, hindi siya pagiging weak o what, kakailanganin mo talaga ng tulong.”

    For Bagong Nanays, she emphasizes, “Pwedeng family mo yun, or kung hindi ka comfortable sa family mo, maghanap ka ng isang friend, kahit isang friend lang, o kung wala talaga, pwedeng husband mo, o kung wala din, sa sisters mo. Kailangan mo talaga ng village.”

    Mama Jazz and her family.

    She adds, “Hindi mo kakayanin ng mag-isa ka lang. Siguro kakayanin, pero may times talaga na, kinailangan ko talagang humingi ng tulong.”

    “Nagtiwala din ako sa husband ko.”

    Throughout her pregnancy, Jazz said she had been calling the shots as a mother. “May decisions na gusto ko ako lang. Pero noong nalaman ko na may sakit si Reese, kailangan ko rin ng kaagapay sa mga decisions. Hindi katulad nung nagbubuntis ako na, ‘Wag niyo ako pagsabihan, ayoko sa pamahiin, ayoko sa kasabihan. Ayoko nang minamanduhan ako.’ Na-realize ko na dapat mag-trust ka sa partner mo, kasi as the father, meron din siyang dapat say sa mga decisions.”

    “Kailangan mo si Lord sa buhay mo.”

    With all they went through, Jazz always points to God. “Kahit anong problema, kapag wala ka nang mapuntahan o mahingan ng tulong, Siya lang yung nandiyan para makinig sayo. Sa Kanya ka lang kakapit.”

    “Hindi rin ako makapaniwala na naging ganun ka-strong yung faith ko sa Kanya, kasi kung hindi, baka hindi naoperahan si Reese kung nagtiwala lang ako sa sarili ko.”

    What makes Jazz happy as a mom

    Jazz has been sharing her motherhood as a content creator, sharing daily vlogs, product reviews, and more on her social. When asked what makes her happy, she says it’s being part of a community.

    “Sobrang saya ko na nakakaattend ako ng meet-ups kasi nagkakaroon ako ng time para sa sarili ko. Ang saya kapag may kasama kang mom friends kasi sila yung nakakarelate. Masaya ako ngayon sa mom friends ko, mommy gatherings, mommy meetups. Masaya ako na naging part ako ng Bagong Nanay Community. Na-meet ko si Mama Frances, siya yung naging way para maging member ako ng Bagong Nanay noong HiPP Mommy Meetup.”

    She adds, as a young mom, being part of a support group helps her to feel less alone in her journey.

    “Mas hindi na ako intimidated ngayon kasi alam kong may Bagong Nanay Community na papansin sa akin, makikipag-usap sa akin, at magaaya sa akin mag-milk tea.”

    Follow Mommy Jazz’s journey on her socials: Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | Threads

    Are you a Bagong Nanay who wants to have a mom community and have milk tea together? Comment below or send a message here.

  • We Tried Kubo’s Free Trial Class on Reading, Filipino Sign Language, and More

    We Tried Kubo’s Free Trial Class on Reading, Filipino Sign Language, and More

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Patapos na ang summer vacation ng ating kids, and as a nanay of an incoming Grade 2, andiyan na yung thoughts like, “Paano na kaya this school year? Maging as bibo kaya siya as before? What if mahirapan siya?”

    But then, we’ll never know! We take it one day at a time, and we’ll arrive at the end for sure, feeling proud of what we’ve accomplished together.

    For now, I wanted to share with you about an online learning platform I discovered recently. I received an email from Mommy Ericka Gonzales Macasaquit, founder of Kubo Learning Center, earlier this month. She offered my 6-year-old a free trial class! They offer online classes on Reading in English and Filipino, Mathematics, and Filipino Sign Language, among others. The last one piqued our interest.

    When Lia was younger, we loved reading a book entitled Every Sunday, written by Och Gonzalez and illustrated by CJ Reynaldo. It tells about the story of Kuya Berto, an ice cream vendor who is Deaf. A little girl started learning how to sign so she can order ice cream from him. Thus, may interest and context na si Lia about sign language and the Deaf community.

    Kaya when she tried the 20-minute Filipino Sign Language online trial class with Kubo, she loved it a lot, and we wanted to take additional classes!

    Bagong Nanay Reviews: Kubo Learning Center

    1-on-1 class

    What we loved about the session is that it was customized for the child. Before the session, they sent me a list of questions to answer about my child so that they can tailor-fit the class for her. We’ve tried group online classes before, and medyo kagulo siya. But this one, it’s one-on-one so it really held space for the child to focus and learn.

    No-fuss free trial class

    After sending the details, Kubo sent me a Google Calendar with the video call link. On the day, I just set up my laptop with a webcam in a quiet room with Lia, and on her scheduled time, the teacher started the class without needing my help.

    child doing kubo learning center free trial sign language class filipino
    Lia during her free online Filipino sign language trial class at Kubo Learning Center

    The teacher was kind and communicative

    What I loved about Kubo’s class is that Teacher Q was good at communicating with children. Based on his background, he’s only 20 years old, and he instantly connected with my daughter. He explained the instructions well and proceeded with the lesson smoothly. There was no dull moment and he was interacting with her throughout the 20-minute class.

    Lia’s FSL teacher, Coach Q! Courtesy: Facebook /Kubo Learning Center

    The trial class was informative enough!

    I was surprised that after 20 minutes, my daughter was able to understand why it’s important to learn how to sign in Filipino, know and remember how to sign vowels, and have her own sign name. After the class, my daughter got her journal and took notes! So cute.

    If we plan to proceed with the full session, Kubo will send the full lesson plan with the rates. You may choose lang from the sessions what you like or take the whole course.

    Watch Lia’s full review on TikTok here.

    Our verdict: Must-try!

    Talking to Mommy Ericka, who is a mom of two and business consultant based in California, USA, she started Kubo to make her kids familiar and stay connected with the Filipino culture and heritage, even when they are growing abroad.

    “Every class was tested by my kids to make sure that they are valuable,” she said. “We made Kubo classes online, so that they can learn comfortably from home, wherever they are in the world.”

    If you want to try Kubo’s online trial classes for FREE, message them on Instagram or Facebook.

  • Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    If you are active on Threads like me, you might have come across some of the courageous and heartfelt posts of Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, mom of three and founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. I’ve been following her and read her journey as a mom and a cancer warrior.

    Kaya na-shookt ako one morning when I was contemplating whose business I could feature on Bagong Nanay Biz this April, sobrang sakto, Irish sent me a DM asking me if she can collaborate with me. I mean, it’s a yes. It’s really meant to be.

    Therefore, it’s my honor and privilege to share her inspiring business story for this month’s Bagong Nanay Biz. Please read til the end to get an exclusive voucher!

    In Her Own Words: How Irish Chloe Yu started Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I am Irish Chloe Yu, a 31-year-old mother of three beautiful children, ages 7, 5, and 2. My professional foundation is in Financial Management and Business Administration, and I previously spent years in the corporate world as a bank teller and a telco account executive.

    However, my heart has always been in entrepreneurship; I have been a business owner from different industries for nearly a decade now, and am the proud founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. 

    Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    How a cancer diagnosis started a brand

    Bloom was born out of a very personal struggle. For a long time, I lived a life of “trial and error” with menstrual products because of my health battles. I have endometrial polyps, which caused me to bleed for up to 20 days a month, and as a thyroid cancer warrior, my hormonal health was a constant uphill climb.

    “I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    -Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I remembered how my nanay started me on pasador (menstrual cloth), and I spent years searching for a modern product that offered that same level of breathability, gentleness, and care.

    Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yun

    I actually found the courage to start this business right when I was diagnosed with cancer. Instead of letting the fear consume me, I chose to focus on healing and creating a solution that had a deeper purpose. I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    Lessons from being a mom and businessowner

    I’ve learned that business is a reflection of motherhood: both require you to slow down, be deeply intentional, and lead with a clear purpose. There is a certain grace in both roles that forces you to look for the “gift of God” in every challenge.

    Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves,” says Irish Chloe Yu. | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    Motherhood taught me that you cannot rush growth, and business taught me that every small effort is a seed planted for the future. Both have shown me that when you lead with love, success is no longer just about numbers it’s about the lives you touch. 

    Why moms should try Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    During my journey, I discovered a harsh reality: many sanitary pads are made with chlorine and whiteners that are far too harsh for our bodies. I engineered Bloom specifically with the Filipina in mind. We live in a warm climate, so I prioritized breathable materials and eliminated all harmful chemicals.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    We used Hard Lock Technology to ensure that blood never “bounces back,” combined with an ultra-thin design for maximum comfort.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    As moms, we carry so much on our shoulders already our menstrual care should be one thing we don’t have to worry about. Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves. We’ve made it with extra love because your comfort is non-negotiable.

    Advice for Bagong Nanays who also want to start a business

    1. Start by going back to the Source.

    If God placed a specific idea in your heart, it is because He has already entrusted you with the strength and knowledge to bring it to life.

    2. Don’t be afraid to start small.

    There is so much beauty in the humble beginnings. Enjoy every part of the process, and remember that failure isn’t a dead end, it’s just a part of growing.

    3. Never forget to rest.

    As driven as we are, we must remember that rest is not a sign of weakness; it is a luxury and a necessity that keeps our spirits fueled for the journey. 

    Exclusive Bloom discount code for Bagong Nanays!

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    I would love for you to experience the comfort of Bloom! Use this code to start your journey toward better self-care when you checked out in our Shopee account. Use the code below for 10% OFF all products:

    Voucher Code: BLOOMBN 

    Purchase Bloom Sanitary Napkin on Shopee here. Follow their social media pages on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

  • Herschel Del Castillo: Surviving Postpartum Cardiomyopathy

    Herschel Del Castillo: Surviving Postpartum Cardiomyopathy

    Trigger warning: near death experience

    This Bagong Nanay experienced postpartum cardiomyopathy, a type of heart failure that occurs after pregnancy.

    Content note: This article discusses a near-death experience.

    I met Herschel and her sister Terese in one of the HiPP Mommy Meetups. When Terese shared a bit about Herschel’s story while waiting for her to arrive, I was so excited to meet her, because knowing what happened to her, pwedeng hindi na kami nag-meet. But then I met her. She is alive, healthy and a testimony of God’s grace and faithfulness.

    In a study published in The Lancet, this heart disease has been a cause of maternal and neonatal deaths, with only half of women experiencing complete myocardial recovery within 6 months of the onset of symptoms. Postpartum depression is common, but this one? We need to raise awareness about this.

    So in celebration of Women’s Month, I invited Herschel to share her story. And she did. In between naps and pedia check-ups for her 1 year old boy, she wrote this with her whole heart.

    Read on, Bagong Nanay. Share this to every pregnant mama you know.

    A second chance at life

    On January 25, 2025, Herschel posted this on Instagram:

    “It’s been a month since I got discharged from the hospital.

    No words can explain what happened to me and to our family last year, lots of blessings and challenges, but I never thought that I would spend the last few days of 2024 in the hospital.

    November 9, I gave birth to Baby Boy Del Castillo.

    November 12, went home with our little one.

    November 16, a week after giving birth, I was rushed to the ER due to an alarming heart rate. I was initially diagnosed with pneumonia and hypokalemia. That same day, I knew that I already have a heart failure, and I had no memories of the following days since.

    November 18, I was intubated and put in ICU due to postpartum cardiomyopathy.

    Herschel and her baby boy. | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    I stayed in the ICU for 2 weeks. During my time there, I didn’t know I was in my worst possible condition and almost died. It was by God’s faithfulness and grace that I got extubated on November 23. Stayed in there for a few more days and was transferred to telemetry on December 1. And again, stayed there for two more weeks for further monitoring and rehab. I realized that I lost so much weight, cannot stand on my own, and have no appetite. Then, I was transferred to a regular room because my doctors already saw my improvement.

    A day before Christmas is the day I came back home.

    I want to thank God for my second life.

    Thanks to my family, friends, churchmates, and everyone around us who prayed for me and helped us to get through these times of hardship.

    Kuwentong Bagong Nanay: Herschel Del Castillo

    When people ask me about my motherhood journey, I usually tell them that I had postpartum cardiomyopathy and that I’m still in the process of recovering. It’s something I don’t hide, because for me, it’s also a testimony of how good and faithful God has been in my life, in our lives.

    Herschel’s maternity shoot photo | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    Looking back, I can really say it was a miracle. There were so many moments when things could have gone differently, but God carried us through.

    “Listen to your body, and don’t hesitate to seek medical help.” -Mommy Hershel Del Castillo

    As for the parts I haven’t shared… honestly, parang naikwento ko na rin lahat along the way. Siguro because going through something like that changes you—you become more open, more grateful, and more willing to share your story.

    An uncommon postpartum disease

    Postpartum cardiomyopathy isn’t something you hear about often, which is why it caught me by surprise. What’s even more tricky is that the symptoms I experienced at the time like hingal and pamamanas are actually very common in pregnancy. Nothing felt alarming at first.

    It was only later on that things became serious.

    Herschel in 2024 | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    If there’s one thing I wish I had known before becoming a nanay, it would be the importance of really looking into your medical history. We actually have a family history of heart disease, but I didn’t get to disclose it to my OB because it happened a long time ago.

    I sometimes wonder maybe if I had done a 2D echo during pregnancy, things could have been detected earlier, and maybe hindi na lumala. That’s something I carry with me now, not as regret, but as a lesson.

    What she’s grateful for

    In this season of my life, I am most grateful for a second chance. I truly believe that God gave me a second life, and I don’t take that lightly.

    I’m also deeply grateful for my son. Becoming his mom changed me in ways I didn’t expect—it made me stronger, more resilient, and more intentional.

    Herschel and her son, Fionn | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    And of course, I will always be thankful for our families and friends who stood by us during the hardest time in our lives. Their support reminded me that we were never alone.

    Her message to her Bagong Nanay self

    If I could talk to my Bagong Nanay self, the version of me who was just entering motherhood and going through childbirth, I would simply say:

    “You’re doing a great job. Ang laki na ng pinagbago mo. You’re becoming stronger every day.”

    Because at that time, I didn’t fully realize how much I was already enduring and overcoming. I was just trying to survive each day.

    Herchel’s message to Bagong Nanays

    If there’s one lesson I would want to share with other Bagong Nanays, it’s this: listen to your body and don’t hesitate to seek medical help.

    Sobrang daming changes sa katawan natin during and after pregnancy, and it’s easy to assume that everything is normal. But sometimes, what we think is “normal” could already be a sign that something is wrong.

    Herschel’s family. | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    So if there’s anything that feels off—magpa-check up. It’s always better to be sure, especially when it comes to your health. Because as mothers, taking care of ourselves is also a way of taking care of our families.


    About the Bagong Nanay: I am Herschel Del Castillo from Antipolo City, Rizal. I am the Bagong Nanay of Fionn, who is 16 months old. Outside motherhood, I’m a financial control analyst. I also serve in our church’s music ministry as a guitarist and bassist.

  • Musings habang gumagawa ng salad

    Musings habang gumagawa ng salad

    Hi, Bagong Nanay.

    Raw and unfiltered ito. Gusto ko lang isulat dahil may oras ako.


    “I feel such a sense of loss when I think of the great, unwritten poems that took a backseat to polished floors.”

    -Brigid Schulte, “A Woman’s Greatest Enemy? A Lack of Time for Herself,” The Guardian.com

    Ang dami kong gustong isulat na istorya.

    Teka, pupunuin ko muna itong bote ng tubig.

    Istorya ng araw-araw na buhay bilang isang nanay.

    Marahil simple at hindi marangya, pero hindi ba’t nakakatuwa na nabubuhay ka at naisusulat ito.

    Baka mapanis na ang pagkain sa ref, kainin ko na kaya?

    Pero magsusulat muna ako ng istorya.

    May panahon na akala ko hindi ko na maaabutan ang araw na ito.

    Day off ko, tahimik sa sala, naghanda ako ng baong salad para sa asawa kong papasok sa opisina.

    Sa unang pagkakataon, habang ginagayat ko ang lettuce na bigay ng kapitbahay at pinipili ang pinakamagagandang dahon para sa baon, kumuha din ako ng lalagyan para sa akin. Tinanggal ko ang maiitim na lettuce, ang bilis nila masira! Nilagay ko ang karamihan ng magagandang dahon sa baunan ni Tatay, at kumuha rin ako ng kaunti para sa akin.

    Hindi, marami akong kinuhang magandang dahon para sa akin.

    Kung anong laman ng salad ni Tatay ay ganun din ang laman ng salad ko. Hindi lang pinagtabasan, hindi lang tira. Hindi lang yung sira na. Nilagyan ko din ng sesame oil, kahit alam kong mahal yun. Pati Himalayan salt. Kumain ako ng mag-isa sa sala. Payapa, dahil nagpapaaraw ang aking anak na isa kasama ng kanyang yaya. Yung isa naman ay tulog pa sa taas, katabi ng pinsan niya.

    Kaunting kuwento: alam kong lahat ng hinahanda kong pagkain para sa mister ko ay kinukuhanan niya ng litrato. Mapa-ulam, merienda, o kahit ano. Napaisip tuloy ako, “Pag namatay ba ako, may slideshow din ng mga pagkaing niluto ko?”

    Teka, iaakyat ko muna itong maduming pajama. Ay, mamaya na. Lalasapin ko muna ang sandaling ito. Inaantay kong bumaba si Tatay, dahil kapag nakita ko na siya, makikita na niya ako. Nandito ako, ang kanyang asawa at nanay ng mga anak niya, buhay at masaya.

    Payapa. Tahimik. Magaan. Buhay.

    Kaya habang nagpupuno ako ng basyo, dahil naiabot ko na kay Tatay ang baon niya, naisip ko, “Bakit hindi kaya ako magsulat ng istorya?”

    At ang istorya ng aking buhay ay isang bagay na hindi kailanman maisusulat ng kahit sino, kahit pa AI.

    Kaya umakyat ako, pumwesto sa aking mesa, binuksan ko ang aking matandang laptop na nauna pa sa aking kasaysayan bilang ina.

    Sumulat ako ng istorya habang tahimik pa, at habang naaalala ko pa.

    Ang istorya na naisulat ko ay kung paanong nandito pa ako sa oras na ito, kahit na napakaraming beses na inisip ko noon na sana wala na.

    Ito ang pinakamagandang istorya ng buhay ko: Iniligtas ako ng Diyos.

    At kung nasa panahon ka ngayon na magulo, madilim, at walang kasiguraduhan, pumanatag ka:

    Hindi ka lang nanay.

    Anak ka rin Niya.


    Judy

    PS. Habang buhay ako, medyo mga ganitong content ang gagawin ko. Labyu all.

  • A Bagong Nanay Tested 11 Newborn Diaper Brands for Her Baby—Here’s Her Review

    A Bagong Nanay Tested 11 Newborn Diaper Brands for Her Baby—Here’s Her Review

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    So in our Bagong Nanay Viber group, a mom shared that she’s selling trial packs of diapers for newborn. I asked her if she wanted to share her review with Bagong Nanay so more moms would know, and she happily shared her detailed diaper review.

    Mommy Quincherville Villanueva is a Bagong Nanay of a 6-week-old baby. She’s a pastry chef, too! She told Bagong Nanay that she wanted to try different diaper brands before buying a lot because she wanted to know which would work best for her budget and for her baby. “I realized through this na affordable doesn’t always mean better for the budget. The more premium ones requires less diaper changes and less leaks and blowouts,” she said.

    So here’s Mommy Quincherville’s review of 10 diaper brands, Bagong Nanays. Sharing is caring, indeed!

    11 Newborn Diaper Brands Review by Bagong Nanay Quincherville Villanueva

    Not in photo: Baby Pal diaper | Courtesy of Quincherville Villanueva

    Legend:

    🌙 – great for daytime and nightime
    ☀️ – great for daytime use
    🛒 – Affordable
    💵 – Pricey
    💦 – No leak
    🪽- cotton soft

    1. Kleenfant ☀️🛒🪽

    Price is affordable. Interior and exterior has a nice cotton feel. Comparable to cloth diapers. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. This diaper is ideal for daytime use. Gets full pretty quickly. Has a pee indicator but no back garter or stretch. Potential to leak upwards.

    Personal Rating based on experience: 6/10

    2. Inspi Babies ☀️🛒🪽

      Price is affordable. Interior and exterior has a nice cotton feel. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. Comparable to cloth diapers but lesser quality than Kleenfant but almost similar feel (same manufacturing). This diaper is ideal for daytime use. Gets full pretty quickly. Has a pee indicator but no back garter or stretch as well. Potential to leak upwards.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 6/10

      3. Huggies Skin Perfect 💦🛒🌙

      Price is unexpectedly affordable for an international brand. Interior is soft but unlike Inspi Babies and Kleenfant, the texture is not cotton-soft like cloth diapers. This is a good option for sensitive skin babies for overnight use. Has a pee indicator and a stretchy back. Great for wide butt babies.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 8/10

      4. Unilove Airpro 🪽🛒☀️

      Price is affordable. The diaper has a light cottony texture perfect for the hot weather. This diaper tends to get full easily so it is recommended for daytime use. The diaper is also ideal for photoshoots since the diaper is thin, it won’t show up under costumes. They also have smaller sized diapers for preemie babies which is uncommon. Unlike Inspi Babies and Kleenfant, this diaper has a stretchy back and a pee indicator as well.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 7/10

      5. Moosegear 💦🛒☀️🪽

      Price for quality is really good. It is affordable and has a good cottony feel. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. Works great during the day. Can be used at night but tends to get full easily if with poop. I used this the longest for my baby before trying more premium brands worked great and did not hurt my budget. Sizing is quite small so don’t buy too much of one size.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 8/10

      6. Baby Pal 🛒☀️

      I saw these online and they are one of the cheapest in the market. Usually sold as buy 1, get 1. If your mindset is diapers don’t need to be high quality because it will just be thrown out, then this is for you. It is really a low quality diaper with a more plasticky feel. It is very thin and not great with absorbing poop. I was just curious to try it because it offered a good price. If you plan to use this, save it for a day time diaper and buy a better quality one for night time use. Has a pee indicator.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 1/10

      7. Aiwibi 🌙💵🪽

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Softest diaper I have tried. Great for very sensitive skin. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is alot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Can be used for night time and can tolerate pee however, if there is alot of poop it tends to leak. No garterized back so tendency to leak towards the back can happen. Has a pee indicator

      Personal Rating based on experience: 7/10

      8. Hoppi Royal 🌙💵🪽💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Texture is close to Huggies Skin Perfect but way softer but not as soft as Aiwibi. Great for very sensitive skin. Similar to Aiwibi, it has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since almost no poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks and sizing is not small. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 10/10

      9. Rascals 💵🌙💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Interior texture is soft but exterior feels a bit plastic for me. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks but sizing is quite small. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 9/10

      10. EQ Premium 🌙💵💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Interior and Exterior texture is soft. Similar to the premium diapers above, it has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks if you buy the correct size but sizing is quite small so don’t buy too much of one size. Has a pee indicator and garterized back. Cute design, too.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 9/10

      11. Millie Moon 🌙💵💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium. Texture feels similar to EQ Premium. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since almost no poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks and great for nightime use. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 10/10

      Newborn Diaper Brands Review Summary

      Personally, I prefer Hoppi Royal and Millie Moon. The quality justifies the price. However, every baby is different so it really boils down to which your baby prefers. Thankfully my baby does not have any sensitivities so I was able to try all these brands and be able to share with everyone the pros and cons of each without any biases.

      Everything I have shared here is mainly based on our experience. I purchased several brands trying to figure out which brand will work for my baby and not break the bank. I sell trial packs with these brands for you to find out yourself which will work for your baby. I am just sharing my experience with these brands for you to have an idea of which might work out for you but it is best to try the diapers on your child than merely basing on reviews. Hope this helps!

      About the Bagong Nanay

      Mommy Quincherville Villanueva is a Bagong Nanay of one. She is still selling newborn diaper trial packs for P180 (instead of P220) or 3 packs for P500 because they are moving out soon. Contact Mommy Quinch on Instagram at @mommacuddlesmnl.

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    1. Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway Winners!

      Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway Winners!

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      As we close February, we are happy to announce the winners of our first giveaway for 2026 in collaboration with Mommy Yane Cuarto of Elisha & Eliana.

      Ang saya namin kasi daming sumali, to the point na may nag-create pa ng fake account dahil sa taas ng engagement (wow) haha.

      With no further ado, here are the winners! Read til the end kasi may mga pasabog!

      Winners of Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway

      Congratulations to Mommy Sham Cabile (@sham.cabile) for winning 1 KNITTED SWEATER for your baby!


      …and Mommy Patricia Jamo-ay (@mommypat_) for winning 1 MOM AND BABY MATCHING SHIRTS with custom handsewn prints!

      But wait – there’s more!

      We’re giving away a bonus MOM SHIRT with custom handsewn print to another mom! Congratulations to Mommy Louise Jade Ballesteros (@mommy_jadey)!

      More, more winners!

      And because natuwa kami ni Mommy Yane sa mga sagot ng mommies, we are giving away 5% off vouchers to these 5 lucky mommies, when you order from Elisha & Eliana

      How to claim your prize

      For all winners, please send me a message on Instagram (@bagongnanay) on how you can receive your prize. As mentioned in the mechanics, shipping fee will be shouldered by the winner (items will be coming from Cavite, delivered through J&T).

      Thanks so much, mamas! See you in our Bagong Nanay Community on Viber for more pasabog this 2026.

      Love,

      Nanay Judy of Bagong Nanay

      and Mommy Yane of Elisha & Eliana


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      Read about how Mommy Yane started her handsewn clothing biz here.