Author: Bagong Nanay

  • Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    If you are active on Threads like me, you might have come across some of the courageous and heartfelt posts of Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, mom of three and founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. I’ve been following her and read her journey as a mom and a cancer warrior.

    Kaya na-shookt ako one morning when I was contemplating whose business I could feature on Bagong Nanay Biz this April, sobrang sakto, Irish sent me a DM asking me if she can collaborate with me. I mean, it’s a yes. It’s really meant to be.

    Therefore, it’s my honor and privilege to share her inspiring business story for this month’s Bagong Nanay Biz. Please read til the end to get an exclusive voucher!

    In Her Own Words: How Irish Chloe Yu started Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I am Irish Chloe Yu, a 31-year-old mother of three beautiful children, ages 7, 5, and 2. My professional foundation is in Financial Management and Business Administration, and I previously spent years in the corporate world as a bank teller and a telco account executive.

    However, my heart has always been in entrepreneurship; I have been a business owner from different industries for nearly a decade now, and am the proud founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. 

    Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    How a cancer diagnosis started a brand

    Bloom was born out of a very personal struggle. For a long time, I lived a life of “trial and error” with menstrual products because of my health battles. I have endometrial polyps, which caused me to bleed for up to 20 days a month, and as a thyroid cancer warrior, my hormonal health was a constant uphill climb.

    “I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    -Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I remembered how my nanay started me on pasador (menstrual cloth), and I spent years searching for a modern product that offered that same level of breathability, gentleness, and care.

    Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yun

    I actually found the courage to start this business right when I was diagnosed with cancer. Instead of letting the fear consume me, I chose to focus on healing and creating a solution that had a deeper purpose. I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    Lessons from being a mom and businessowner

    I’ve learned that business is a reflection of motherhood: both require you to slow down, be deeply intentional, and lead with a clear purpose. There is a certain grace in both roles that forces you to look for the “gift of God” in every challenge.

    Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves,” says Irish Chloe Yu. | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    Motherhood taught me that you cannot rush growth, and business taught me that every small effort is a seed planted for the future. Both have shown me that when you lead with love, success is no longer just about numbers it’s about the lives you touch. 

    Why moms should try Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    During my journey, I discovered a harsh reality: many sanitary pads are made with chlorine and whiteners that are far too harsh for our bodies. I engineered Bloom specifically with the Filipina in mind. We live in a warm climate, so I prioritized breathable materials and eliminated all harmful chemicals.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    We used Hard Lock Technology to ensure that blood never “bounces back,” combined with an ultra-thin design for maximum comfort.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    As moms, we carry so much on our shoulders already our menstrual care should be one thing we don’t have to worry about. Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves. We’ve made it with extra love because your comfort is non-negotiable.

    Advice for Bagong Nanays who also want to start a business

    1. Start by going back to the Source.

    If God placed a specific idea in your heart, it is because He has already entrusted you with the strength and knowledge to bring it to life.

    2. Don’t be afraid to start small.

    There is so much beauty in the humble beginnings. Enjoy every part of the process, and remember that failure isn’t a dead end, it’s just a part of growing.

    3. Never forget to rest.

    As driven as we are, we must remember that rest is not a sign of weakness; it is a luxury and a necessity that keeps our spirits fueled for the journey. 

    Exclusive Bloom discount code for Bagong Nanays!

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    I would love for you to experience the comfort of Bloom! Use this code to start your journey toward better self-care when you checked out in our Shopee account. Use the code below for 10% OFF all products:

    Voucher Code: BLOOMBN 

    Purchase Bloom Sanitary Napkin on Shopee here. Follow their social media pages on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

  • Surviving Postpartum Cardiomyopathy: Herschel Del Castillo

    Surviving Postpartum Cardiomyopathy: Herschel Del Castillo

    Trigger warning: near death experience

    This Bagong Nanay experienced postpartum cardiomyopathy, a type of heart failure that occurs after pregnancy.

    Content note: This article discusses a near-death experience.

    I met Herschel and her sister Terese in one of the HiPP Mommy Meetups. When Terese shared a bit about Herschel’s story while waiting for her to arrive, I was so excited to meet her, because knowing what happened to her, pwedeng hindi na kami nag-meet. But then I met her. She is alive, healthy and a testimony of God’s grace and faithfulness.

    In a study published in The Lancet, this heart disease has been a cause of maternal and neonatal deaths, with only half of women experiencing complete myocardial recovery within 6 months of the onset of symptoms. Postpartum depression is common, but this one? We need to raise awareness about this.

    So in celebration of Women’s Month, I invited Herschel to share her story. And she did. In between naps and pedia check-ups for her 1 year old boy, she wrote this with her whole heart.

    Read on, Bagong Nanay. Share this to every pregnant mama you know.

    A second chance at life

    On January 25, 2025, Herschel posted this on Instagram:

    “It’s been a month since I got discharged from the hospital.

    No words can explain what happened to me and to our family last year, lots of blessings and challenges, but I never thought that I would spend the last few days of 2024 in the hospital.

    November 9, I gave birth to Baby Boy Del Castillo.

    November 12, went home with our little one.

    November 16, a week after giving birth, I was rushed to the ER due to an alarming heart rate. I was initially diagnosed with pneumonia and hypokalemia. That same day, I knew that I already have a heart failure, and I had no memories of the following days since.

    November 18, I was intubated and put in ICU due to postpartum cardiomyopathy.

    Herschel and her baby boy. | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    I stayed in the ICU for 2 weeks. During my time there, I didn’t know I was in my worst possible condition and almost died. It was by God’s faithfulness and grace that I got extubated on November 23. Stayed in there for a few more days and was transferred to telemetry on December 1. And again, stayed there for two more weeks for further monitoring and rehab. I realized that I lost so much weight, cannot stand on my own, and have no appetite. Then, I was transferred to a regular room because my doctors already saw my improvement.

    A day before Christmas is the day I came back home.

    I want to thank God for my second life.

    Thanks to my family, friends, churchmates, and everyone around us who prayed for me and helped us to get through these times of hardship.

    Kuwentong Bagong Nanay: Herschel Del Castillo

    When people ask me about my motherhood journey, I usually tell them that I had postpartum cardiomyopathy and that I’m still in the process of recovering. It’s something I don’t hide, because for me, it’s also a testimony of how good and faithful God has been in my life, in our lives.

    Herschel’s maternity shoot photo | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    Looking back, I can really say it was a miracle. There were so many moments when things could have gone differently, but God carried us through.

    “Listen to your body, and don’t hesitate to seek medical help.” -Mommy Hershel Del Castillo

    As for the parts I haven’t shared… honestly, parang naikwento ko na rin lahat along the way. Siguro because going through something like that changes you—you become more open, more grateful, and more willing to share your story.

    An uncommon postpartum disease

    Postpartum cardiomyopathy isn’t something you hear about often, which is why it caught me by surprise. What’s even more tricky is that the symptoms I experienced at the time like hingal and pamamanas are actually very common in pregnancy. Nothing felt alarming at first.

    It was only later on that things became serious.

    Herschel in 2024 | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    If there’s one thing I wish I had known before becoming a nanay, it would be the importance of really looking into your medical history. We actually have a family history of heart disease, but I didn’t get to disclose it to my OB because it happened a long time ago.

    I sometimes wonder maybe if I had done a 2D echo during pregnancy, things could have been detected earlier, and maybe hindi na lumala. That’s something I carry with me now, not as regret, but as a lesson.

    What she’s grateful for

    In this season of my life, I am most grateful for a second chance. I truly believe that God gave me a second life, and I don’t take that lightly.

    I’m also deeply grateful for my son. Becoming his mom changed me in ways I didn’t expect—it made me stronger, more resilient, and more intentional.

    Herschel and her son, Fionn | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    And of course, I will always be thankful for our families and friends who stood by us during the hardest time in our lives. Their support reminded me that we were never alone.

    Her message to her Bagong Nanay self

    If I could talk to my Bagong Nanay self, the version of me who was just entering motherhood and going through childbirth, I would simply say:

    “You’re doing a great job. Ang laki na ng pinagbago mo. You’re becoming stronger every day.”

    Because at that time, I didn’t fully realize how much I was already enduring and overcoming. I was just trying to survive each day.

    Herchel’s message to Bagong Nanays

    If there’s one lesson I would want to share with other Bagong Nanays, it’s this: listen to your body and don’t hesitate to seek medical help.

    Sobrang daming changes sa katawan natin during and after pregnancy, and it’s easy to assume that everything is normal. But sometimes, what we think is “normal” could already be a sign that something is wrong.

    Herschel’s family. | Courtesy of Herschel Radovan-Castillo

    So if there’s anything that feels off—magpa-check up. It’s always better to be sure, especially when it comes to your health. Because as mothers, taking care of ourselves is also a way of taking care of our families.


    About the Bagong Nanay: I am Herschel Del Castillo from Antipolo City, Rizal. I am the Bagong Nanay of Fionn, who is 16 months old. Outside motherhood, I’m a financial control analyst. I also serve in our church’s music ministry as a guitarist and bassist.

  • Musings habang gumagawa ng salad

    Musings habang gumagawa ng salad

    Hi, Bagong Nanay.

    Raw and unfiltered ito. Gusto ko lang isulat dahil may oras ako.


    “I feel such a sense of loss when I think of the great, unwritten poems that took a backseat to polished floors.”

    -Brigid Schulte, “A Woman’s Greatest Enemy? A Lack of Time for Herself,” The Guardian.com

    Ang dami kong gustong isulat na istorya.

    Teka, pupunuin ko muna itong bote ng tubig.

    Istorya ng araw-araw na buhay bilang isang nanay.

    Marahil simple at hindi marangya, pero hindi ba’t nakakatuwa na nabubuhay ka at naisusulat ito.

    Baka mapanis na ang pagkain sa ref, kainin ko na kaya?

    Pero magsusulat muna ako ng istorya.

    May panahon na akala ko hindi ko na maaabutan ang araw na ito.

    Day off ko, tahimik sa sala, naghanda ako ng baong salad para sa asawa kong papasok sa opisina.

    Sa unang pagkakataon, habang ginagayat ko ang lettuce na bigay ng kapitbahay at pinipili ang pinakamagagandang dahon para sa baon, kumuha din ako ng lalagyan para sa akin. Tinanggal ko ang maiitim na lettuce, ang bilis nila masira! Nilagay ko ang karamihan ng magagandang dahon sa baunan ni Tatay, at kumuha rin ako ng kaunti para sa akin.

    Hindi, marami akong kinuhang magandang dahon para sa akin.

    Kung anong laman ng salad ni Tatay ay ganun din ang laman ng salad ko. Hindi lang pinagtabasan, hindi lang tira. Hindi lang yung sira na. Nilagyan ko din ng sesame oil, kahit alam kong mahal yun. Pati Himalayan salt. Kumain ako ng mag-isa sa sala. Payapa, dahil nagpapaaraw ang aking anak na isa kasama ng kanyang yaya. Yung isa naman ay tulog pa sa taas, katabi ng pinsan niya.

    Kaunting kuwento: alam kong lahat ng hinahanda kong pagkain para sa mister ko ay kinukuhanan niya ng litrato. Mapa-ulam, merienda, o kahit ano. Napaisip tuloy ako, “Pag namatay ba ako, may slideshow din ng mga pagkaing niluto ko?”

    Teka, iaakyat ko muna itong maduming pajama. Ay, mamaya na. Lalasapin ko muna ang sandaling ito. Inaantay kong bumaba si Tatay, dahil kapag nakita ko na siya, makikita na niya ako. Nandito ako, ang kanyang asawa at nanay ng mga anak niya, buhay at masaya.

    Payapa. Tahimik. Magaan. Buhay.

    Kaya habang nagpupuno ako ng basyo, dahil naiabot ko na kay Tatay ang baon niya, naisip ko, “Bakit hindi kaya ako magsulat ng istorya?”

    At ang istorya ng aking buhay ay isang bagay na hindi kailanman maisusulat ng kahit sino, kahit pa AI.

    Kaya umakyat ako, pumwesto sa aking mesa, binuksan ko ang aking matandang laptop na nauna pa sa aking kasaysayan bilang ina.

    Sumulat ako ng istorya habang tahimik pa, at habang naaalala ko pa.

    Ang istorya na naisulat ko ay kung paanong nandito pa ako sa oras na ito, kahit na napakaraming beses na inisip ko noon na sana wala na.

    Ito ang pinakamagandang istorya ng buhay ko: Iniligtas ako ng Diyos.

    At kung nasa panahon ka ngayon na magulo, madilim, at walang kasiguraduhan, pumanatag ka:

    Hindi ka lang nanay.

    Anak ka rin Niya.


    Judy

    PS. Habang buhay ako, medyo mga ganitong content ang gagawin ko. Labyu all.

  • A Bagong Nanay Tested 11 Newborn Diaper Brands for Her Baby—Here’s Her Review

    A Bagong Nanay Tested 11 Newborn Diaper Brands for Her Baby—Here’s Her Review

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    So in our Bagong Nanay Viber group, a mom shared that she’s selling trial packs of diapers for newborn. I asked her if she wanted to share her review with Bagong Nanay so more moms would know, and she happily shared her detailed diaper review.

    Mommy Quincherville Villanueva is a Bagong Nanay of a 6-week-old baby. She’s a pastry chef, too! She told Bagong Nanay that she wanted to try different diaper brands before buying a lot because she wanted to know which would work best for her budget and for her baby. “I realized through this na affordable doesn’t always mean better for the budget. The more premium ones requires less diaper changes and less leaks and blowouts,” she said.

    So here’s Mommy Quincherville’s review of 10 diaper brands, Bagong Nanays. Sharing is caring, indeed!

    11 Newborn Diaper Brands Review by Bagong Nanay Quincherville Villanueva

    Not in photo: Baby Pal diaper | Courtesy of Quincherville Villanueva

    Legend:

    🌙 – great for daytime and nightime
    ☀️ – great for daytime use
    🛒 – Affordable
    💵 – Pricey
    💦 – No leak
    🪽- cotton soft

    1. Kleenfant ☀️🛒🪽

    Price is affordable. Interior and exterior has a nice cotton feel. Comparable to cloth diapers. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. This diaper is ideal for daytime use. Gets full pretty quickly. Has a pee indicator but no back garter or stretch. Potential to leak upwards.

    Personal Rating based on experience: 6/10

    2. Inspi Babies ☀️🛒🪽

      Price is affordable. Interior and exterior has a nice cotton feel. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. Comparable to cloth diapers but lesser quality than Kleenfant but almost similar feel (same manufacturing). This diaper is ideal for daytime use. Gets full pretty quickly. Has a pee indicator but no back garter or stretch as well. Potential to leak upwards.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 6/10

      3. Huggies Skin Perfect 💦🛒🌙

      Price is unexpectedly affordable for an international brand. Interior is soft but unlike Inspi Babies and Kleenfant, the texture is not cotton-soft like cloth diapers. This is a good option for sensitive skin babies for overnight use. Has a pee indicator and a stretchy back. Great for wide butt babies.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 8/10

      4. Unilove Airpro 🪽🛒☀️

      Price is affordable. The diaper has a light cottony texture perfect for the hot weather. This diaper tends to get full easily so it is recommended for daytime use. The diaper is also ideal for photoshoots since the diaper is thin, it won’t show up under costumes. They also have smaller sized diapers for preemie babies which is uncommon. Unlike Inspi Babies and Kleenfant, this diaper has a stretchy back and a pee indicator as well.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 7/10

      5. Moosegear 💦🛒☀️🪽

      Price for quality is really good. It is affordable and has a good cottony feel. Ideal for babies with sensitive skin. Works great during the day. Can be used at night but tends to get full easily if with poop. I used this the longest for my baby before trying more premium brands worked great and did not hurt my budget. Sizing is quite small so don’t buy too much of one size.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 8/10

      6. Baby Pal 🛒☀️

      I saw these online and they are one of the cheapest in the market. Usually sold as buy 1, get 1. If your mindset is diapers don’t need to be high quality because it will just be thrown out, then this is for you. It is really a low quality diaper with a more plasticky feel. It is very thin and not great with absorbing poop. I was just curious to try it because it offered a good price. If you plan to use this, save it for a day time diaper and buy a better quality one for night time use. Has a pee indicator.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 1/10

      7. Aiwibi 🌙💵🪽

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Softest diaper I have tried. Great for very sensitive skin. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is alot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Can be used for night time and can tolerate pee however, if there is alot of poop it tends to leak. No garterized back so tendency to leak towards the back can happen. Has a pee indicator

      Personal Rating based on experience: 7/10

      8. Hoppi Royal 🌙💵🪽💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Texture is close to Huggies Skin Perfect but way softer but not as soft as Aiwibi. Great for very sensitive skin. Similar to Aiwibi, it has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since almost no poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks and sizing is not small. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 10/10

      9. Rascals 💵🌙💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Interior texture is soft but exterior feels a bit plastic for me. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks but sizing is quite small. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 9/10

      10. EQ Premium 🌙💵💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium diapers. Interior and Exterior texture is soft. Similar to the premium diapers above, it has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since less poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks if you buy the correct size but sizing is quite small so don’t buy too much of one size. Has a pee indicator and garterized back. Cute design, too.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 9/10

      11. Millie Moon 🌙💵💦

      Quite pricey but branded as premium. Texture feels similar to EQ Premium. It has an absorbent layer that absorbs the poop so cleanup is a lot easier since almost no poop tends to stay on the skin. Great for nighttime use. No leaks and great for nightime use. Has a pee indicator and garterized back.

      Personal Rating based on experience: 10/10

      Newborn Diaper Brands Review Summary

      Personally, I prefer Hoppi Royal and Millie Moon. The quality justifies the price. However, every baby is different so it really boils down to which your baby prefers. Thankfully my baby does not have any sensitivities so I was able to try all these brands and be able to share with everyone the pros and cons of each without any biases.

      Everything I have shared here is mainly based on our experience. I purchased several brands trying to figure out which brand will work for my baby and not break the bank. I sell trial packs with these brands for you to find out yourself which will work for your baby. I am just sharing my experience with these brands for you to have an idea of which might work out for you but it is best to try the diapers on your child than merely basing on reviews. Hope this helps!

      About the Bagong Nanay

      Mommy Quincherville Villanueva is a Bagong Nanay of one. She is still selling newborn diaper trial packs for P180 (instead of P220) or 3 packs for P500 because they are moving out soon. Contact Mommy Quinch on Instagram at @mommacuddlesmnl.

      Want to share something helpful with the Bagong Nanays too? Comment below or DM me @bagongnanay

    1. Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway Winners!

      Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway Winners!

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      As we close February, we are happy to announce the winners of our first giveaway for 2026 in collaboration with Mommy Yane Cuarto of Elisha & Eliana.

      Ang saya namin kasi daming sumali, to the point na may nag-create pa ng fake account dahil sa taas ng engagement (wow) haha.

      With no further ado, here are the winners! Read til the end kasi may mga pasabog!

      Winners of Bagong Nanay x Elisha & Eliana Giveaway

      Congratulations to Mommy Sham Cabile (@sham.cabile) for winning 1 KNITTED SWEATER for your baby!


      …and Mommy Patricia Jamo-ay (@mommypat_) for winning 1 MOM AND BABY MATCHING SHIRTS with custom handsewn prints!

      But wait – there’s more!

      We’re giving away a bonus MOM SHIRT with custom handsewn print to another mom! Congratulations to Mommy Louise Jade Ballesteros (@mommy_jadey)!

      More, more winners!

      And because natuwa kami ni Mommy Yane sa mga sagot ng mommies, we are giving away 5% off vouchers to these 5 lucky mommies, when you order from Elisha & Eliana

      How to claim your prize

      For all winners, please send me a message on Instagram (@bagongnanay) on how you can receive your prize. As mentioned in the mechanics, shipping fee will be shouldered by the winner (items will be coming from Cavite, delivered through J&T).

      Thanks so much, mamas! See you in our Bagong Nanay Community on Viber for more pasabog this 2026.

      Love,

      Nanay Judy of Bagong Nanay

      and Mommy Yane of Elisha & Eliana


      Follow Elisha & Eliana on Instagram and Facebook

      Read about how Mommy Yane started her handsewn clothing biz here.

    2. ‘Holding Both’ is a book for Bagong Nanays

      ‘Holding Both’ is a book for Bagong Nanays

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      Kumusta? Just a quick life update, I just got hired last January 14, and it’s a remote job that I prayed for. As you know, I resigned from my previous job to be a full-time Bagong Nanay again. Kaya I’m so happy na, ika nga sa Threads, “pinagresign ako ni Lord.” I know, God gave me this job – fully remote, flexible, and same timezone lang because it’s Hong Kong-based. (Chat nalang tayo for more deets).

      Anyway, I mentioned that because as a millennial mom, sobrang taas ng guilt level ko kapag nahahati yung oras ko as an employee and as a mom. Parang it’s either – mag-resign ako and be a full-time mom, or mag-work ako but always think about resigning every day. Kayo din ba?

      Holding Both by Chesca Susmerano Review

      Kaya when I read this book, Holding Both, written by Chesca Susmerano, founder of Studio Maria and a good friend, I was affirmed that it’s valid to feel both of these feelings. Yung guilt pati yung joy, yung longing na mag-work pero ma-enjoy din yung tambay lang sa bahay with kids. Reading the first few pages of the book, I had to stop and take a screenshot, cry, and message Chesca how I felt so seen and so understood just by reading. Lalo na when I read this line:

      “You’re allowed to drop some things but not forever.”

      Talagang, iyak malaley sa bed. Reading that line, carefully and thoughtfully written by Chesca, sabi ko, grabe yung feelings ko of guilt for not working, wala akong contribution sa bahay financially, wala akong pambili ng mga gamit na gusto ko for myself, pero this is not forever. Ang bilis lang niya actually. And mas naiyak ako sa part na, being with our young children na lagi nating kabunong-braso pag babalik ka na sa laptop mo or aalis ka going to office, is also not forever.

      An easy read, unputdownable for moms

      So I continued reading the book. 63 pages lang siya. Actually, it was meant to be read one chapter at a time. Pero sobrang easy and relatable read niya na I read it bago matulog, habang tulog na ang mga anak ko. Naisip ko nga, posible palang magbasa ng libro kahit may dalawang anak! Buti nalang, Chesca made it an e-book, sobrang convenient basahin ng mommies whenever and wherever.

      Tapos napa-stop na naman ako dito sa page where Chesca talked about the sacrifices she did as a mother, being the career woman she used to be before being a Bagong Nanay. If you also resigned from your job to be a full-time mom, grabe yung page 17, I’m telling you. I’m not going to spoil because you have to read it on your own.

      Then sa page 20, yung affirmation ni Chesca that whatever we are doing for our children, no matter how small or mundane, matters, wala na. I lost it. Seriously, Holding Both is unputdownable. Hooked na hooked ako.

      An affordable, necessary gift for moms

      Reading my screenshots of the book now, I’m getting goosebumps. Meron pa akong isang page na twice ko iniscreenshot because it’s so good. Yes, instead of a book na i-Stabilo para maalala, sa e-book you can screenshot so you can always remember. You will always be reminded. Kasi as moms, need natin ng daily reminder that we are doing okay. That we will be okay. That we are enough.

      That’s why I encourage you to buy the book, and read it for yourself, or gift it to another Bagong Nanay, may occasion man o wala. I know, 6 years na ako as a nanay, and I thought I know it all – yang mental health, self-care, guilt – akala ko gets ko na yan. Not until I read Holding Both, para akong na-refresh as a mom. Parang na-encourage ako to be myself, to not hide, to not play small anymore. And I hope all of us moms realize this too. That we are doing sacred work as a mom, and we didn’t become less of a person when we gave up our jobs and became a mother.

      My honest review of Holding Both, hehe.

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      And it’s important to have a village. If there’s one thing I will always remember when I sought professional help, it’s that moms need a strong support system. Hindi mo kailangang maging part ng Facebook group na may libu-libong members. Minsan, sapat na yung may chatgroup ka of four moms who are in the same season as you. Yung hindi ka ija-judge pag sinabi mong nahulog sa bed yung anak mo. Yung gets ka pag naiiinis ka sa husband mo na matagal sa CR. Yung pwede mo makausap about faith, about rage, about anything.

      I’m happy that we are growing our Bagong Nanay Viber community (ask me for the link). Mommy Charlotte Silva and I started this group way back pandemic era, nung uso yung group chats at pa-Lalamove ng mga stuff. Kasi may nag-close na isang mommy chatgroup, eh parehas kaming bagong nanay noon, at yun ang source namin ng info. Now, with Bagong Nanay group getting bigger, we get to hold meetups na din.

      Last January, we held our first Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup in Molito, Alabang. Ang saya, hindi pa kami maka-move on. Pito lang kaming moms na nagmeet, pero it was enough. We were meant to be there, all 7 of us. And during our meetup, we used Chesca’s Milk Tea Confessions: Conversation Cards! It’s a freebie when you buy the Holding Both book through her website.

      If you are a mom and you’re going to meet up with your mom friends and you want to make the most of your very limited time, use the Milk Tea Confessions: Conversation Cards para hindi naman puro chismisan or “Anong diaper gamit niyo?” ang topic. Makabuluhan naman sana, please.

      What Bagong Nanays say about the Milk Tea Confessions: Conversation Cards

      Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup @ The South!

      Here’s what the Bagong Nanay mamas said about their experience using the Milk Tea Confessions: Conversation Cards during our meetup.

      “I sometimes feel awkward initiating conversations with new people but the Confession Cards served as an effective icebreaker! I like that I get to really know the moms using the reflective questions and relatable prompts that were provided. It’s interactive, and thought-provoking. It helped us connect genuinely throughout the whole Milk Tea Meetup.” –Mommy Camille Chua

      “It gently opened the door to the kind of heartful conversations we don’t always get to have in everyday mom life. It wasn’t just small talk—it was real stories, shared emotions, and that comforting feeling of “me too.” So grateful for the space it created.” -Mommy Kyla Magbag

      “The idea is so clever and the experience of bringing these conversation cards to the table (with the right circle) is surely refreshing!

      I think it’s a must-have for every mom meetups. My momma heart is happy. Ang saya to bring back the beautiful art of conversation while sharing a fave drink during gatherings, than just randomly checking stuff on our phones.

      Sana soon meron ding family conversation cards and kids convo cardsss.” -Mommy Cess Arnaiz

      Read Mommy Chesca’s thoughts about the Milk Tea Meetup here.

      Bagong Nanay events happening soon!

      If you want to join the next Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup sa North this March, comment below or send me a message on Instagram (@bagongnanay).

      Chesca is also holding a Mini Mindful Art Tambay in Las Pinas on Feb 28, message her on IG (@studiomaria.formamas) to join! See you soon, Bagong Nanay. You are loved.


      Holding Both: A Gentle 7-Day Journey Through the Quiet Contradictions We Carry As Mothers e-book is available through Studio Maria’s website here. Get 5% off when you use the code BAGONGNANAY upon checkout!

      PS. Thank you, Chesca, for the gift of you. And for giving yourself to the Bagong Nanays.

    3. It’s Her Time: Clawhaus by Ella Libaton

      It’s Her Time: Clawhaus by Ella Libaton

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      For our first Bagong Nanay Biz feature this 2026, I’m happy to share the story of Ella Libaton and her claw machine rental business, Clawhaus. This 29-year-old mama of two from Rizal is also a content creator, and a friend who pushed me to also start my inflatable rental biz last year.

      I know her story can inspire both stay-at-home moms and working moms to trust that even if the time to start a passion project or dream business isn’t now, it will come in His perfect time.

      How Clawhaus started, according to Mommy Ella Libaton

      I started Clawhaus fresh out of postpartum, during a season when I was still finding my way back to myself. As many of you know, building something while raising little kids isn’t easy—your time is divided, and your energy is constantly tested.

      When my younger son turned three and life finally felt a little more manageable—no more sleepless nights or late-night feedings—I knew it was time. I wanted to build something of my own, something that existed beyond my role as a mom. I also wanted to create an additional stream of income for my family—one that required only a few hours a day while still allowing me to be a present wife and mother.

      That was the beginning of Clawhaus.

      More than a business

      When I was just starting, putting myself out there was honestly scary. I was still finding my footing after postpartum and figuring out who I was again, so the idea of showing up and starting something new felt really vulnerable. On top of that, the initial money we invested in Clawhaus came from our savings, and I carried this quiet pressure of not wanting to let my family, especially my husband, down. That made the risk feel even more real.

      Ella Libaton and her claw machines rental business, Clawhaus

      “I’ve learned to work smarter, not harder, so I can grow Clawhaus while still showing up for my family.”

      Ella Libaton, owner, Clawhaus

      Looking back now, it was absolutely worth it. Every uncomfortable step, every risk I took led me to something I’m truly proud of. Clawhaus gave me more than just a business—it gave me confidence, purpose, and the reminder that I can build something meaningful while still being fully present for my family.

      Celebrating small wins

      So far, so good! We recently wrapped up our first bridal fair, which led to over 20+ bookings for the year, something that really helped Clawhaus gain momentum and move forward with confidence this 2026. From starting with just two machines, we’ve now grown to four, and we’re planning to add more for lease and rental ventures across our city.

      Planning your child’s birthday party? It’s not complete without these crowd-favorite claw machines!

      Being a mom has actually helped me a lot in business. It taught me how to manage my time better, be more patient, and focus on what truly matters. I’ve learned to work smarter, not harder, so I can grow Clawhaus while still showing up for my family.

      Lessons from starting a biz

      The biggest lesson this business has taught me is that becoming a mother doesn’t mean the end of our dreams. If anything, it can be the fuel that pushes us to dream bigger and braver. I’ve learned that it’s okay to start small, to be scared, and to grow at your own pace.

      Having a reliable village (my husband, family and friends) also made a huge difference. Knowing I have people I can count on allows me to show up fully for both my business and my kids.

      Ella and her family

      If there’s one thing I’d love to share, it’s this: you don’t have to choose between being a mom and building something for yourself. You can do both. Your dreams may look different now, but they’re still valid—and sometimes, motherhood is exactly what gives us the courage to finally take that risk.

      Support Mommy Ella’s business by booking at Clawhaus. Tell her you read her story on Bagong Nanay and get 10% off or free transpo fee for Marikina and Antipolo events!

      Do you have a business story you want to share too? Message me on Instagram @bagongnanay or comment below!

    4. Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

      Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      Kumusta?

      I just wanted to write a quick post to do two things: 1) recap our 2025 in Bagong Nanay; 2) invite you to our first Milk Tea Meetup.

      Bagong Nanay’s 2025, wrapped

      I mentioned in a reel that my 2025 was a year of heartbreaks and breakthroughs. The first half of the year was the extension of my maternity leave. I gave birth to my second child via Caesarean section in September 2024, and went back to work in January 2025. I became a Bagong Nanay all over again, and I wasn’t prepared for the reset. I prayed and prayed for God to help me decide what to do next: I love my job, but my son needed me more.

      That’s why in May, I decided to resign from my job as an editor at Smart Parenting.

      July

      In July, I restarted Bagong Nanay. I bought a new domain and hosting, and started writing for my own website. I was scared but also excited for what God has in store for me. And so I kept writing.

      bagong nanay logo
      Bagong Nanay, new logo for 2025 relaunch

      Before the month ended, my good friend and Bagong Nanay Roanne Duran Pascual wrote about how she’s raising her son to be a reader. It was the first Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025.

      raising a reader
      Photo credits: Roanne Duran Pascual

      August

      The next month, God showed His plans for me.

      In August, I signed my first brand partnership. The only milk brand I trust, HiPP Organic Kindermilk tapped Bagong Nanay to be one of their influencers. Not only did I found THE milk for my children, but they helped grow my mom community through their Mommy Meetups.

      Having fun at the HiPP Mommy Meetup with my new Bagong Nanay friend, Gayle Dhillon. | Photo credits: HiPP Organic Kindermilk Philippines Facebook page

      On the same month, another good friend and writer Jilianne Roylence Francia, who also owns Valianne’s Trends, shared how she started her advocacy to normalize breastfeeding anywhere.

      bagong nanay jilianne francia normalizing breastfeeding
      Photo credits: Jilianne Roylence Francia

      I also debuted the Bagong Nanay Biz section, where I feature moms and their businesses. For the first issue, Suzette Goc-ong of Sew Childhood shared how she built her clothing business from scratch.

      sew childhood story
      Photo credits: Suzette Goc-ong

      It was also in August when our family grieved the death of our 16-year-old dog, Lolo Panda. I knew I had to write about it, and it helped that I did.

      I started showing up on TikTok too! Panindigan na natin ‘to.

      September

      It was during this month when I was busy preparing for my son’s first birthday. During his party, my husband and I launched Laro Tayo Kids, an inflatable slide and mobile playground rental business. It was my biggest move for 2025, and it took lots of prayers and sleepless nights to happen.

      I also featured a mom I found on Threads, who sells sweaters and onesies with handsewn prints: Yane Cuarto of Elisha and Eliana. Her story reached thousands, and it was the highest viewed story of Bagong Nanay to date.

      elisha n eliana
      Photo credits: Yane Cuarto

      October

      On my birth month, I finally had the courage to write a vulnerable post about caring for our mental health and staying alive.

      I was grateful to also share the story of Ara Yeung, the Bagong Nanay behind Cuddle and Coo PH, on how her business helped her in so many ways.

      Cuddle and Coo owner Ara Yeung for Bagong Nanay
      Photo credits: Ara Yeung

      November

      The best is yet to come. In November, I had the pleasure of working with Bianca Gonzalez, and becoming part of one of the episodes in her Paano Ba To? The Podcast.

      PAANO BA TO BAGONG NANAY
      Screenshot from YouTube /iamsuperbianca

      It was a dream come true, an answered prayer, and again, God showing how powerful He is. He makes all things new. I didn’t know it yet, but Bianca will invite me to a very intimate brunch in December! Watch it here.

      I also received an email from a mompreneur who wanted to share her story on Bagong Nanay. Sobrang kilig ko when I read her message. Eds Nabong of Aimerie shared how she paused her career and built her cloth diapering business.

      eds-nabong-aimerie-bagong-nanay
      Photo credits: Eds Nabong

      December

      To end the year, Ives Lim Esteban of Tickled Babies shared how she built her business during her tender season as a Bagong Nanay. She’s the mom who brought well-loved brands like HALO SleepSack, NoseFrida, and OXO Tot to the Philippines

      ives lim esteban of tickled babies for bagong nanay
      Photo credits: Ives Lim Esteban

      And the last Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025 was the story of Tina Santiago Rodriguez, a media missionary and mother of six (plus one in Heaven). She shared what and who helps her do it all.

      tina-santiago-rodriguez
      Photo credits: Facebook /Jewels Conference, Tina Santiago Rodriguez

      Hello, 2026! Milk tea tayo, yes?

      What a year that was. I didn’t know that all those things could happen, all I knew was I’ve chosen to surrender to God’s plans.

      That’s why, to start the year, we’ll be having our very first Bagong Nanay Milk Tea Meetup this month! Yes, gusto lang naman nating mga mommies ay mag-me time habang umiinom ng ating dasurv na dasurv na milk tea. Start tayo sa South! Our venue is in Alabang, Muntinlupa. Babies are allowed! Gets na gets namin yan.

      So far, may 10 mom members of our Viber community confirmed! Partner kami ni mother Chesca Susmerano of Studio Maria for the program. We want to make it special and meaningful for the Bagong Nanays!

      If you want to join us, comment below or send me a DM on Facebook, Instagram, or Threads so I can send you the link to our Bagong Nanay Community Viber group. We’ll be having another one in the North and East soon!

      If you made it this far, thank you so much for being here. You matter so much. I hope you remember that. God loves you!

      surrender-planner
      My 2026 Surrender planner from my bestie Cherrie Julian

      Here for you,

      Nanay Judy

      “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31

    5. Joolz Aer2 Stroller Review: Is It Worth the Investment?

      Joolz Aer2 Stroller Review: Is It Worth the Investment?

      This review is based on our personal experience.

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      We just got home from our 15-day trip to Guam, USA, our first out-of-the-country trip as a family of four. One of our travel essentials was a stroller – alam ko kasing we’ll be going to do a lot of walking and shopping so it’s a must-have!

      We brought with us the Joolz Aer2 Lightweight Stroller in Sandy Taupe, currently priced at P33,999. It was named the best travel stroller by Forbes in 2025, so the question is, in this economy, worth it ba talaga?

      Here’s our honest review.

      Bagong Nanay Reviews: Joolz Aer2 Lightweight Stroller in Sandy Taupe

      Specs:

      Weight: 6.5kg or 14.3lbs

      When folded: 17.3 x 20.8 x 9.2 inches 

      Weight limit: 22.7kg or 50lbs

      One-hand, one-second easy fold

      As Bagong Nanays, marami tayong na-unlock na skills na kaya nating gawin with one hand. Habang buhat si baby, kayang abutin ang remote, kayang magluto, and many more. Kaya perfect yung Joolz Aer2 because it can fold with one hand. Yes! Para sa ating mga nanay na madami nang iniisip, gusto natin yung stroller na chill lang. Bukod sa it can fold with one hand, it stands once it is folded.

      Five-point harness

      Nung nasa Smart Parenting pa ako, I was able to interview a pediatrician about what parents should look for before buying a stroller. Dr. Joey Cuayo-Estanislao mentioned two things: the stroller should have an effective braking system and a five-point harness.

      Joolz Aer2 has this, kaya talagang sold ako. Why? Yung three-point harness kasi ang common sa mga strollers. Pero yung five-point harness also secured the child’s shoulders, kaya malaking bagay siya especially during sudden stops. Dun palang check na si Joolz Aer2.

      Compact as a carry-on

      Since it was our first trip abroad, nakita namin kung paano ang kalakaran when you bring a stroller on the plane. In our experience with Philippine Airlines, you may use the stroller up to the boarding gate, then leave it with the staff so they can check it in. Although with the Joolz Aer2, since sobrang compact niya when folded and comes with a handy drawstring bag, we brought it to the plane and placed it in our overhead cabin para hindi siya ma-damage along with the other baggages. Check na check!

      Pasok din ang weight niya sa carry-on (at 6kg) kasi talagang airplane compatible siya.

      Perfect for naps

      Moms of toddlers would know (lalo na boys) na nap times are sacred. Hindi pwedeng mainterrupt ito at hindi pwedeng ipagpaliban ito. Kaya we loved how spacious the Joolz Aer2 was when my son napped. It has a lie-flat recline kaya talagang relaxed si baby. Yun talaga ang pakay namin for the stroller kasi it’s hard to go around na buhat-buhat palagi lalo pag pagod na.

      At pag gising na siya and bored na sa stroller, sobrang spacious ng Joolz to carry your other items (even your other child!). It also has a big basket for more stuff, like diaper bag, tumbler, etc.

      Easy to maneuver

      Walang problem kaming na-encounter when steering the stroller even in tight spaces (like store aisles). Smooth lang ang ride just as how it should be.

      Plus points that the Sandy Taupe color is so aesthetic, it’s really a headturner sa ibang parents. I also saw other parents at the airport with their Joolz strollers, so proven and tested talaga na it’s a travel must-have!

      Real-talk: Not the easiest to clean

      Before using the stroller, we had to have it cleaned kasi it came from storage. While there are available stroller cleaners that I found around the metro (Urban Essentials in Quezon City and Domestic Diva in BF Homes Almanza), it costs around Php 950-2000. So my husband removed the fabrics and we cleaned it on our own. Medyo nahirapan siya to reassemble but we found a helpful video online specifically for Joolz Aer2.

      But if you bought a new one, just wipe it clean!

      The verdict

      So is the Joolz Aer2 worth its price?

      Yes, given the safety, comfort, and peace it gives, it’s worth it. Especially if you plan on traveling a lot with your child, it’s a must-have. As a mom who also purchased a Doona car seat and stroller in one, I must say, investment siya. Iba talaga ang quality ng Joolz over other strollers na trendy lang and flimsy.

      However, I recommend that you let professional cleaners do the deep cleaning as necessary kasi nga medyo tricky i-remove and ibalik yung fabrics. Spare yourself from the headache, you might do that once or twice a year siguro at most!

      Overall, it’s a Bagong Nanay-approved stroller. I hope we could travel again soon and bring the Joolz Aer2 with us. Ang dami na naming core memories together, and I can’t wait to make some more.

      Thank you so much, Joolz PH!

      Buy Joolz PH Aer2 on Shopee here or on their website here.

      Read also this review from Forbes.

    6. Tina Santiago Rodriguez: Parenting with Faith and Intention

      Tina Santiago Rodriguez: Parenting with Faith and Intention

      Hi, Bagong Nanay!

      We’re about to end 2025, and welcome another year. It’s been a season full of highs and lows, of trying and enduring. Give yourself a pat on the back, mama!

      Yung pagiging Bagong Nanay natin is no joke. Mahirap siya because mahirap talaga siya. Whether you have one child or multiple, ibang level ng endurance and patience ang kailangan natin to not just survive, but thrive. It’s important that we know that in motherhood, we cannot and we must not do everything on our own because if we do, we’ll burn out. More than having a village, we need to nurture our faith.

      Kaya naman, to inspire us in our daily routines as moms, I’m very honored to share the Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of Tina Santiago Rodriguez, a mom of six children (plus one in Heaven) from Bulacan. She shares how and her husband Anthony are able do it, one day at a time, and how they incorporate prayer and faith in their routine.

      While she may not be a “Bagong Nanay” 100% because she’s probably one of the more experienced moms in the Bagong Nanay community, Tina believes (and I agree) that with each pregnancy and birth journey, we go back to being a Bagong Nanay again.

      This is how Tina describes herself as a mother: Dependent-on-God, Imperfect, Intentional, Open-minded, Connector, and Community-builder.

      Read on, mama.

      Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of Tina Santiago Rodriguez, mom of six (plus one in Heaven)

      To be brutally honest, life as a mom of six (plus one in heaven!) can be crazy beautiful most days. Sometimes, I find myself “on the go” from the time I wake up because it’s only then that I have more “quiet time” to do stuff. (I usually wake up before everyone else at home).

      Faith and parenting

      So I try to incorporate prayer and Scripture time during this period, then do my tasks related to work and ministry. (Our family serves at The Feast in Robinsons Galleria, and I also lead our women’s ministry.) Try being the operative word because sometimes I’m not as consistent as I’d like to be! Praise God for being so patient with me!

      Tina Santiago Rodriguez and her family | Courtesy of Tina Santiago Rodriguez

      I’m privileged to be working from home (or wherever there is internet, haha!) and it’s a blessing also to be able to unschool / homeschool our kids. I do my best to integrate my/our Catholic Christian faith in our daily rhythm. Besides my personal prayer time, I usually pray with the three youngest kids after they wake up. The three older ones say their morning prayers on their own. 

      “We believe that our faith is better “caught than taught,” so we strive to be good examples to our kids.”

      -Mommy Tina Santiago-Rodriguez

      After morning chores (and some work tasks for me), we usually gather together again at noontime for the Angelus and Protection Prayer (this was taught to us by a Catholic exorcist priest—very powerful!). After lunch, we usually have our own set of chores / work / individual lessons then we gather again at 3pm for the Divine Mercy Chaplet. Afterwards, the goal is to do some sit-down homeschool lessons with the younger kids (except our toddler, who is just saling pusa for now!)

      Tina and her husband Anthony at the Catholic Homeschoolers Summit in 2016 | Courtesy of Tina Santiago Rodriguez

      The evening is for dinner, chores (again! Ha, ha! Never-ending!), then we pray together as a family, with my husband leading the prayers. He works from home some days so when he’s home, he usually joins us in our daytime prayers when he’s not in a meeting.

      We believe that our faith is better “caught than taught,” so we strive to be good examples to our kids. We fail (a lot!) but by His mercy and grace, we get up and keep going. I think it’s good for us to model how God’s forgiveness looks to our kids as well—that when we struggle in living out our faith, He helps us to move forward and persevere.

      Tina as a Bagong Nanay for the very first time. | Courtesy of Tina Santiago Rodriguezz

      Intentional parenting and what it means for Tina

      I usually try to define intentional parenting in the parenting talks that we give in this way: “The core of intentional parenting is intentional discipleship. We believe that God has a plan for each of us, and that includes our children. So to be an intentional parent, we want to do our best to live according to that plan, and hope to influence our kids to do the same, too.”

      Essentially, intentional parenting is all about:

      • Having a plan for how you want to raise your kids
      • Beginning with the end in mind: prioritizing character and virtues in your parenting
      • Prioritizing where you and your kids put your time and energy, because your priorities will guide your daily decisions and commitments
      • Being mindful of what you’re doing while raising your children: this includes everything, even what they’re exposed to at home and outside the home, like media, etc.

      You could say that gentle parenting can be considered part of intentional parenting, since one of its definitions goes like this: “Gentle parenting, also known as collaborative parenting, is a style of parenting where parents do not compel children to behave by means of punishment or control, but rather use connection, communication, and other democratic methods to make decisions together as a family.” (Source: parents.com)

      “We need to allow God to heal our inner childhood wounds so that we can be better parents.”

      -Mommy Tina Santiago Rodriguez

      So, should parents go for this parenting style? My husband and I advocate it, for sure, but we also believe that parents should pray and discern well about how they want to raise their kids. We believe that intentional parenting can be one tool to help them build stronger families.

      Top 3 advice for Bagong Nanays on faith and parenting

      We need to remember that our children are not ours—

      They are just gifts from God, lent to us here on earth. Ultimately, they are His children, and He alone knows how they will turn out to be. We just need to do our best in raising them and let Him do the rest.

      There are no perfect parents, there are no perfect families.

      But there is one perfect God who loves each of us perfectly. By His mercy and grace, we can be purposeful and present parents. We just need to take the first steps in being so.

      Our children need to feel safe, seen, and loved when they are with us.

      When we fail to do this, we must take the steps to repair our relationships with them. We also need to acknowledge that oftentimes, we need to allow God to heal our inner childhood wounds so that we can be better parents.

      Tina is a renowned speaker in the field of faith and parenting. | Photo credits: Jewels Conference Facebook page

      I am Tina Rodriguez from Malolos, Bulacan.

      I am the Bagong Nanay of six kids ages 19, 16, 12, 9, 7, and 2 yrs 9 months (plus 1 in heaven!)

      Outside motherhood, I’m a writer, editor, content manager, resource speaker, self-professed “media missionary,” servant, co-author of two books published during the pandemic. I used to be active in the mommy blogging world (some would say I’m one of the “OGs”) but God has led me to a different path now. 

      Follow Tina on Instagram.

      Join Tina and 200+ more Bagong Nanays in our Viber community for moms. Comment “LET ME IN” and I’ll send you the link.