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  • Raising Future-Ready Kids: Street Smart PH by Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    Raising Future-Ready Kids: Street Smart PH by Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta? I’ve been busy with my firstborn daughter’s 7th birthday, but I was looking forward to sharing this story of Mommy Andrea Nicole Balcorta, a 30-year-old Bagong Nanay of one from Pasig City and founder of Street Smart PH.

    My daughter was able to attend a 3-hour Money Masters 101 free class during the recent Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetup at the East, and boy, did she learn a lot of new and important things! Nagulat ako when I asked her to write down what she learned in her notebook the next day – she had learned and understood the concepts of wants vs. needs, credit cards, and even checks!

    What my 6yo learned from the Money Masters 101 workshop! Courtesy of Judy Aladin

    So for July, I am happy to share the Bagong Nanay Biz story of Mommy Nicole, who literally started her business during her maternity leave, and recently marked its first anniversary!

    Read on and be inspired.

    In Her Own Words: How Nicole Balcorta started Street Smart PH

    Life Still Surprises You

    If you had told me a few years ago that I’d be balancing a corporate career, building a social enterprise, and learning the ropes of motherhood all at the same time, I probably would’ve laughed.

    The truth is, I’m still figuring things out every day.

    By day, I work as a trade marketer in an FMCG company. Beyond work, I built Street Smart PH, a passion project close to my heart. And above all, I’m a wife and a mom to a little boy who reminds me every day why this mission matters.

    Looking back, I realize that every season of my life, from leaving home at 12 years old to becoming a first-time mom, was quietly preparing me for something bigger than myself.

    Learning to Adult the Hard Way

    I became independent at a young age.

    When I was just 12 years old, I moved into a dormitory for high school. Living away from home taught me responsibility early on, but it also exposed something I didn’t realize until much later—I wasn’t truly prepared for adulthood.

    School taught me how to solve equations and write essays, but not how to budget my allowance, prepare for a job interview, understand employee benefits, or make smart financial decisions. Like many young adults, I learned those lessons through trial and error.

    I often found myself thinking, What if someone had taught us these before we actually needed them?

    My Son Didn’t Know It Yet, But He Helped Me Start a Business

    Fast forward a few years, I was happily building my corporate career when I became a mom.

    Mommy Nicole and her son. | Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    During my maternity leave, I unexpectedly found myself with something every new parent wishes for—a little extra time. My baby boy was surprisingly calm, and in those quiet moments while he slept, I couldn’t stop thinking about an idea that had been in my heart for years.

    I realized I finally had the chance to build my passion project.

    As I looked at my son, I knew I wanted him to grow up not just academically prepared, but life-ready. And surely, many other parents wanted the same for their children.

    That’s how Street Smart PH was born.

    More Than a Business, It’s a Mission

    Street Smart PH exists to help build future-ready Filipinos by teaching the practical life skills that many of us wish we had learned earlier.

    Mommy Nicole at work! Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    “There are days when work needs me more, and days when my family comes first. I’ve learned to let go of the pressure of getting everything right all the time. Progress is a much kinder goal than perfection.”

    -Mommy Nicole Balcorta, Street Smart PH

    Today, we conduct online and onsite workshops and create interactive workbooks covering financial literacy through Money Masters 101, entrepreneurship through Business Bosses 101, investing through Wealth Warriors 101, home responsibility through Home Heroes 101, and career readiness through Career Champions 101.

    The goal has always been simple: to help young Filipinos feel more confident before life throws its biggest lessons at them.

    In our first year alone, we’ve been blessed to conduct 31 workshops, teach 432 students, distribute 512 workbooks, and partner with 11 schools and organizations. Every learner we meet reminds us why this mission matters.

    This Is Just the Beginning

    Our dream is to make life skills education more accessible to Filipino families.

    We’re working toward launching our e-commerce platform so parents and students can easily access our workbooks anywhere in the country. We also hope to scale our workshops online, collaborate with more schools and homeschool communities, and introduce even more programs (such as Travel Titans 101) to prepare learners for the real world.

    Mommy Nicole and Street Smart PH facilitators! Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    As Street Smart PH continues to grow, people sometimes ask how I balance everything.

    The truth is, I don’t always have the perfect answer. I’m learning as I go (just like every other mom). But if there’s one thing this journey has taught me, it’s that motherhood has shaped the way I lead, work, and dream. These are four lessons I continue to carry with me every day.

    4 Things Motherhood Continues to Teach Me

    1. Find a purpose that’s bigger than yourself.

    Of course, we all want to provide for our families. But when our work also creates a positive impact for others, it gives us a deeper reason to keep going…even on the most exhausting days.

    2. Embrace partnership.

    One of my biggest blessings is having a husband who builds this life with me. We’ve learned that marriage isn’t about dividing responsibilities perfectly. Rather, it’s about supporting each other’s dreams while building a life that’s meaningful for our family. Growing together as partners allows us to grow as individuals, too.

    Mommy Nicole’s family. Courtesy of Andrea Nicole Balcorta

    3. You don’t have to do everything perfectly.

    There are days when work needs me more, and days when my family comes first. I’ve learned to let go of the pressure of getting everything right all the time. Progress is a much kinder goal than perfection.

    4. Focus on energy management instead of time management.

    We all have the same 24 hours. What has helped me most is being intentional about where I give my energy. When I’m at work, I try to be fully present. When I’m with my family, I put my phone down and enjoy the moment. It’s not about doing more. It’s about being present where you are.

    I’m still learning every day, but these reminders have helped me embrace each season with a little more grace.

    Let’s Build the Future Together

    I believe preparing children for the future takes a community.

    If you’re a parent, I’d love to invite you to join one of our upcoming workshops. Follow Street Smart PH on Facebook and Instagram for the latest schedules, and as a reader of Bagong Nanay, you may use the code BBNxSSPH to enjoy 10% off your workshop registration.

    If you’re a school, homeschool community, company, or organization, let’s work together through customized workshops, exclusive learning sessions, or event partnerships.

    And while Street Smart PH continues to grow, my “why” has remained the same. Whenever I look at my son, I’m reminded why I started this journey. I dream of a future where he, and every Filipino child, steps into adulthood with confidence, courage, and the life skills to thrive.

    Because life skills are more than lessons. They’re gifts that last a lifetime. Together, let’s build a generation of future-ready Filipinos – one life skill at a time. 

    Follow Street Smart PH on social media: Facebook, Instagram, and Threads.

  • Frances Santiago: Coping with Grief and Loss

    Frances Santiago: Coping with Grief and Loss

    Trigger warning: Mention of miscarriage, loss, and death

    Hi, Bagong Nanay.

    Kumusta? Recently, we’ve been hearing so many reports about children dying in spaces where they should’ve been safe. I cannot imagine the pain these parents are feeling, lalo na ng mga nanay. Mothers aren’t supposed to bury their children. How does a mother cope with the grief of losing a child?

    That’s why I am honored to share the Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of Mommy Frances Santiago, a mom I met online who eventually became one of the pillars of our Bagong Nanay Milktea Meetups. Through our meetups, I’ve come to know her and her story. She experienced multiple miscarriages, and these experiences made her the strong woman she is now. I knew that by sharing her story with more moms, it would touch lives and glorify the Lord.

    Read on.

    Kuwentong Bagong Nanay: Frances Santiago

    Her motherhood journey

    Motherhood has been the greatest blessing of my life. God blessed me with beautiful, wonderful children, and I truly thought I already knew what my motherhood journey would look like.

    But life took an unexpected turn when I experienced three miscarriages. I lost four babies in three pregnancies. Yes, one of those pregnancies was with twins. In total, I lost four babies. Four little lives I loved from the moment I knew they existed.

    Each pregnancy came with hope, and each loss left a heartbreak that words could never fully describe. I grieved not only the babies I lost but also the dreams and future I had imagined with them.

    “So if you know a mom who has experienced miscarriage, don’t rush her healing. Because love doesn’t end when a life ends. A mother’s love is forever.”

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    After years of waiting, praying, and trusting Him. God surprised me once again. 11 years after my last child, I became pregnant again. It wasn’t just another pregnancy; it became a testimony of God’s faithfulness. Throughout this journey, God kept reminding me of His promises.

    Frances wrote this for Bagong Nanay | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    One verse that stayed close to my heart was Luke 1:45 “Blessed is she who has believe that the Lord would fullfill his promises to her.”

    What a mother’s grief is like

    Losing a child through miscarriage is a different kind of heartbreak. Tapos na-experience ko pa nang paulit-ulit. Sa bawat dalawang guhit sa pregnancy test, kasabay ng saya ang takot, “Sana this time, hanggang dulo na.” Pero sa bawat pagkawala, parang may bahagi na ng puso ko na hindi na maibabalik. Kasi sa ganitong situation, hindi lang baby ang ipinagluluksa mo, kundi pati ang mga pangarap, mga pangalang naisip mo na. First birthday, first steps. mga future na inakala mo na mangyayari.

    Grief after repeated miscarriage is like carrying invisible scars. The hardest part wasn’t just saying goodbye once. It was learning how to survive after saying goodbye over and over again.

    Please don’t carry the weight of blame. Your losses do not define your worth, and they do not mean you failed as a mother.

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    As a Christian, hindi nawala ang faith ko, pero hindi rin nawala ang sakit. Natutunan kong pwedeng sabay umiyak at magtiwala sa Diyos noong time na yon.

    Psalm 30:5 became one of the verses I held on to during those darkest times. There were nights filled with tears, heartbreak, and questions I couldn’t answer. But God reminded me that “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”

    Living with grief

    What helped me cope with the grief was to admit to myself that I’m not okay and cry. Cry myself out and let myself grieve.

    In my experience, bumibili ako noon ng mga gamit na pang-baby like shoes, bonnet, socks, mittens, headbands, etc. Nilalagay ko sya sa box tapos itinatabi ko rin. Walang may alam noon, ako lang at si Lord. Lalo na yung mga may rainbow design. Kasi nga diba a rainbow represents hope after a storm. A rainbow is a sign of God’s promise that He is faithful.

    “Darating din ang araw na may kasamang paghilom, kapayapaan, at panibagong pag-asa.

    – Mommy Frances Santiago

    Mga isang taon din akong ganon, bili ng bili tapos nakatago lang. Nangangarap na, if God will gift me a child again, magagamit nya yon. But later on, pinamigay ko rin lahat. Kasi parang nung time na ‘yon, ang daming buntis sa paligid ko. Ni-let go ko na kay God, sinurrender ko na lahat kasabay ng pamimigay ng mga gamit.

    At doon naman ako nahilig umakyat ng bundok. Doon ako nagdadasal, na balang araw mabubuntis din ako at magiging healthy pregnancy na ito.

    Frances conquered Mount Pulag | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    Message to Bagong Nanay navigating loss

    My message to them is grieve. If I could say one thing, it would be this: Please don’t carry the weight of blame. Your losses do not define your worth, and they do not mean you failed as a mother. And if you’ve gone through this more than once like me, I know the fear becomes different.

    Every pregnancy brings hope, but it also brings anxiety. You start wondering if you’ll get to hold your rainbow baby. You question your body, your faith, and sometimes even yourself. Minsan mapapatanong ka na rin kay Lord, “Bakit ako?” o “Hanggang kailan?” at okay lang yan.

    Frances, with her rainbow baby, Teo. | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    Hindi ibig sabihin na mahina ang faith mo. Kahit ang taong may matibay na pananampalataya, napapagod at umiiyak din. Hindi ka kulang, hindi ka pinaparusahan. Hindi mo kasalanan ang nangyari.

    Darating din ang araw na may kasamang paghilom, kapayapaan, at panibagong pag-asa. Ang kwento ng buhay mo ay hindi pa tapos. God is still writing a beautiful story, kahit hindi pa natin ito nakikita ngayon. One day, the tears we cry today will become part of a testimony of his faithfulness.

    Hindi ibig sabihin habang buhay ka na nasa dilim. Darating ang umaga. Maaring hindi ito dumating sa oras na gusto natin. Pero darating ito sa tamang panahon ng Diyos. Ang umaga ay maaring dumating sa anyo ng healing, renewed faith, peace, answered prayers o simpleng lakas para muling bumangon.

    What Frances wants other people to know about grief

    Hindi madaling ipaliwanag ang grief ng isang ina. It’s not just sadness; it’s love that has nowhere to go. Para kang araw-araw na lumalaban habang may kulang sa puso mo na hindi na mabubuo sa same way again. You smile. You function. You love, but deep inside,
    you have changed. Forever changed by loss and longing.

    People often say “At least maaga pa,” or “Makakabuo pa kayo ulit.” They mean well, but grief doesn’t measure time. Araw-araw natututo kang mabuhay ulit. You smile, you work, you take care of your family. Life goes on, but deep inside may bahagi ng puso mo na tahimik na nagluluksa.

    So if you know a mom who has experienced miscarriage, don’t rush her healing. Because love doesn’t end when a life ends. A mother’s love is forever.

    Frances’ family | Courtesy of Frances Santiago

    This is my motherhood journey. A story of love, loss, faith, waiting and God’s unfailing grace.

    As I continue this journey of motherhood, I want to remind every mama that motherhood isn’t measured only by the children we get to hold. It’s also found in the love we carry the sacrifices we make, the prayers we whisper, and the faith we choose to keep even when life doesn’t go as planned.

    Want to share your Kuwentong Bagong Nanay? Comment below or send me a message on Instagram @bagongnanay

  • A Bagong Nanay’s Guide to Breastfeeding and Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    A Bagong Nanay’s Guide to Breastfeeding and Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    Hi, Bagong Nanays!

    Whether you are planning to or currently breastfeeding your child, alam nating hindi siya madali. Kaya naman whatever would help a new mom navigate their breastfeeding journey helps a lot!

    I stumbled upon a post on Threads of a Mommy Viktoria Melgo (@mvmlg), listing the lactation and breastfeeding areas she has found in Metro Manila malls (with photos!). With her permission, I compiled them in this article for easy reference for Bagong Nanays. I also included here the comments of moms who shared theirs as well.

    Lactation Rooms in Metro Manila

    Las Piñas

    📍SM Southmall

    2nd floor near Ace Hardware

    Spacious for one momma. One at a time lang here, nasa loob ito ng mall clinic. Overall, it’s nice and comfortable, not too cold just enough para hindi pagpawisan. The only con is not allowed ang pag-change ng diaper here, but there’s a diaper changing area in the comfort room across.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Makati

    📍Powerplant Mall

    You have privacy with accordion doors, you can change your baby’s nappy sa cubicle mismo. And pinakaimportant is malamig!! And may bantay na lady guard outside. Ayoko sa lahat yung cramped na lactation room tapos pawis pa kayo ni baby huhu Contributed by @honaluli (no photo)

    📍Rustans (inside Glorietta)

    3rd level

    Need I say more? Super shala and comfy parang pwede ko pa papasukin ang mga kamag-anak ko sa laki. Lactation room ba to o nursery na? 😂 One mom at a time lang since isa lang yung door na pwede ma-lock. Sakto lang ang lamig sa loob and kung mainitan ka, may ready na fan! Pwede sina daddy, lolo, lola sa loob 😂

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍SM Makati

    4th level, SM Store near Women’s Intimates area

    Very comfortable here. It has two booths and a common changing area with a sink. I like na yung two booths are different (yung isa maliwanag, yung isa dim kasi walang ilaw).

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Mandaluyong City

    📍Shangri-La Plaza

    Pros: Malamig, comfy LazyBoy chair, my baby fell asleep while feeding because of the comfy chair and throw pillows, and nice lighting too. There’s a sink, microwave, and changing area also.

    Cons: No separate areas for each mom, you’re all in one common room that’s why dads are not allowed inside. Contributed by @nicooolesantos

    Photo by Nicole Santos Tagle

    Muntinlupa

    📍Festival Mall

    Basement level, near Riverpark (below JCo)

    It is also nice here! There are three booths with accordion doors so may privacy and may common changing area outside with a sink and a fridge.

    Cons here are no companions allowed, and mahina ang signal for both Smart and Globe users.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍Rustans, Alabang Town Center

    Baby section, near cashier

    Spacious! One mommy at a time lang. It’s nice and cozy here.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Paranaque

    📍Landmark, Ayala Malls Manila Bay

    Grocery level near Food Court

    No privacy! See the glass by the door? I had to put the chair ng nakatalikod para lang di ako kita ng mga nasa labas. Also, the mobile data signal is bad here.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍 Ayala Malls Manila Bay

    Outside the mall 🥵 Exit near McDonald’s then turn right, nasa dulo (yes, nasa labas ng mall, tapat ng mga PUV)

    The room itself is nice, it has two booths. Yung nasa pic is what each booth looks like. Companions are allowed din. Only con is nasa labas siya ng mall. Hindi ko sure kung mainit sa loob o sadyang mainit yung feeling na lumabas ka sa mall then lakad onti para makarating dito. 🤪

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Pasay

    📍Ikea

    3rd level, near entrance of showrooms

    I also like it here! The only cons is medyo mainit sa loob so might be helpful to bring a fan para comfy kayo ni baby. Pwede din ang companion sa loob.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍Okada

    In between Jollibee and Starbucks

    I super love it here! Super comfy and pwede mag sleep si baby since tahimik, plus pwede si hubby pumasok sa loob!

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍SM Mall of Asia

    3rd level, near Mary Grace

    I love this. Super spacious, madaming pwede i-accommodate na moms, plus may footrest! Omg, naka tulog si baby here for an hour since walang light sa loob ng booth.

    Cons here is mahina signal both Smart and Globe, and hindi rin pwede ang companion sa loob.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    📍S Maison

    Near Coffee Bean

    One lactation room area only and no diaper-changing area here. Cozy naman ang ambiance. The only con here is although may glass door, may curtain naman for added privacy.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Pasig City

    📍 Estancia Mall

    Private room and may changing station sa loob. Pwede companion pero mainit ang temperature. Very spacious. Contributed by @4rm_atoz (no photo)

    📍SM Megamall

    3rd level, SM Store

    Cool temperature. Bawal ang companion. May changing stations and hot water are a plus. Contributed by @4rm_atoz

    Photo by 4rm_atoz
    Photo by 4rm_atoz

    Quezon City

    📍 SM Fairview

    Isang room, may three cubicles with a single couch each. Although may sink for handwashing, bawal naman mag-change ng diaper, kaya every time na magla-log ako, sinusulat ko ‘Changing station please’. Hirap tuloy, pupunta pa ng CR para palitan ang babies, eh malayo pa naman yung may maayos na changing station. @lyneliciousss (no photo)

    📍Trinoma

    Six years ago, ‘yung breastfeeding station nila ay nasa loob ng Member’s Lounge. Ngayon, sineperate na nila. This is located sa 3rd floor (ata, hindi ko masyado maalala, basta sa tabi ng Fully Booked!)
    Ang lungkot nito compared to what they had before. Allowed ang two moms sa loob, but in my case, I had to wait for the first mom, kasi kasama yung dad sa loob, and jampacked sila with a stroller pa. Tapos curtain lang din ang door, labas-masok pa yung ibang mall employee kasi yung likod/tabi nyan ay HQ nila. Contributed by @_tubillokat

    Photo by @_tubillokat

    San Juan

    📍Greenhills Mall

    5th level

    Really nice here. Many changing stations and breastfeeding booths. Booths can be a little warm so bring a fan! There’s a play area and a lounge (which can be crowded in the afternoon). Overall, the entire place is kinda warm. I think they made it like this para hindi tambayan since wala bantay dito. Companions are allowed here, too!

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Taguig

    📍Mitsukoshi Mall

    Wala akong picture but super ganda doon! Hahaha. May CR sa loob para sa family. May parking area ng mga stroller. Three ung private rooms. Contributed by @zandragonslayer (no photo)

    📍One Bonifacio High Street

    Upper Ground, near Cole Haan

    With fee, but naalala ko hindi naman super mahal. With 2 lactation booths and common changing area with sink. They call it a Family Lounge, and yes, very spacious and multiple families can tambay/rest at the same time. With small play area and madaming cubicle for both male & female restrooms. Very comfy mag rest here nakatulog si hubs! 😆 Contributed by @leysvelasquez

    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez
    Photo by @leysvelasquez

    📍SM Aura

    4th floor beside Fully Booked

    There are three breastfeeding booths that have comfy chairs and a side table each. Only one changing station (no pad, just plain countertop), so there might be waiting time, which is okay lang kasi may couch naman na pwede paghintayan.

    Another con besides the one changing station is that there’s a 40-minute time limit for each mom. May attendant to check, which I don’t think is a con naman since it’s enough time naman yun for one feed and nap ni baby.

    Photo by Viktoria Melgo

    Any other lactation rooms / breastfeeding areas in Metro Manila that you want to add to this list? Comment below or DM me at @bagongnanay on Instagram.

  • We Tried Kubo’s Free Trial Class on Reading, Filipino Sign Language, and More

    We Tried Kubo’s Free Trial Class on Reading, Filipino Sign Language, and More

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Patapos na ang summer vacation ng ating kids, and as a nanay of an incoming Grade 2, andiyan na yung thoughts like, “Paano na kaya this school year? Maging as bibo kaya siya as before? What if mahirapan siya?”

    But then, we’ll never know! We take it one day at a time, and we’ll arrive at the end for sure, feeling proud of what we’ve accomplished together.

    For now, I wanted to share with you about an online learning platform I discovered recently. I received an email from Mommy Ericka Gonzales Macasaquit, founder of Kubo Learning Center, earlier this month. She offered my 6-year-old a free trial class! They offer online classes on Reading in English and Filipino, Mathematics, and Filipino Sign Language, among others. The last one piqued our interest.

    When Lia was younger, we loved reading a book entitled Every Sunday, written by Och Gonzalez and illustrated by CJ Reynaldo. It tells about the story of Kuya Berto, an ice cream vendor who is Deaf. A little girl started learning how to sign so she can order ice cream from him. Thus, may interest and context na si Lia about sign language and the Deaf community.

    Kaya when she tried the 20-minute Filipino Sign Language online trial class with Kubo, she loved it a lot, and we wanted to take additional classes!

    Bagong Nanay Reviews: Kubo Learning Center

    1-on-1 class

    What we loved about the session is that it was customized for the child. Before the session, they sent me a list of questions to answer about my child so that they can tailor-fit the class for her. We’ve tried group online classes before, and medyo kagulo siya. But this one, it’s one-on-one so it really held space for the child to focus and learn.

    No-fuss free trial class

    After sending the details, Kubo sent me a Google Calendar with the video call link. On the day, I just set up my laptop with a webcam in a quiet room with Lia, and on her scheduled time, the teacher started the class without needing my help.

    child doing kubo learning center free trial sign language class filipino
    Lia during her free online Filipino sign language trial class at Kubo Learning Center

    The teacher was kind and communicative

    What I loved about Kubo’s class is that Teacher Q was good at communicating with children. Based on his background, he’s only 20 years old, and he instantly connected with my daughter. He explained the instructions well and proceeded with the lesson smoothly. There was no dull moment and he was interacting with her throughout the 20-minute class.

    Lia’s FSL teacher, Coach Q! Courtesy: Facebook /Kubo Learning Center

    The trial class was informative enough!

    I was surprised that after 20 minutes, my daughter was able to understand why it’s important to learn how to sign in Filipino, know and remember how to sign vowels, and have her own sign name. After the class, my daughter got her journal and took notes! So cute.

    If we plan to proceed with the full session, Kubo will send the full lesson plan with the rates. You may choose lang from the sessions what you like or take the whole course.

    Watch Lia’s full review on TikTok here.

    Our verdict: Must-try!

    Talking to Mommy Ericka, who is a mom of two and business consultant based in California, USA, she started Kubo to make her kids familiar and stay connected with the Filipino culture and heritage, even when they are growing abroad.

    “Every class was tested by my kids to make sure that they are valuable,” she said. “We made Kubo classes online, so that they can learn comfortably from home, wherever they are in the world.”

    If you want to try Kubo’s online trial classes for FREE, message them on Instagram or Facebook.

  • Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Bloom Where You’re Planted: Bloom Pad by Irish Chloe Yu

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    If you are active on Threads like me, you might have come across some of the courageous and heartfelt posts of Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, mom of three and founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. I’ve been following her and read her journey as a mom and a cancer warrior.

    Kaya na-shookt ako one morning when I was contemplating whose business I could feature on Bagong Nanay Biz this April, sobrang sakto, Irish sent me a DM asking me if she can collaborate with me. I mean, it’s a yes. It’s really meant to be.

    Therefore, it’s my honor and privilege to share her inspiring business story for this month’s Bagong Nanay Biz. Please read til the end to get an exclusive voucher!

    In Her Own Words: How Irish Chloe Yu started Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I am Irish Chloe Yu, a 31-year-old mother of three beautiful children, ages 7, 5, and 2. My professional foundation is in Financial Management and Business Administration, and I previously spent years in the corporate world as a bank teller and a telco account executive.

    However, my heart has always been in entrepreneurship; I have been a business owner from different industries for nearly a decade now, and am the proud founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin. 

    Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, founder of Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    How a cancer diagnosis started a brand

    Bloom was born out of a very personal struggle. For a long time, I lived a life of “trial and error” with menstrual products because of my health battles. I have endometrial polyps, which caused me to bleed for up to 20 days a month, and as a thyroid cancer warrior, my hormonal health was a constant uphill climb.

    “I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    -Mommy Irish Chloe Yu, Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    I remembered how my nanay started me on pasador (menstrual cloth), and I spent years searching for a modern product that offered that same level of breathability, gentleness, and care.

    Bloom Sanitary Napkin | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yun

    I actually found the courage to start this business right when I was diagnosed with cancer. Instead of letting the fear consume me, I chose to focus on healing and creating a solution that had a deeper purpose. I wanted to turn my recovery into a testimony to show that even in our weakest moments, we can create something that empowers and heals others.

    Lessons from being a mom and businessowner

    I’ve learned that business is a reflection of motherhood: both require you to slow down, be deeply intentional, and lead with a clear purpose. There is a certain grace in both roles that forces you to look for the “gift of God” in every challenge.

    Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves,” says Irish Chloe Yu. | Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    Motherhood taught me that you cannot rush growth, and business taught me that every small effort is a seed planted for the future. Both have shown me that when you lead with love, success is no longer just about numbers it’s about the lives you touch. 

    Why moms should try Bloom Sanitary Napkin

    During my journey, I discovered a harsh reality: many sanitary pads are made with chlorine and whiteners that are far too harsh for our bodies. I engineered Bloom specifically with the Filipina in mind. We live in a warm climate, so I prioritized breathable materials and eliminated all harmful chemicals.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    We used Hard Lock Technology to ensure that blood never “bounces back,” combined with an ultra-thin design for maximum comfort.

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    As moms, we carry so much on our shoulders already our menstrual care should be one thing we don’t have to worry about. Bloom isn’t just a product; it’s the peace of mind every nanay deserves. We’ve made it with extra love because your comfort is non-negotiable.

    Advice for Bagong Nanays who also want to start a business

    1. Start by going back to the Source.

    If God placed a specific idea in your heart, it is because He has already entrusted you with the strength and knowledge to bring it to life.

    2. Don’t be afraid to start small.

    There is so much beauty in the humble beginnings. Enjoy every part of the process, and remember that failure isn’t a dead end, it’s just a part of growing.

    3. Never forget to rest.

    As driven as we are, we must remember that rest is not a sign of weakness; it is a luxury and a necessity that keeps our spirits fueled for the journey. 

    Exclusive Bloom discount code for Bagong Nanays!

    Courtesy of Irish Chloe Yu

    I would love for you to experience the comfort of Bloom! Use this code to start your journey toward better self-care when you checked out in our Shopee account. Use the code below for 10% OFF all products:

    Voucher Code: BLOOMBN 

    Purchase Bloom Sanitary Napkin on Shopee here. Follow their social media pages on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

  • Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

    Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta?

    I just wanted to write a quick post to do two things: 1) recap our 2025 in Bagong Nanay; 2) invite you to our first Milk Tea Meetup.

    Bagong Nanay’s 2025, wrapped

    I mentioned in a reel that my 2025 was a year of heartbreaks and breakthroughs. The first half of the year was the extension of my maternity leave. I gave birth to my second child via Caesarean section in September 2024, and went back to work in January 2025. I became a Bagong Nanay all over again, and I wasn’t prepared for the reset. I prayed and prayed for God to help me decide what to do next: I love my job, but my son needed me more.

    That’s why in May, I decided to resign from my job as an editor at Smart Parenting.

    July

    In July, I restarted Bagong Nanay. I bought a new domain and hosting, and started writing for my own website. I was scared but also excited for what God has in store for me. And so I kept writing.

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    Bagong Nanay, new logo for 2025 relaunch

    Before the month ended, my good friend and Bagong Nanay Roanne Duran Pascual wrote about how she’s raising her son to be a reader. It was the first Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025.

    raising a reader
    Photo credits: Roanne Duran Pascual

    August

    The next month, God showed His plans for me.

    In August, I signed my first brand partnership. The only milk brand I trust, HiPP Organic Kindermilk tapped Bagong Nanay to be one of their influencers. Not only did I found THE milk for my children, but they helped grow my mom community through their Mommy Meetups.

    Having fun at the HiPP Mommy Meetup with my new Bagong Nanay friend, Gayle Dhillon. | Photo credits: HiPP Organic Kindermilk Philippines Facebook page

    On the same month, another good friend and writer Jilianne Roylence Francia, who also owns Valianne’s Trends, shared how she started her advocacy to normalize breastfeeding anywhere.

    bagong nanay jilianne francia normalizing breastfeeding
    Photo credits: Jilianne Roylence Francia

    I also debuted the Bagong Nanay Biz section, where I feature moms and their businesses. For the first issue, Suzette Goc-ong of Sew Childhood shared how she built her clothing business from scratch.

    sew childhood story
    Photo credits: Suzette Goc-ong

    It was also in August when our family grieved the death of our 16-year-old dog, Lolo Panda. I knew I had to write about it, and it helped that I did.

    I started showing up on TikTok too! Panindigan na natin ‘to.

    September

    It was during this month when I was busy preparing for my son’s first birthday. During his party, my husband and I launched Laro Tayo Kids, an inflatable slide and mobile playground rental business. It was my biggest move for 2025, and it took lots of prayers and sleepless nights to happen.

    I also featured a mom I found on Threads, who sells sweaters and onesies with handsewn prints: Yane Cuarto of Elisha and Eliana. Her story reached thousands, and it was the highest viewed story of Bagong Nanay to date.

    elisha n eliana
    Photo credits: Yane Cuarto

    October

    On my birth month, I finally had the courage to write a vulnerable post about caring for our mental health and staying alive.

    I was grateful to also share the story of Ara Yeung, the Bagong Nanay behind Cuddle and Coo PH, on how her business helped her in so many ways.

    Cuddle and Coo owner Ara Yeung for Bagong Nanay
    Photo credits: Ara Yeung

    November

    The best is yet to come. In November, I had the pleasure of working with Bianca Gonzalez, and becoming part of one of the episodes in her Paano Ba To? The Podcast.

    PAANO BA TO BAGONG NANAY
    Screenshot from YouTube /iamsuperbianca

    It was a dream come true, an answered prayer, and again, God showing how powerful He is. He makes all things new. I didn’t know it yet, but Bianca will invite me to a very intimate brunch in December! Watch it here.

    I also received an email from a mompreneur who wanted to share her story on Bagong Nanay. Sobrang kilig ko when I read her message. Eds Nabong of Aimerie shared how she paused her career and built her cloth diapering business.

    eds-nabong-aimerie-bagong-nanay
    Photo credits: Eds Nabong

    December

    To end the year, Ives Lim Esteban of Tickled Babies shared how she built her business during her tender season as a Bagong Nanay. She’s the mom who brought well-loved brands like HALO SleepSack, NoseFrida, and OXO Tot to the Philippines

    ives lim esteban of tickled babies for bagong nanay
    Photo credits: Ives Lim Esteban

    And the last Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025 was the story of Tina Santiago Rodriguez, a media missionary and mother of six (plus one in Heaven). She shared what and who helps her do it all.

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    Photo credits: Facebook /Jewels Conference, Tina Santiago Rodriguez

    Hello, 2026! Milk tea tayo, yes?

    What a year that was. I didn’t know that all those things could happen, all I knew was I’ve chosen to surrender to God’s plans.

    That’s why, to start the year, we’ll be having our very first Bagong Nanay Milk Tea Meetup this month! Yes, gusto lang naman nating mga mommies ay mag-me time habang umiinom ng ating dasurv na dasurv na milk tea. Start tayo sa South! Our venue is in Alabang, Muntinlupa. Babies are allowed! Gets na gets namin yan.

    So far, may 10 mom members of our Viber community confirmed! Partner kami ni mother Chesca Susmerano of Studio Maria for the program. We want to make it special and meaningful for the Bagong Nanays!

    If you want to join us, comment below or send me a DM on Facebook, Instagram, or Threads so I can send you the link to our Bagong Nanay Community Viber group. We’ll be having another one in the North and East soon!

    If you made it this far, thank you so much for being here. You matter so much. I hope you remember that. God loves you!

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    My 2026 Surrender planner from my bestie Cherrie Julian

    Here for you,

    Nanay Judy

    “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31

  • So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    I just wanted to share a milestone for Bagong Nanay. I got the honor and opportunity to work with no less than my favorite interviewer and podcaster Bianca Gonzalez for an episode of Paano Ba ‘To? The Podcast.

    For context, I love listening to podcasts. While my current fave is Dogshow Divas by Macoy Dubs and Baus Rufo, I’ve been listening to Bianca’s podcast especially during my early days as a Bagong Nanay. It was 2021, during the COVID-19 pandemic, and while I was washing dishes, cooking, or breastfeeding my firstborn daughter then, Bianca’s Legends Only series kept me sane.

    Then, in 2022, I got the chance to interview Bianca for Smart Parenting about mom guilt and mom rage.

    I was able to even attend a live event of Paano Ba ‘To? in 2023 and thought that was already the best things to happen as a fangirl.

    paano ba to live batch 12
    I was part of the Paano Ba ‘To? Live 12 last Dec 2023, and it was the best!

    But I really believe God listens to even our most tender prayers: I became part of a Paano Ba ‘To? episode!!!

    In this episode, Bianca talked to Andi Manzano-Reyes, former DJ, and now a content creator and mom of three, who shared her thoughts about pursuing passion alongside motherhood (plus, money tips!)

    Watch it til the end, and you’ll see me asking Andi a question about why we should not feel guilty to buy something for ourselves sometimes.

    I’ve made it!

    Andi’s countdown: Top 3 mindsets to turn passion into something that will last

    • Take that first step, and just keep moving forward.
    • Be grateful, and don’t take today for granted.
    • Have the right partner and support system.

    Side note: I’m happy to be part of this episode because personally, I use RCBC as one of my banks. I opened one to organize my other sources of funds, and to be honest, ang dali mag-open ng account onsite (I remember bringing my daughter then). And online din, even when the bank transitioned to a new app (Pulz), I didn’t encounter any issues. Thanks for this episode, RCBC!

    And who knows, Bagong Nanays? Someday, baka I’ll be the one Bianca interviews! I’ll be so ready for that.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

    Listen to the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcast.

    Also, join the Paano Ba ‘To: SUPER Group on Facebook too.

    Bagong Nanay, we have a Viber group for you. Comment below so I can send you the link.

  • Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

    Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta? Kaliwa’t kanan ang balita ng lindol at flu outbreak, okay ka pa ba? Ang daming nangyayari, pero don’t forget that it’s okay to feel anxious and all these big feelings, but let’s do our best to not dwell on them.

    Ang dami kong nakikitang mommies who are preparing their Go Bags at marami ring sellers na nagbebenta ng hard hat. Nabasa ko nga, during these times, it’s okay to worry, but it’s better to be prepared.

    Kaya naman, this October, which is also World Mental Health Awareness Month, it’s fitting to share about the story of a Bagong Nanay who, despite her mental health struggles, was able to thrive and build her own business.

    We put the spotlight on Mommy Arabella April Yeung, the mom behind the brand Cuddle and Coo PH, which offers an FDA-approved lactation and recovery drink and other parent and baby products. I’ve tried their Malunggay & Acai Berry Juice and you can read about my review here.

    Mommy Ara, who used to be a public hospital nurse, shared with Bagong Nanay how she battled with mental health struggles on her own. It was during the COVID-19 pandemic when she finally had the courage to seek professional help, and she was diagnosed with major depressive disorder with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Her husband supported her through it all, and she poured herself into Cuddle and Coo PH, a small business she dearly loves.

    This is her Bagong Nanay Biz story.

    A full circle moment

    I’d like to think that Cuddle and Coo PH began during our first visit to a baby fair—Momzilla—in 2023. We were browsing baby items and came across a booth managed by siblings. One of the sisters was pregnant at that time, and was selling maternity clothes and baby trinkets. We chatted a little, and they were the first to inspire us to dream of creating our own brand someday. I even told my husband, “Hon, one day tayo naman ang mangbubudol.” Little did I know that joke stayed with him, and eventually became real. At that time, I was pregnant with two babies: my son Jin, and Cuddle and Coo PH.

    “Blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing.”

    -Mommy Ara Yeung

    When I gave birth in August 2023, I struggled with the sweets and drinks I consumed. Since I had gestational diabetes, I had to be careful with my sugar intake. I stopped eating the usual treats and switched to supplements, but it felt more like a chore than something enjoyable. I wanted something refreshing and delicious without affecting my sugar. This became my daily “litanya” to my husband, who encouraged me to reach out to the right people—being a nurse with connections to hospitals and professionals. That was when it hit me: this challenge could become an opportunity.

    Mommy Ara Yeung of Cuddle and Coo PH

    One of the main challenges we faced was delegating tasks. As a nurse, I’m used to things progressing in a certain, structured way. My husband meanwhile is a lawyer, who is more chill and used to delays. This difference often frustrated me.

    For one, we had to launch the brand without our flagship product because of delays with our FDA certification. By God’s grace, we were able to successfully introduce Cuddle and Coo PH at Momzilla in November 2024!

    This Malunggay and Acai Berry Juice is Cuddle and Coo PH’s flagship product

    A family affair

    Every night, my husband and I would say: “Lord, miss na naming mag-pack ng parcel, palambing naman po ng order.” And true enough, there are days when we have no sales at all—days when we look at each other nervously, wondering if people have already forgotten us and worry that our stocks expire. But the Lord has His ways.

    Sometimes the shop is quiet for days, then suddenly we get 10–15 orders in a single day, and we’re scrambling to pack and ship. It taught us that blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing. It also reminded us to pause, breathe, and enjoy family moments in between.

    “When it gets overwhelming, I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home.”

    -Mommy Ara Yeung

    Despite the structured chaos, this business has strengthened our faith and marriage. When I’m busy with inventory, my husband takes over baby duties—feeding, burping, changing nappies, even thawing milk. He has never missed a doctor’s appointment and always makes time for us, even packing parcels after a full day of work. If this business journey has given us that kind of teamwork and resilience, then all the struggle has definitely been worth it.

    Ara with her very supportive husband

    Although we have an extra hand with our sales associate Thea, who works part-time during baby fairs, I handle most of the day-to-day tasks at home while juggling work, chores, and childcare. It gets overwhelming, but I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home. What was once just a dream is now reality. Even our son Jin learns from this—he hands us tape when packing or opens doors when I’m carrying parcels. He sees his dad working, too. These small lessons by example are priceless, something words alone can’t teach a toddler.

    Advice for aspiring mompreneurs

    If you want to start a business, you need to be ALL IN.

    No reservations, no shyness. Who else can champion your product better than you, the creator? That’s why I’ve spent almost a year attending baby fairs, engaging with moms and dads about their breastfeeding journey.

    The first year is crucial.

    It’s where you’ll see whether the business is earning or just breaking even. Document everything, down to the last peso. That’s how you’ll know what’s working and what’s not. And very importantly, don’t cover costs out-of-pocket. Let the earnings fund the cycle. Proper costing and accounting are key; otherwise, you risk setting yourself up for failure.

    Have faith in the Lord, in yourself, in your products, and in your team.

    Faith carries you through the days when sales are low and motivation is running out. Sometimes blessings overflow, sometimes it feels quiet. Don’t be discouraged. Maybe it just means more effort is needed or a better strategy for visibility.

    Listen to feedback, criticisms, and setbacks.

    These are not failures, but steps forward. No system is perfect. Cuddle and Coo PH is what it is today because of continuous feedback—from co-merchants, customers, and our small team.


    What’s next for Cuddle and Coo

    Our vision is to make Cuddle and Coo PH a trusted name for moms and families who want healthier, safer, and more thoughtful alternatives in their parenting journey. We want our brand to be more than just products—it’s about community, support, and encouragement for parents navigating the same challenges we faced.

    “Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.” -Ara Yeung

    In the near future, we plan to expand our product line to include more parent- and baby-friendly items, with the same focus on health and wellness. We’re also exploring collaborations with fellow mompreneurs and health professionals to bring better awareness and education to families. Beyond online and baby fairs, we hope to eventually have a physical space—a “Cuddle and Coo corner”—where parents can discover products, share experiences, and feel supported.

    Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.

    Follow Cuddle and Coo PH on social media and shop their products here:

  • Roanne Duran-Pascual: Raising a Reader

    Roanne Duran-Pascual: Raising a Reader

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    July is National Children’s Book Month, kaya naman I asked a fellow Bagong Nanay to share how she’s raising her toddler son to develop a love for reading.

    I remember interviewing an Ivy League professor and author Gregory W. Slayton, and he shared that children learn how to make sense of the world through reading. He boldly said, “You cannot be a leader if you are not a reader.” No pressure naman sa ating mga nanay, kasi sabi naman niya, even if you are not a great reader yourself, at least, help your child to love reading because it’s through it that they understand how the world works.

    So for our first #KuwentongBagongNanay since our re-launch, I asked my good friend Roanne Duran-Pascual to share tips and book recommendations for parents. Roanne is one of the greatest storytellers I know. ‘Yung tipong kapag nagkuwento siya, feeling mo nandun ka sa pangyayari, ganun ka-vivid. I believe it’s because she reads and writes a lot. That’s why when she became a Nanay, I know she’ll enjoy telling her son stories, and nurturing his love for reading too.

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    Roanne and her son Noah. Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Kaya wala nang patumpik-tumpik pa, here’s how Roanne raises her son to be a reader and a leader. In her words, she’s a Bagong Nanay who is ‘living the prayer, and learning every day.’

    Read on, and share this with another Bagong Nanay.

    Why raise your child to be a reader, according to a reading mama

    I strive to raise a reader because, first, reading opens up a limitless world—and books are passports that take my son to places we never could. I love how books allow him to see, hear, and feel things beyond his everyday experience. How his imagination expands with every new character he meets and new adventure he takes on. This is particularly crucial during children’s foundational years (0-3yo), when their brains are developing at lightning speed. Which brings me to my second reason. 

    Studies have proven a wide range of benefits of reading to child development. From cognitive and communication skills, to focus and critical thinking. Kids learn faster, comprehend better, and analyse sharper. Of course, we can teach all these skills in other ways, but if we can nurture them all just from one regular activity, isn’t that a big win for us parents?

    Reading is one of the best ways to learn empathy.

    -Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Third, and most importantly for me, I want my son to grow up recognizing and respecting others who are different from him. To hear voices and feel experiences other than his own. Reading is one of the best ways to learn empathy. Like why Rainbow Fish won’t give up any of his shiny scales, or how happy Giraffe felt when Porcupine knitted him a scarf—simple stories allow him to learn others’ struggles and emotions.

    Little Noah and his book. Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    He may not fully show these traits now, but it’s never too early to teach him compassion, kindness, and seeing the world through the eyes of others.

    How to raise a reader: 3 practical tips

    Be consistent.

    I know, it’s hard for us parents who have endless to-do lists and barely half a brain to keep up with routines. So choose at least just one part of your kid’s day and dedicate that time for reading. It could be before bedtime, after shower, first thing in the morning—whichever works best for you and your kid. It doesn’t have to be long, even just 15 minutes of fully present time, every day, makes a huge difference in the long run. Consistency is key.

    Make it accessible.

    Have books within their reach as much as possible. (Yes, there will be book casualties, but trust me–it’s worth it). If you can, get a toddler shelf so they can pull out books anytime they want (there are pretty decent ones in Lazada/Shopee that are less than P1,000).

    Books don’t have to be expensive. Check with other parents if they have hand-me-downs. Second-hand bookstores are also great places to score affordable gems.

    Roanne Duran-Pascual

    If that’s not an option, just set up a cozy corner with a pile of their books. We also usually leave books lying around in bed, which he can pick up when he wakes up before we do; and we always pack a book in our baby bag as the default “toy” when we go out.

    Make it fun.

    Reading should be something they enjoy, not earned or dreaded. Avoid associating reading with rewards, punishments, or chores. Make it as normal as eating and playing. Bonus: let them see you reading yourself and finding joy in it. 

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    Noah: Happy reader here! Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Book and author recommendations

    Noah’s turning two in October and these are the books he engaged well and clearly picked up most from.

    Dr. Seuss beginner books

    They use simple, repetitive words, and catchy rhyme and rhythm. These help kids learn and memorize words more easily, boosting their confidence and encouraging them to read more.

    Adarna board books

    Books from Adarna House are best in introducing age-appropriate concepts in Filipino, like body parts, family members, and food. I especially love their series on Filipino values and mabuting asal.

    Sandra Boynton and Eric Carle books

    Both are engaging series. Boynton’s are short and humorous, often in sing-song patterns, making them super fun to read. Carle’s have vibrant and engaging illustrations with subtle lessons embedded in stories. 

    There are so many wonderful books out there, so feel free to discover what your child enjoys most. And remember, books don’t have to be expensive. Big tip: check with other parents (friends, mommy/daddy groups, online declutter pages) if they have any hand-me-downs. Second-hand bookstores are also great places to score affordable gems.

    About the Bagong Nanay: I am Roanne Duran-Pascual from Marikina City. I am the Bagong Nanay of Noah, 1 year and 9 months. Outside motherhood, I’m a storyteller and development worker, who dreams of opening her own bookstore one day.

    Want to share your #KuwentongBagongNanay too? Comment below or send me a DM on Instagram.