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  • So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    I just wanted to share a milestone for Bagong Nanay. I got the honor and opportunity to work with no less than my favorite interviewer and podcaster Bianca Gonzalez for an episode of Paano Ba ‘To? The Podcast.

    For context, I love listening to podcasts. While my current fave is Dogshow Divas by Macoy Dubs and Baus Rufo, I’ve been listening to Bianca’s podcast especially during my early days as a Bagong Nanay. It was 2021, during the COVID-19 pandemic, and while I was washing dishes, cooking, or breastfeeding my firstborn daughter then, Bianca’s Legends Only series kept me sane.

    Then, in 2022, I got the chance to interview Bianca for Smart Parenting about mom guilt and mom rage.

    I was able to even attend a live event of Paano Ba ‘To? in 2023 and thought that was already the best things to happen as a fangirl.

    paano ba to live batch 12
    I was part of the Paano Ba ‘To? Live 12 last Dec 2023, and it was the best!

    But I really believe God listens to even our most tender prayers: I became part of a Paano Ba ‘To? episode!!!

    In this episode, Bianca talked to Andi Manzano-Reyes, former DJ, and now a content creator and mom of three, who shared her thoughts about pursuing passion alongside motherhood (plus, money tips!)

    Watch it til the end, and you’ll see me asking Andi a question about why we should not feel guilty to buy something for ourselves sometimes.

    I’ve made it!

    Andi’s countdown: Top 3 mindsets to turn passion into something that will last

    • Take that first step, and just keep moving forward.
    • Be grateful, and don’t take today for granted.
    • Have the right partner and support system.

    Side note: I’m happy to be part of this episode because personally, I use RCBC as one of my banks. I opened one to organize my other sources of funds, and to be honest, ang dali mag-open ng account onsite (I remember bringing my daughter then). And online din, even when the bank transitioned to a new app (Pulz), I didn’t encounter any issues. Thanks for this episode, RCBC!

    And who knows, Bagong Nanays? Someday, baka I’ll be the one Bianca interviews! I’ll be so ready for that.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

    Listen to the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcast.

    Also, join the Paano Ba ‘To: SUPER Group on Facebook too.

    Bagong Nanay, we have a Viber group for you. Comment below so I can send you the link.

  • Baby’s Starting Solids? Here’s A Panimulang Meal Plan + Tools

    Baby’s Starting Solids? Here’s A Panimulang Meal Plan + Tools

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta? Ako, eto, 36 years old na. Haha! Gusto ko lang maging mas active magsulat because madami tayong time at madami tayong responsibilities as a Bagong Nanay who’s given another lease in life.

    So I’m writing this (while listening to the Dogshow Divas podcast ha) because kahapon, may nagtanong na first-time mom sa ating Bagong Nanay Viber Community about her 6-month-old na magsstart na mag-solids.

    I remember when I was in her shoes, half-excited and half-kabado ako noon nung magsastart na kumain ang aking firstborn. Pero I became more confident when a mama friend (who also shared breastmilk to me when I gave birth to my preemie baby) shared this panimulang meal plan with me.

    I’ve shared this with a lot of moms in my six years as a mother, and so far, okay naman yung mga anak nila!

    Because sharing is caring, I’m sharing it here too!

    Sample Meal Plan for 6-months-old Baby

    Some notes to remember:

    • I followed this for my two kids. Ang principle behind this is you offer the same food for three days para makita kung may allergies sila sa certain food. Kasi kung meron, inform your pedia agad. It also helps to really track what your child eats, kahit using pen and paper or Google Sheets, you do you. I also take photos of the food bago kumain si baby, for reference. Haha.
    Squash puree!
    • About the water, we used distilled water only until our baby turns one.

    How to prepare your baby’s first solids

    Cooking

    • When it comes to food preparation, two ways worked for me:
      • For my first child: I dedicated an own pot for my baby’s food. Para hindi namimix sa food namin na may seasoning. Boil tapos mash using a fork. You may add breastmilk din, lalo na sa first food like avocado.
      • For my second child: I received a hand-me-down Boboduck 4-in-1 food blender kaya mas madali magprepare ng food daily. Steam and mash in one na ito!
    NANAYS! I’m passing this on to another Bagong Nanay who needs this! Message me if you want it. Just shoulder the SF please.

    Storage

    Pag naparami yung naluto ko, I put the excess in this food containers from Oxo Tot. Tapos isasapaw ko nalang sa sinaing the next day!

    Buy this Oxo Tot Baby Blocks Freezer Storage Containers – 2 oz here

    Utensils

    Madaming bowls and utensils that you can shop from Tickled Babies, so just choose what you need. You can also join our Viber group to ask moms what they used! Just comment below or DM me on Instagram to get the link!

    High chair

    I swear by Ikea Antilop high chair dahil ang dali linisin and stable siya. I bought ours way back in 2020 pa, from pasabuy sellers. Wala pa kasing Ikea noon but now meron na, easy to buy na so go!

    Ikea Antilop high chair. Need lang bilhan ng foot rest, madami daw sa Shopee but I got mine from Bears & Berries Manila on Instagram.

    Starting solids is exciting, yes, pero may struggles din! But we’re all in this together, and you’ll be okay.

    Join our Viber group community. Comment below or send me a message on Instagram: @bagongnanay

  • You are still here for a reason, Bagong Nanay

    You are still here for a reason, Bagong Nanay

    Trigger warning: mental health issues, depression, and death

    I would say it’s a miracle that I still get to write this.

    I’ve lost count of how many times I told my husband that I no longer wanted to continue with my life because I felt useless, worthless, and hopeless. Ever since I’ve become a mother.

    I know, I know. Becoming a mother is an honor, a privilege that not all women get to have. Pasalamat ako may anak ako, oo. Pasalamat ako na pwede akong mag-resign sa work. But there are days when it feels easier to give up than to fight, and it’s not our fault.

    Sabi kasi nila, when you become a mother, it’s the best thing that will ever happen to you. But there’s a fine print: you might lose yourself in the process, if you try to do it all on your own.

    My turning point

    It was on October 9, 2021 when I took the brave step to consult a psychologist. Sabi ko, birthday gift ko na sa sarili ko. My daughter was only two years old then. May mga episodes ako na sa sobrang frustrated ko sa sarili ko, sa pagiging unemployed ko, at sa pandemic, na muntik ko na siyang masaktan. As a former Bantay Bata 163 reporter, alam ko ang effects ng physical abuse sa bata, kaya hurting my children was one thing I swore I will never do.

    So when that moment came na I shouted at her and almost hurt her, I paused and said, “Hindi na ako ‘to. Something’s wrong with me and I have to fix it.”

    I booked an online appointment with a psychologist, and I told her everything, down to the details. All of my thoughts and feelings. She confirmed I went through postpartum depression. Sobrang gaan ng pakiramdam ko after ko malaman na, ayun, it was depression taking over me. I was motivated to become better.

    Fast forward to my second child, four years after, I thought I was okay, pero may times din na I feel, nagrerelapse yung depression ko, especially that I’m unemployed again. Pero nilalabanan ko, with faith and my support system, I am still here.

    So here I am, taking this moment to share what I want other people to know.

    Three things I want people to know

    1. Please, yakapin ninyo ang mga Bagong Nanay.

      Kahit ano pang sabihin ninyo, new moms are in the most vulnerable season of their lives. After giving birth, their hormones are all over the place, their body is recovering, and the pressure to figure it all out is just so hard. Thus, their mental health should be protected at all costs.

      Please, don’t ever think that you’ve done everything to help them. Don’t ever think na sila ang may problema at hindi ikaw. Kasi they need help to transition from only thinking about themselves to suddenly caring for a tiny human being, and that’s not very easy.

      Intindihin natin sila. Tulungan natin sila. Pasayahin natin sila. Love them. Tell them they are beautiful. Remind them that they are amazing. Let them know that they are seen, valued, and loved, not just their baby.

      2. Bagong Nanays, you don’t have to do it alone.

        Oo, nakaka-boost ng morale when you say “Wala kaming yaya,” or “Wala kaming help.” I get it. It feels like achievement mo that you are hands-on with your child. But when it gets hard, please. Ask for help. Kung hindi afford, baka may iba pang way. Exhaust all possible ways.

        Let me break it to you: in the end, walang award for the mom who never asked for help. But your kids will remember you if you’re the mom who took care of herself. The mom who craves for me time and gets it. The mom who is filled with joy. Hindi ako nagpapa-manipedi type of mom. Pero pag gusto ko mag-meet with my friends, I tell my husband and we plan for it. We make a way for it.

        We’re not meant to do this all alone, all to ourselves. We need a village. Nanay lang tayo, hindi tayo Diyos. And that means, we need the Lord. We must seek Him every day, in every decision, in every moment.

        It’s okay to ask for help. Even the best fall down sometimes, sabi nga ni Howie Day.

        3. Makakabalik rin tayo.

          Minsan, mas madali tumingin sa mga wala tayo kaysa sa mga meron tayo. Wala nga akong work sa ngayon, pero meron akong time ihatid sundo ang anak ko, i-serve ang asawa ko, at mag-explore ng pwedeng pagkakitaan. Now more than ever, mas nakikita ko yung reason why kailangan ko munang mag-step back sa career para sa mga anak kong maliliit dahil gusto ko solid yung foundation nila bago ko sila i-expose sa mundo.

          Makakabalik rin tayo. Ngayon pa nga lang one year old yung anak ko, hindi na niya ako hinahanap pag lumalabas ako ng bahay. Nararamdaman ko na ulit na malapit na akong magka-free time. Paano pa kung nasa school na silang dalawa ng ate niya? Ano nang gagawin ko? Pwedeng bumalik sa workforce, pwede ring hindi na. Pwedeng magsimula ng business kung saan masaya ka sa ginagawa mo at hawak mo ang oras mo.

          One night, my daughter told me, “You’re the best mom in the world because you’re my only mama and you are always free to be with me.” Grabe, I realized it was the only validation that matters.

          @bagongnanay A friend asked me the other day, “Tama ba, housewife ka now?” Dati naooffend pa ako, pero ngayon, it’s an honor and a privilege. UP graduate, walang work? Haha. Please talk to my daughter. 🤭 #fyp#foryou#bagongnanay#sahm#momtok♬ Little Things – Adrián Berenguer

          Hindi mo kailangang magpa-pressure sa mga tao sa paligid mo, na dapat ganito ka kasi ganun sila. Stay in your lane. Focus on your finish line. Compete with yourself. Invest in yourself para pag dumating yung araw na sayong-sayo na yung oras mo, hindi ka mangangapa. Sabi nga nila, walang nanay ang nag-regret na niyakap niya, nakipaglaro siya, at binigay niya ang oras niya para sa kanyang mga anak.

          If there’s one thing I know the Lord wants me to tell you, it’s this: You are still here for a reason.

          Nabasa ko nga online, “This is not your practice life. This is all there is.” Insist on your joy.

          Kung kailangan mo ng tulong, go. Kung gusto mo magpahinga, go. Say it. Ask for it. Demand for it. Work on it. Because you deserve it. You deserve to take up space just because you are you.

          Yun lang.

          And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So do not be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.

          Luke 12:7

          Happy birthday to me. Praise God.

          October is Mental Health Awareness Month in the Philippines. Listen to this podcast by Bianca Gonzalez with a psychologist.

        1. Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

          Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

          Hi, Bagong Nanay!

          Kumusta? Kaliwa’t kanan ang balita ng lindol at flu outbreak, okay ka pa ba? Ang daming nangyayari, pero don’t forget that it’s okay to feel anxious and all these big feelings, but let’s do our best to not dwell on them.

          Ang dami kong nakikitang mommies who are preparing their Go Bags at marami ring sellers na nagbebenta ng hard hat. Nabasa ko nga, during these times, it’s okay to worry, but it’s better to be prepared.

          Kaya naman, this October, which is also World Mental Health Awareness Month, it’s fitting to share about the story of a Bagong Nanay who, despite her mental health struggles, was able to thrive and build her own business.

          We put the spotlight on Mommy Arabella April Yeung, the mom behind the brand Cuddle and Coo PH, which offers an FDA-approved lactation and recovery drink and other parent and baby products. I’ve tried their Malunggay & Acai Berry Juice and you can read about my review here.

          Mommy Ara, who used to be a public hospital nurse, shared with Bagong Nanay how she battled with mental health struggles on her own. It was during the COVID-19 pandemic when she finally had the courage to seek professional help, and she was diagnosed with major depressive disorder with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Her husband supported her through it all, and she poured herself into Cuddle and Coo PH, a small business she dearly loves.

          This is her Bagong Nanay Biz story.

          A full circle moment

          I’d like to think that Cuddle and Coo PH began during our first visit to a baby fair—Momzilla—in 2023. We were browsing baby items and came across a booth managed by siblings. One of the sisters was pregnant at that time, and was selling maternity clothes and baby trinkets. We chatted a little, and they were the first to inspire us to dream of creating our own brand someday. I even told my husband, “Hon, one day tayo naman ang mangbubudol.” Little did I know that joke stayed with him, and eventually became real. At that time, I was pregnant with two babies: my son Jin, and Cuddle and Coo PH.

          “Blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing.”

          -Mommy Ara Yeung

          When I gave birth in August 2023, I struggled with the sweets and drinks I consumed. Since I had gestational diabetes, I had to be careful with my sugar intake. I stopped eating the usual treats and switched to supplements, but it felt more like a chore than something enjoyable. I wanted something refreshing and delicious without affecting my sugar. This became my daily “litanya” to my husband, who encouraged me to reach out to the right people—being a nurse with connections to hospitals and professionals. That was when it hit me: this challenge could become an opportunity.

          Mommy Ara Yeung of Cuddle and Coo PH

          One of the main challenges we faced was delegating tasks. As a nurse, I’m used to things progressing in a certain, structured way. My husband meanwhile is a lawyer, who is more chill and used to delays. This difference often frustrated me.

          For one, we had to launch the brand without our flagship product because of delays with our FDA certification. By God’s grace, we were able to successfully introduce Cuddle and Coo PH at Momzilla in November 2024!

          This Malunggay and Acai Berry Juice is Cuddle and Coo PH’s flagship product

          A family affair

          Every night, my husband and I would say: “Lord, miss na naming mag-pack ng parcel, palambing naman po ng order.” And true enough, there are days when we have no sales at all—days when we look at each other nervously, wondering if people have already forgotten us and worry that our stocks expire. But the Lord has His ways.

          Sometimes the shop is quiet for days, then suddenly we get 10–15 orders in a single day, and we’re scrambling to pack and ship. It taught us that blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing. It also reminded us to pause, breathe, and enjoy family moments in between.

          “When it gets overwhelming, I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home.”

          -Mommy Ara Yeung

          Despite the structured chaos, this business has strengthened our faith and marriage. When I’m busy with inventory, my husband takes over baby duties—feeding, burping, changing nappies, even thawing milk. He has never missed a doctor’s appointment and always makes time for us, even packing parcels after a full day of work. If this business journey has given us that kind of teamwork and resilience, then all the struggle has definitely been worth it.

          Ara with her very supportive husband

          Although we have an extra hand with our sales associate Thea, who works part-time during baby fairs, I handle most of the day-to-day tasks at home while juggling work, chores, and childcare. It gets overwhelming, but I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home. What was once just a dream is now reality. Even our son Jin learns from this—he hands us tape when packing or opens doors when I’m carrying parcels. He sees his dad working, too. These small lessons by example are priceless, something words alone can’t teach a toddler.

          Advice for aspiring mompreneurs

          If you want to start a business, you need to be ALL IN.

          No reservations, no shyness. Who else can champion your product better than you, the creator? That’s why I’ve spent almost a year attending baby fairs, engaging with moms and dads about their breastfeeding journey.

          The first year is crucial.

          It’s where you’ll see whether the business is earning or just breaking even. Document everything, down to the last peso. That’s how you’ll know what’s working and what’s not. And very importantly, don’t cover costs out-of-pocket. Let the earnings fund the cycle. Proper costing and accounting are key; otherwise, you risk setting yourself up for failure.

          Have faith in the Lord, in yourself, in your products, and in your team.

          Faith carries you through the days when sales are low and motivation is running out. Sometimes blessings overflow, sometimes it feels quiet. Don’t be discouraged. Maybe it just means more effort is needed or a better strategy for visibility.

          Listen to feedback, criticisms, and setbacks.

          These are not failures, but steps forward. No system is perfect. Cuddle and Coo PH is what it is today because of continuous feedback—from co-merchants, customers, and our small team.

          What’s next for Cuddle and Coo

          Our vision is to make Cuddle and Coo PH a trusted name for moms and families who want healthier, safer, and more thoughtful alternatives in their parenting journey. We want our brand to be more than just products—it’s about community, support, and encouragement for parents navigating the same challenges we faced.

          “Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.” -Ara Yeung

          In the near future, we plan to expand our product line to include more parent- and baby-friendly items, with the same focus on health and wellness. We’re also exploring collaborations with fellow mompreneurs and health professionals to bring better awareness and education to families. Beyond online and baby fairs, we hope to eventually have a physical space—a “Cuddle and Coo corner”—where parents can discover products, share experiences, and feel supported.

          Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.

          Follow Cuddle and Coo PH on social media and shop their products here:

        2. Moms Share: Sino Ka Bago Maging Bagong Nanay?

          Moms Share: Sino Ka Bago Maging Bagong Nanay?

          Hi, Bagong Nanay!

          Kumusta? October na, napakabilis ng panahon. Birth month ko na, at syempre, more than ever, I celebrate that I’m still here.

          I asked the Bagong Nanay Community to take a moment to reflect on who they were bago sila naging Bagong Nanay. Life before motherhood ba. Minsan kasi, nakakalimutan na natin na ang dami pala nating mga nagawa at na-achieve bago tayo naging nanay, especially pag nalulunod na tayo sa daily chores at nauumay sa pag-aalaga ng bata.

          Nakakatuwa ang sagot ng mga nanay, at meron ding mga nagpadala ng kanilang mga photos. Read on, and share us a part of your story too!

          Moms respond to “Sino ka bago ka naging nanay?”

          Banking

          “I used to lead a group of officers and staff in an international bank handling operations and customer service for eight years and before that used to work in a TV network. It was my lifelong dream to be a journalist.” Love Cosio

          Recruitment

          “Before I became an AUsome Mom, I was in the field of recruitment, offshore recruitment to be exact I supported APAC & US clients for industries like banking, finance, insurance, IT & healthcare. This was pre-pandemic and every after work, I always chose to walk instead of riding a jeepney or Angkas to Park Square Glorietta where I’d take a van going home. Walking is therapeutic for me, it’s like my 10-minute me-time every day where I just clear my thoughts.

          I stopped working for a while to focus on my AUsome son. It was really challenging, but it was worth it. Recently, I’m back in the industry, starting again, but, it honestly feels good.” Pearl Marie Cordura

          Adventure-seekers turned mamas

          “HR professional, but being a stay-at-home mom is my favorite. Adventurer. Mountains, oceans, cliff jumps, island hopping. All those things.” Riyalyn Grace Pasimio

          Health care

          “I was a public hospital nurse on weekdays and an outdoor adventurer on weekends!” Ara Yeung

          Credits: Ara Yeung

          Freediver

          “Marketing girl/freediver/lakwachera turned into SAHM. Loving this new role to be honest!” Gayle Dhillon

          Credits: Gayle Hillon

          Livestreamer

          “I used to stream games online! I play to decompress.” Patrice Gonzales

          Credits: Patrice Gonzales

          HR Manager

          “I used to dream of becoming an HR Manager back in 2013. I told myself that one day, that’s the position I wanted. Little did I know, God granted that dream in 2018—something I never expected. I was always traveling for work, and I truly loved my job. One of the most touching moments was when the CEO himself told me that if I ever wanted to come back, the company doors would always be open for me. I was one of their pioneer employees, and he said I had greatly contributed to the company’s beginnings. Today, I’m so proud because that company has now grown into one of the leading courier services nationwide.” Charmeyn

          “Grabe yung passion ko noon. Now that I’m a mom, I had to slow down. My child is teaching me to not rush life and enjoy the little things.”

          Gelli Mae Tan

          Mission work

          “I used to be a full-time lay missionary, along with my husband. After getting married, we served together on mission in East Timor for 5 years – that’s where our first two kids were born. I have always loved writing / communicating, and wanted to take up writing in college but took what was supposedly a pre-Med course instead (for the love of my parents).

          So I studied PT in college, took and passed the boards, but practiced PT only for a few months before answering His call to go fulltime in the mission field. Fast forward to the present, and now my work (and advocacies) are very focused on communication. God always has a way of making things work out for us, noh? Tina Santiago Rodriguez

          “I remember that I was going almost block by block, business to business when I was a fresh grad. I was offering graphic design services with limited work experience and only a college portfolio. As in ginapang ko magkapangalan lang ako sa larangang ito, lalo na sa Baguio. It did came, yung chance na makilala. Na pag kailangan ng graphic artist sa Baguio, ako yung nirerefer. Grabe yung passion ko noon. Also built my own business after a few years and did so many rakets here and there. Now that I’m a mom, I had to slow down. My quick paced and di mapakali self had to chill. My child is teaching me to not rush life and enjoy the little things. She became my pahinga.” Gelli Mae Tan

          From staging events to staying home

          Corporate communications and events management

          I was a corp comm girlie doing events and writing. Now a SAHM and loving every bit of it! Maiky Berenguer-Verayo

          Credits: Maiky Berenguer-Verayo

          “A corporate and events girlie for almost 10 years but being a SAHM is so worth it.” Judy Ann Danielle Abad-Roa

          Credits: Judy Ann Danielle Abad-Roa

          Ikaw, Bagong Nanay? What’s your story?

          Me, when I was 29, I used to be a workaholic comms girlie, yung tipong unang dumadating sa office tapos huling uuwi. Mahilig kami tumambay after work hours sa Sheridan, rant sa work at lovelife. I love mounting events, brainstorming, making things happen, and traveling to our partner communities. Siargao? Thrice a year ata ako nandun. I’ve been to a lot of place in Philippines, minsan kakalapag lang, aalis na. Ngayon, as a mom of two, ni hindi makapag-CR ng matiwasay! Hahaha.

          Judy Aladin at Calayan, Cagayan

          Let’s continue the conversation. Join our Bagong Nanay Community on Viber. Send me a DM on Instagram @bagongnanay for the link!

        3. Handsewn with Love: Elisha and Eliana by Yane Cuarto

          Handsewn with Love: Elisha and Eliana by Yane Cuarto

          Hi, Bagong Nanay!

          I hope you are well. The past week has been tough for our family, we’ve been down with colds and flu. Thankfully, my one-year-old son was spared. Thus, I was his only caregiver that’s why I wasn’t able to work on my Bagong Nanay stories.

          Before I relaunched Bagong Nanay in July, I already came across this mompreneur on Threads (follow me if you’re active there too). She’s been posting about her small business, and hoping that she gets clients there. I saw her products–handsewn kids’ clothes and they look very aesthetic and cute! Then and there, I ordered one for my daughter, as my birthday gift for her. When I got my order, I bought some for my friends’ children too.

          My daughter Lia with her sweater from Elisha & Eliana

          Grateful that finally, amid her late-night sews, Mommy Yane Therese Fonacier-Cuarto from Bacoor, Cavite was able to squeeze in some time to share more about her small business, named after her children, Elisha Aeko, 3, and Eliana Shiloh, 9 months old. I could vouch for her work and her ethics, and featuring her here on Bagong Nanay is my way of supporting her.

          Imagine being a mom of two at 29 and having a business that involves so much hard work and heart? Here’s how Mommy Yane’s able to do it, and more.

          How Eliana & Elisha started

          I launched Elisha & Eliana while pregnant with Eliana – it was after finding out her gender that the idea really took off! As a former nail tech, I loved experimenting with new ideas and selling clothes. I realized there was a demand for personalized kids’ clothes, especially with so many moms-to-be like me. Initially, it was a challenge finding customers, so I messaged friends with babies and slowly built up my business.

          Bagong Nanay Biz Mommy Yane Therese Fonacier-Cuarto

          Handsewn, heart-made

          My personalized clothes for kids are truly one-of-a-kind because I pour my heart into every stitch. I feel overjoyed when I receive orders, it’s like seeing my dreams come to life. It’s heartwarming to know that there are moms and dads who believe in me and my craft.

          “Start with what you’re passionate about! And don’t give up. Every small step you take will bring you closer to your dreams.”

          -Mommy Yane Therese Fonacier-Cuarto

          All the hard work pays off when I see the smiles on the kids’ faces wearing the clothes I made. Here are the best-sellers in my shop:

          Knitted Sweater

          Knitted Vest

          Knitted Ribbon Onesies

          Advice for moms who want to start a business

          My advice would be to start with what you’re passionate about! For me, it was creating personalized clothes for kids. Don’t be afraid to take that first step, even if it seems scary or uncertain. Believe in yourself and your abilities. Surround yourself with people who support and encourage you. And most importantly, don’t give up! Every small step you take will bring you closer to your dreams.

          knitted sweater

          Follow Elisha and Eliana on Instagram and buy from their shop: @elishaneliana

        4. Starting from Scratch: Sew Childhood by Suzette Goc-ong

          Starting from Scratch: Sew Childhood by Suzette Goc-ong

          How a mom’s breastfeeding struggle turned into an opportunity to uplift parents and families in the most inspiring way.

          Hi, Bagong Nanay!

          Before we say goodbye to August, here’s an inspiring story of a mompreneur who turned her pain into purpose. Interestingly, I met Mommy Suzette Goc-ong, the mom behind the local brand Sew Childhood, through Mommy Jill Roylence Francia of Valianne’s Trends. Mommy Jill’s story was our featured Kuwentong Bagong Nanay this month.

          Sew Childhood is popular for its Poncho and Apron Nursing Covers, and also offers products that solve every parent’s dilemma: high chair covers, shopping cart covers, baby carrier drool pads, and more!

          After just one late-night chat with Mommy Suzette, I knew her story of starting Sew Childhood should be shared through Bagong Nanay’s new section, Bagong Nanay Biz. It aims to tell stories of mompreneurs and their businesses, with the goal to inspire other moms to start their own.

          Kaya eto na nga. Here’s the Bagong Nanay Biz story of Suzette Goc-ong, 41, from Taguig City. She has two kids, Niccolo, 10, and Patty, 5. Her husband, Neil, is her number one supporter.

          I hope her story will touch you, and more importantly, glorify God.

          How Sew Childhood started, as told by Suzette Goc-ong

          Sew Childhood was born out of one of my lowest points in motherhood. I wasn’t able to breastfeed my firstborn successfully, and by the time he turned one, I also felt degraded not earning my own income. That’s when I decided to turn a simple hobby into something meaningful. I taught myself how to sew from scratch.

          Out of my failed breastfeeding journey came the idea to help other moms feel good and comfortable through the Apron Style Nursing Covers I handcrafted. On Mother’s Day 2016, I posted my first pieces and they immediately sold out. The rest was history.

          “I truly started from scratch. I devoted myself to learning something new as a way to rise above the low esteem I felt as a first-time mom. This brand is unique because it was born from my heart and founded on God’s grace.”

          -Mommy Suzette Goc-ong

          A very inspiring part of our story is I am no longer sewing because Sew Childhood was able to open livelihood opportunities for our community where moms and even students work to support their families’ needs.

          Looking back, I held on to Psalm 30:11: “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; you have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness, that my glory may sing your praise and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever!”

          Starting from scratch

          What makes Sew Childhood’s journey so special is that I truly started from scratch. I devoted myself to learning something new as a way to rise above the low esteem I felt as a first-time mom. This brand is unique because it was born from my heart and founded on God’s grace.

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          Mommy Suzette and her son Niccolo, with the first sewing machine she used when she launched Sew Childhood.

          The product I’m most proud of will always be our Nursing Covers. They’re the foundation of Sew Childhood, created to support moms right from the start of their breastfeeding journey–helping them feel good, confident, and comfortable while nurturing their little ones.

          3 lessons for aspiring mompreneurs

          Let motherhood inspire, not limit.

          From my experience, nung naging mom ako, doon ko talaga na-discover yung inspiration ko for my brand. Kasi dati akala ko mahihirapan na ako to pursue anything kasi motherhood takes so much time and energy. Pero ang nangyari, baliktad, because it actually shaped my creativity.

          Mommy Suzette, breastfeeding her youngest child, Patty.

          Yung mga challenges like breastfeeding in public, or finding comfy clothes for my kids, yun mismo yung naging ideas ko for my products. Kaya para sa’kin, motherhood should inspire you, not limit you. Kasi yung journey mo as a mom is full of stories and solutions na puwede mong i-turn into something meaningful for others. And that’s what happened to me all our products in Sew Childhood is based on our experiences as parents.

          “I want parents, especially moms, to know that breastfeeding is an experience that will give you a fulfillment that no other job or salary can give you.”

          -Mommy Suzette Goc-ong

          Embrace slow and intentional growth.

          Hindi kailangan mabilis palagi. Ako naniniwala na slow, intentional growth is more sustainable. Kasi kapag consistent ka at sincere, dun talaga nabubuo yung trust ng mga customers. Hindi lang siya about sales, but about building relationships and showing na totoo ka sa ginagawa mo. Mas fulfilling yung journey kapag hindi minamadali, kasi mas matibay yung foundation. The lessons in waiting season is also biblical. In perseverance, trust in God’s timing, and hope during the wait.

          Andaming magagandang promises ni God for mompreneurs:

          Galatians 6:9 (“…in due season we will reap, if we do not give up”), Isaiah 40:31 (“But those who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength”), Psalm 37:5 (“Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act”), and Jeremiah 29:11 (“For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you hope and a future”)

          Like for Sew Childhood, I started at the bottom talaga. It’s really just me and the burning passion God has placed in my heart. No connections. Lahat inaral ko at ng husband kong si Neil through our own experiences as parents. The connections came in the latter part when Sew Childhood gained its credibility throughout the years.

          Show up where your customers are.

          Importante talaga to be present kung nasaan yung customers mo. Hindi lang online, kundi sa bazaars, fairs, at real-life events. I personally believe in building relationships with the customers. Kahit online alam mo andaming moms ang naging friends ko na dito sa business na ito. They go to me for advice, happy and sad kwentuhans as well. Through this, mas nakikilala, nakakausap, at naririnig firsthand yung feedback nila. Nakaka-build siya ng deeper connection, at dun mo rin makikita na hindi lang produkto ang binebenta mo, kundi experience at community.

          READ ALSO: How Joining Bazaars Helps Biz Owners Earn Up To Php 80K Per Day

          Mommy Suzette at a recent fair with her “very supportive husband and business partner,” Neil.

          Supporting breastfeeding moms

          I want parents, especially moms, to know that breastfeeding is an experience that will give you a fulfillment that no other job or salary can give you. It’s difficult, yes, but it’s a beautiful gift for you and your baby. I would like to keep encouraging moms to breastfeed–that’s one of the missions of Sew Childhood. You don’t have to do it alone. The more support we give each other, whether through encouragement, community, or even something as simple as a good nursing cover that helps a mom feel comfortable, the easier it becomes. Breastfeeding is not just about nourishing your baby, it’s also about nurturing yourself.

          Despite her “unsuccessful” breastfeeding journey with her firstborn, Mommy Suzette is a proud breastfeeding advocate.

          The vision for Sew Childhood

          For me, Sew Childhood is more than a clothing line. My vision is to build a brand that truly uplifts moms. To continue to be that gentle reminder that they are cared for, whether through something as simple as a Sew Childhood nursing cover or a clothing for their little one.

          I also dream of growing it in a way that gives back, especially by creating more and more livelihood opportunities in our community so that more moms can support their families without having to sacrifice being present at home.

          For this vision to come to life, I know I can’t do it alone. I pray to be surrounded by people who carry the same heart and passion. Partners or mentors who also believe in uplifting mothers and children. With God’s grace and the right team by my side, I believe Sew Childhood can reach and touch even more families.

          Follow Sew Childhood on social media:

          Instagram: @sewchildhood
          Facebook: Sew Childhood
          Tiktok: @sewchildhood

          Check out Sew Childhood products on Shopee and Lazada

        5. Dealing with Grief and Loss: Saying Goodbye to Our Dog Panda

          Dealing with Grief and Loss: Saying Goodbye to Our Dog Panda

          On August 8, we lost a family member—our almost 16-year-old dog, Panda.

          This morning, I caught myself staring at a gaping hole outside our home. It would have been the resting place of our dear Panda,who passed away peacefully in his sleep that day. It’s only been three weeks since he left us, but not a day goes by that we aren’t reminded of him.

          That hole was my husband’s and my attempt to dig a grave for our beloved dog. When we found out that he’s dead at 11AM, our instinct was to dig—under the scorching heat, with the only tools we had at home: a small pick and shovel, and a lot of heart.

          Hello, Panda

          I first met Panda during my then-boyfrend, now husband’s birthday celebration at home back in 2009. He was still a tiny puppy, only a few days old. He had a white fur and black spots, easily, they named him Panda. Since then, we took care of him, and loved him as our family.

          When his sister Pipay died a few years back from slug poisoning, we thought we’d lose Panda too. He showed the same symptoms, but thankfully, we rushed him to the vet at midnight and he was given medicine for his liver.

          When Kevin and I got married and lived in Eastwood, Panda stayed under the care of our tenant in Tandang Sora. We would visit often, usually bringing liempo as his treat. During the pandemic, when our tenant moved out, we took Panda in because he was all alone. Together with our toddler daughter, we survived the lockdown inside our 24-sqm studio unit.

          Our dear Panda.

          We walked him at our condo’s parking lot, as we got our own dose of sunlight and exercise. And when we finally moved to our new home, he had the space to run free again.

          Goodbye, Lolo Panda

          We dug until we reached a rock we just couldn’t break. By then, I was already feeling dizzy, and my husband was drenched in sweat. He took a break from his work, telling his teammates, “I’ll just bury my dog.” My heart broke when I heard him say that. Our kind neighbor saw us and lent us his bigger shovel.

          When Panda died, our instinct was to dig a grave for our dog.

          We took a break for a while because there seems to be no luck in digging anymore. My husband thought, how about we have him cremated?

          On Facebook, we found a pet aftercare provider. When I picked up my daughter from school, I told her what happened. That afternoon, we didn’t play any music during the ride home. We were just quiet.

          They picked up Panda’s remains that same afternoon and gave us a short time to view him before cremation. At around 4 PM, they arrived—just after our 6-year-old daughter saw him and said goodbye.

          By 6 PM, I received a text from telling us we could schedule a viewing at 9 PM. It was an hour’s drive from our home, but it was worth it.

          There, we saw Panda lying on a soft bed surrounded by flowers. Immediately, the tears we’d been holding back poured. It was heartbreaking to say goodbye to the dog who had been with us for nearly 16 years.

          Thank you, Panda.

          When I got pregnant with my first child, Panda knew. He sniffed me often, and appear so clingy because he thought we’d love him less. Whenever he escaped from our house, we’d scour the village non-stop just to find him. I remember looking for him in our village while carrying my three-year-old daughter, holding an umbrella, at noontime. Only to find him resting calmly under a parked truck. He never really left us, but we always feared losing him, because he was family.

          Dealing with the grief of losing a family member

          Reflecting on Panda’s death, here are a few things that help us cope as a family.

          1. Feel your feelings.

          Allowing ourselves to sit with the sadness and grief helped. So did telling others we needed time to grieve. I had to refuse from a task that day because I told them we lost a family member. Digging that grave was our way of processing our emotions together. And being able to see Panda one last time, at peace, helped us prepare to say goodbye.

          2. Talk about him.

          He will never be forgotten. Whenever I see a dog, I think of him. In our home where he was a constant, Panda will always have a special place. Having his ashes with us brings peace—we know he’s still home.

          3. Know that it’s not your fault.

          On the day he died, I was very sorry that I wasn’t able to save him. I cried, and I was guilty that I could’ve done something to extend his life. However, I realized how blessed we are to be able to spend almost 16 years with Panda. We were his only family, and he gave us unconditional love. For that, we will always be grateful.

          Our last family photo, before I gave birth last September

          If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever.

          Run free now, Panda. We love you so much.

          In loving memory of Panda Aladin

          November 2009 – August 8, 2025

          Thank you Precious Paws Aftercare Services for our beautiful send-off to our beloved Panda.

        6. Jilianne Roylence Francia: Normalizing Breastfeeding Everywhere

          Jilianne Roylence Francia: Normalizing Breastfeeding Everywhere

          Hi, Bagong Nanay!

          August is National Breastfeeding Awareness Month, that’s why sobrang honored ako to feature the Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of Mommy Jilianne Roylence Francia, the mom behind the local nursing wear brand Valianne’s Trends.

          Mommy Jill and I worked together for Smart Parenting. But before that, when I was still starting my Bagong Nanay online shop, I saw her shop and got insecure why I should start my own, when she is already thriving in the same space. Eventually, we became friends online, and now I am one of Valianne’s Trends mom ambassadors!

          There’s no better person to share about normalizing breastfeeding in public than Mommy Jill. A proud padede mom, she has two daughters, and a baby boy on the way. Here’s how she is helping more moms breastfeed in style, and persevere through the help of products that she lovingly created.

          Why we should normalize breastfeeding in public

          I was a first-time mom in 2018 and I joined breastfeeding communities to get inspiration from other mothers. I try my best to pay it forward to my new mom friends and give them the support they need in their new motherhood journey. I share how it may be hard in the beginning, but it will be worth it.

          However, a few of them still don’t persevere in breastfeeding for a number of reasons. First, they lack of confidence. Second, people around them say they don’t have enough milk. Third, and the hardest, is the societal pressure. Of course, we respect how babies are all fed and we appreciate every new mother’s effort regardless of their choice. Still, I wanted to help normalize breastfeeding because it has been the most rewarding thing I’ve done as a mom. The bond between me and my child is unlike anything else.

          Mommy Jill breastfeeding her second daughter, PV.

          At Valianne’s Trends, we want to share photos and stories of normalizing breastfeeding in public. As a breastfeeding advocate, I want to share my story because I also drew inspiration and strength from the stories of other moms. I believe that if we won’t be brave and consistent in sharing our stories, we might lose the chance to encourage a mom who just needs a spark of hope to keep going.

          How Mommy Jill’s breastfeeding experience evolved

          One thing I am so proud of myself as a mom is that I was able to breastfeed my two children, and I will breastfeed my third child, too. I remember almost giving up when I experienced cracked, bleeding, and sore nipples because of wrong latch. I even unfollowed breastfeeding groups because I thought I couldn’t bear it, but the sleepless nights of educating myself about proper latch all paid off. I’m happy that I did not give up because, right now, my story has become someone’s source of inspiration, too.

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          Mommy Jill is pregnant with her third child, a boy, and is determined to breastfeed him.

          I want to share to our community that more than just selling clothes, Valianne’s Trends supports them in their breastfeeding journey. We tell them that moms can become confident again after going through hardest days of the postpartum period, or the fourth trimester.

          Breastfeeding is hard work. If you think you can’t, you won’t persevere. Although it’s challenging, it’s a fulfilling journey. When you’re struggling, go back to your ‘why.’

          -Jilianne Roylence Francia

          What helped Mommy Jill in her breastfeeding journey

          Nursing clothes

          Clothes with nursing access has always been a life-changer for me. I remember using nursing cover when breastfeeding in public for the first time and my baby and I weren’t so comfortable with it. It took me a lot of courage to drop the cover and practice wearing our nursing clothes confidently.

          A strong support system.

          Having my elder sister as my number one supporter helped me a lot. She was the one who told me that I have enough milk when I thought I couldn’t produce any.

          The right mindset

          Feed your mind that you can do it. Breastfeeding is hard work. If you think you can’t, you won’t persevere. Although it’s challenging, it’s a fulfilling journey. When you’re struggling, go back to your ‘why.’

          About the Bagong Nanay: I am Mommy Jilianne Roylence Francia from Bacoor, Cavite. I am the Bagong Nanay of QV, PV, and VK. Outside motherhood, I’m a writer, goal-digger, and dreamer.

          Want to share your #KuwentongBagongNanay too? Comment below or send me a DM on Instagram.

        7. Why a Bagong Nanay Needs a Scalp Care Day, ASAP

          Why a Bagong Nanay Needs a Scalp Care Day, ASAP

          If you are a new mom and you haven’t tried Meinas’ 7-Step Scalp Treatment, this is your sign to make time for it.

          Hi, Bagong Nanay! Kumusta? Ako, eto, busy-busyhan. Kaka-soft launch ko lang ng bagong business namin sa social media: Laro Tayo Kids! Inflatable and mobile play space rental siya, perfect for playdates, birthday parties, o kahit walang okasyon! Check it out here.

          Speaking of bago, last week, I tried the 7-Step Professional Scalp Treatment at Meinas Scalp Solutions. Kakaopen lang nila ng bagong branch nila sa SM Mall of Asia! May branch rin sila sa SM North EDSA Annex, kaya I tried their scalp treatment for the first time. All I can say is: TRY NIYO RIN.

          Bagong Nanay Reviews: Meinas 7-Step Scalp Treatment

          So yes, I’m here to convince you to try their 7-Step Scalp Treatment for yourself because you deserve it! If you are any or all of these Bagong Nanays, then go for it!

          1. Hindi ka nakakaligo every day.

          Gets kita, Bagong Nanay. Ako rin, before my treatment with Meinas, hindi ako daily naliligo. Ang excuse ko, walang time dahil may baby. Instead na maligo ako, mag-sulat na lang ako itutulog ko nalang. Lalo naman nung first baby ko. Inaabot ako ng 3-4 days na walang liguan, kasi pandemic, nasa condo lang naman kami, at wala kaming helper. Imbis na maligo ako, aalagaan ko nalang yung baby ko.

          Pero did you know that neglecting hygiene is a sign of depression? Iyan ang kinonfirm sa aking ng aking psychologist when I first consulted a professional for my mental health. Especially nung nakita ko kung anong status ng scalp ko dahil hindi ako naliligo, nakakadiri! May fungus, microbes, at chemical residue na pala sa anit ko! Huhu.

          Avail niyo na yung FREE scalp consultation ng MEINAS, and see it for yourself.

          Meinas offers free scalp consultation in their branches, kaya talagang makikita mo yung magiging difference after the treatment. Kaya go mo na ‘yan.

          My first scalp care treatment at MEINAS SM North EDSA Annex.

          2. Grabe ka mag-hairfall.

          Normal ang 50-100 strands of hair fall per day, ayon sa Healthline. Pero kung Bagong Nanay ka, i-expect mo na na mas marami ang hair fall because of postpartum hair loss, lalo na within the first six months after mong manganak.

          Hindi sa nirerecommend ko, pero noong first baby ko, sobra akong napikon sa hair fall ko, kaya nagpakalbo ako. Shinave ni husband ang aking hair. So in short, na-reset ang aking hair, pero that doesn’t mean na healthy ang scalp ko.

          My scalp before and after MEINAS Scalp Treatment!

          After one session at Meinas, naging healthy ang scalp ko! Naglabasan din daw yung small hair na hindi makalabas dahil clogged yung pores. Nakakatuwa.

          3. Kailangan mo ng me-time.

          Well, lahat ng nanay naman need nito. Pero if you are a Bagong Nanay na wala talagang time for yourself, yung 90-minute scalp treatment na wala kang kasamang kids, sobrang nakaka-recharge siya.

          Also, lagi ko sinasabi na need ko ng full-body massage. Pero hindi ko akalain na need ko rin pala ng sobrang malupit na head and scalp massage. First time kong ma-massage ng ganun, sabi nga ng friend ko, langit yung feeling. Parang natanggal lahat ng stress ko sa buhay. Haha.

          With Ms. Jane of Meinas Scalp Solutions

          Sulit siya for its price of P2,980. Meron ding packages where you can save up to P3530 if you buy 5 sessions. I’m telling you, it’s the spa we never knew we needed. And remember: Healthy hair starts with a healthy scalp.

          Visit Meinas at SM North EDSA Annex (Lower Ground), Greenhills Mall (5th Floor), and SM Mall of Asia (2F North Wing Main Mall) or their website here.

          Watch my full video review of Meinas Scalp Treatment on TikTok and Instagram.