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  • Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

    Hello, 2026: Bagong Taon, Bagong Nanay!

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta?

    I just wanted to write a quick post to do two things: 1) recap our 2025 in Bagong Nanay; 2) invite you to our first Milk Tea Meetup.

    Bagong Nanay’s 2025, wrapped

    I mentioned in a reel that my 2025 was a year of heartbreaks and breakthroughs. The first half of the year was the extension of my maternity leave. I gave birth to my second child via Caesarean section in September 2024, and went back to work in January 2025. I became a Bagong Nanay all over again, and I wasn’t prepared for the reset. I prayed and prayed for God to help me decide what to do next: I love my job, but my son needed me more.

    That’s why in May, I decided to resign from my job as an editor at Smart Parenting.

    July

    In July, I restarted Bagong Nanay. I bought a new domain and hosting, and started writing for my own website. I was scared but also excited for what God has in store for me. And so I kept writing.

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    Bagong Nanay, new logo for 2025 relaunch

    Before the month ended, my good friend and Bagong Nanay Roanne Duran Pascual wrote about how she’s raising her son to be a reader. It was the first Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025.

    raising a reader
    Photo credits: Roanne Duran Pascual

    August

    The next month, God showed His plans for me.

    In August, I signed my first brand partnership. The only milk brand I trust, HiPP Organic Kindermilk tapped Bagong Nanay to be one of their influencers. Not only did I found THE milk for my children, but they helped grow my mom community through their Mommy Meetups.

    Having fun at the HiPP Mommy Meetup with my new Bagong Nanay friend, Gayle Dhillon. | Photo credits: HiPP Organic Kindermilk Philippines Facebook page

    On the same month, another good friend and writer Jilianne Roylence Francia, who also owns Valianne’s Trends, shared how she started her advocacy to normalize breastfeeding anywhere.

    bagong nanay jilianne francia normalizing breastfeeding
    Photo credits: Jilianne Roylence Francia

    I also debuted the Bagong Nanay Biz section, where I feature moms and their businesses. For the first issue, Suzette Goc-ong of Sew Childhood shared how she built her clothing business from scratch.

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    Photo credits: Suzette Goc-ong

    It was also in August when our family grieved the death of our 16-year-old dog, Lolo Panda. I knew I had to write about it, and it helped that I did.

    I started showing up on TikTok too! Panindigan na natin ‘to.

    September

    It was during this month when I was busy preparing for my son’s first birthday. During his party, my husband and I launched Laro Tayo Kids, an inflatable slide and mobile playground rental business. It was my biggest move for 2025, and it took lots of prayers and sleepless nights to happen.

    I also featured a mom I found on Threads, who sells sweaters and onesies with handsewn prints: Yane Cuarto of Elisha and Eliana. Her story reached thousands, and it was the highest viewed story of Bagong Nanay to date.

    elisha n eliana
    Photo credits: Yane Cuarto

    October

    On my birth month, I finally had the courage to write a vulnerable post about caring for our mental health and staying alive.

    I was grateful to also share the story of Ara Yeung, the Bagong Nanay behind Cuddle and Coo PH, on how her business helped her in so many ways.

    Cuddle and Coo owner Ara Yeung for Bagong Nanay
    Photo credits: Ara Yeung

    November

    The best is yet to come. In November, I had the pleasure of working with Bianca Gonzalez, and becoming part of one of the episodes in her Paano Ba To? The Podcast.

    PAANO BA TO BAGONG NANAY
    Screenshot from YouTube /iamsuperbianca

    It was a dream come true, an answered prayer, and again, God showing how powerful He is. He makes all things new. I didn’t know it yet, but Bianca will invite me to a very intimate brunch in December! Watch it here.

    I also received an email from a mompreneur who wanted to share her story on Bagong Nanay. Sobrang kilig ko when I read her message. Eds Nabong of Aimerie shared how she paused her career and built her cloth diapering business.

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    Photo credits: Eds Nabong

    December

    To end the year, Ives Lim Esteban of Tickled Babies shared how she built her business during her tender season as a Bagong Nanay. She’s the mom who brought well-loved brands like HALO SleepSack, NoseFrida, and OXO Tot to the Philippines

    ives lim esteban of tickled babies for bagong nanay
    Photo credits: Ives Lim Esteban

    And the last Kuwentong Bagong Nanay of 2025 was the story of Tina Santiago Rodriguez, a media missionary and mother of six (plus one in Heaven). She shared what and who helps her do it all.

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    Photo credits: Facebook /Jewels Conference, Tina Santiago Rodriguez

    Hello, 2026! Milk tea tayo, yes?

    What a year that was. I didn’t know that all those things could happen, all I knew was I’ve chosen to surrender to God’s plans.

    That’s why, to start the year, we’ll be having our very first Bagong Nanay Milk Tea Meetup this month! Yes, gusto lang naman nating mga mommies ay mag-me time habang umiinom ng ating dasurv na dasurv na milk tea. Start tayo sa South! Our venue is in Alabang, Muntinlupa. Babies are allowed! Gets na gets namin yan.

    So far, may 10 mom members of our Viber community confirmed! Partner kami ni mother Chesca Susmerano of Studio Maria for the program. We want to make it special and meaningful for the Bagong Nanays!

    If you want to join us, comment below or send me a DM on Facebook, Instagram, or Threads so I can send you the link to our Bagong Nanay Community Viber group. We’ll be having another one in the North and East soon!

    If you made it this far, thank you so much for being here. You matter so much. I hope you remember that. God loves you!

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    My 2026 Surrender planner from my bestie Cherrie Julian

    Here for you,

    Nanay Judy

    “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31

  • So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    So this happened: Paano Ba ‘To? X Bagong Nanay

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    I just wanted to share a milestone for Bagong Nanay. I got the honor and opportunity to work with no less than my favorite interviewer and podcaster Bianca Gonzalez for an episode of Paano Ba ‘To? The Podcast.

    For context, I love listening to podcasts. While my current fave is Dogshow Divas by Macoy Dubs and Baus Rufo, I’ve been listening to Bianca’s podcast especially during my early days as a Bagong Nanay. It was 2021, during the COVID-19 pandemic, and while I was washing dishes, cooking, or breastfeeding my firstborn daughter then, Bianca’s Legends Only series kept me sane.

    Then, in 2022, I got the chance to interview Bianca for Smart Parenting about mom guilt and mom rage.

    I was able to even attend a live event of Paano Ba ‘To? in 2023 and thought that was already the best things to happen as a fangirl.

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    I was part of the Paano Ba ‘To? Live 12 last Dec 2023, and it was the best!

    But I really believe God listens to even our most tender prayers: I became part of a Paano Ba ‘To? episode!!!

    In this episode, Bianca talked to Andi Manzano-Reyes, former DJ, and now a content creator and mom of three, who shared her thoughts about pursuing passion alongside motherhood (plus, money tips!)

    Watch it til the end, and you’ll see me asking Andi a question about why we should not feel guilty to buy something for ourselves sometimes.

    I’ve made it!

    Andi’s countdown: Top 3 mindsets to turn passion into something that will last

    • Take that first step, and just keep moving forward.
    • Be grateful, and don’t take today for granted.
    • Have the right partner and support system.

    Side note: I’m happy to be part of this episode because personally, I use RCBC as one of my banks. I opened one to organize my other sources of funds, and to be honest, ang dali mag-open ng account onsite (I remember bringing my daughter then). And online din, even when the bank transitioned to a new app (Pulz), I didn’t encounter any issues. Thanks for this episode, RCBC!

    And who knows, Bagong Nanays? Someday, baka I’ll be the one Bianca interviews! I’ll be so ready for that.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube here.

    Listen to the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcast.

    Also, join the Paano Ba ‘To: SUPER Group on Facebook too.

    Bagong Nanay, we have a Viber group for you. Comment below so I can send you the link.

  • Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

    Growing in Grace: Cuddle and Coo PH by Ara Yeung

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    Kumusta? Kaliwa’t kanan ang balita ng lindol at flu outbreak, okay ka pa ba? Ang daming nangyayari, pero don’t forget that it’s okay to feel anxious and all these big feelings, but let’s do our best to not dwell on them.

    Ang dami kong nakikitang mommies who are preparing their Go Bags at marami ring sellers na nagbebenta ng hard hat. Nabasa ko nga, during these times, it’s okay to worry, but it’s better to be prepared.

    Kaya naman, this October, which is also World Mental Health Awareness Month, it’s fitting to share about the story of a Bagong Nanay who, despite her mental health struggles, was able to thrive and build her own business.

    We put the spotlight on Mommy Arabella April Yeung, the mom behind the brand Cuddle and Coo PH, which offers an FDA-approved lactation and recovery drink and other parent and baby products. I’ve tried their Malunggay & Acai Berry Juice and you can read about my review here.

    Mommy Ara, who used to be a public hospital nurse, shared with Bagong Nanay how she battled with mental health struggles on her own. It was during the COVID-19 pandemic when she finally had the courage to seek professional help, and she was diagnosed with major depressive disorder with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Her husband supported her through it all, and she poured herself into Cuddle and Coo PH, a small business she dearly loves.

    This is her Bagong Nanay Biz story.

    A full circle moment

    I’d like to think that Cuddle and Coo PH began during our first visit to a baby fair—Momzilla—in 2023. We were browsing baby items and came across a booth managed by siblings. One of the sisters was pregnant at that time, and was selling maternity clothes and baby trinkets. We chatted a little, and they were the first to inspire us to dream of creating our own brand someday. I even told my husband, “Hon, one day tayo naman ang mangbubudol.” Little did I know that joke stayed with him, and eventually became real. At that time, I was pregnant with two babies: my son Jin, and Cuddle and Coo PH.

    “Blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing.”

    -Mommy Ara Yeung

    When I gave birth in August 2023, I struggled with the sweets and drinks I consumed. Since I had gestational diabetes, I had to be careful with my sugar intake. I stopped eating the usual treats and switched to supplements, but it felt more like a chore than something enjoyable. I wanted something refreshing and delicious without affecting my sugar. This became my daily “litanya” to my husband, who encouraged me to reach out to the right people—being a nurse with connections to hospitals and professionals. That was when it hit me: this challenge could become an opportunity.

    Mommy Ara Yeung of Cuddle and Coo PH

    One of the main challenges we faced was delegating tasks. As a nurse, I’m used to things progressing in a certain, structured way. My husband meanwhile is a lawyer, who is more chill and used to delays. This difference often frustrated me.

    For one, we had to launch the brand without our flagship product because of delays with our FDA certification. By God’s grace, we were able to successfully introduce Cuddle and Coo PH at Momzilla in November 2024!

    This Malunggay and Acai Berry Juice is Cuddle and Coo PH’s flagship product

    A family affair

    Every night, my husband and I would say: “Lord, miss na naming mag-pack ng parcel, palambing naman po ng order.” And true enough, there are days when we have no sales at all—days when we look at each other nervously, wondering if people have already forgotten us and worry that our stocks expire. But the Lord has His ways.

    Sometimes the shop is quiet for days, then suddenly we get 10–15 orders in a single day, and we’re scrambling to pack and ship. It taught us that blessings don’t always come all at once—they’re given in perfect timing. It also reminded us to pause, breathe, and enjoy family moments in between.

    “When it gets overwhelming, I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home.”

    -Mommy Ara Yeung

    Despite the structured chaos, this business has strengthened our faith and marriage. When I’m busy with inventory, my husband takes over baby duties—feeding, burping, changing nappies, even thawing milk. He has never missed a doctor’s appointment and always makes time for us, even packing parcels after a full day of work. If this business journey has given us that kind of teamwork and resilience, then all the struggle has definitely been worth it.

    Ara with her very supportive husband

    Although we have an extra hand with our sales associate Thea, who works part-time during baby fairs, I handle most of the day-to-day tasks at home while juggling work, chores, and childcare. It gets overwhelming, but I remind myself: what a blessing it is to do something I love from home. What was once just a dream is now reality. Even our son Jin learns from this—he hands us tape when packing or opens doors when I’m carrying parcels. He sees his dad working, too. These small lessons by example are priceless, something words alone can’t teach a toddler.

    Advice for aspiring mompreneurs

    If you want to start a business, you need to be ALL IN.

    No reservations, no shyness. Who else can champion your product better than you, the creator? That’s why I’ve spent almost a year attending baby fairs, engaging with moms and dads about their breastfeeding journey.

    The first year is crucial.

    It’s where you’ll see whether the business is earning or just breaking even. Document everything, down to the last peso. That’s how you’ll know what’s working and what’s not. And very importantly, don’t cover costs out-of-pocket. Let the earnings fund the cycle. Proper costing and accounting are key; otherwise, you risk setting yourself up for failure.

    Have faith in the Lord, in yourself, in your products, and in your team.

    Faith carries you through the days when sales are low and motivation is running out. Sometimes blessings overflow, sometimes it feels quiet. Don’t be discouraged. Maybe it just means more effort is needed or a better strategy for visibility.

    Listen to feedback, criticisms, and setbacks.

    These are not failures, but steps forward. No system is perfect. Cuddle and Coo PH is what it is today because of continuous feedback—from co-merchants, customers, and our small team.


    What’s next for Cuddle and Coo

    Our vision is to make Cuddle and Coo PH a trusted name for moms and families who want healthier, safer, and more thoughtful alternatives in their parenting journey. We want our brand to be more than just products—it’s about community, support, and encouragement for parents navigating the same challenges we faced.

    “Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.” -Ara Yeung

    In the near future, we plan to expand our product line to include more parent- and baby-friendly items, with the same focus on health and wellness. We’re also exploring collaborations with fellow mompreneurs and health professionals to bring better awareness and education to families. Beyond online and baby fairs, we hope to eventually have a physical space—a “Cuddle and Coo corner”—where parents can discover products, share experiences, and feel supported.

    Our dream is to keep growing in a way that stays true to our values: family, faith, and love.

    Follow Cuddle and Coo PH on social media and shop their products here:

  • Roanne Duran-Pascual: Raising a Reader

    Roanne Duran-Pascual: Raising a Reader

    Hi, Bagong Nanay!

    July is National Children’s Book Month, kaya naman I asked a fellow Bagong Nanay to share how she’s raising her toddler son to develop a love for reading.

    I remember interviewing an Ivy League professor and author Gregory W. Slayton, and he shared that children learn how to make sense of the world through reading. He boldly said, “You cannot be a leader if you are not a reader.” No pressure naman sa ating mga nanay, kasi sabi naman niya, even if you are not a great reader yourself, at least, help your child to love reading because it’s through it that they understand how the world works.

    So for our first #KuwentongBagongNanay since our re-launch, I asked my good friend Roanne Duran-Pascual to share tips and book recommendations for parents. Roanne is one of the greatest storytellers I know. ‘Yung tipong kapag nagkuwento siya, feeling mo nandun ka sa pangyayari, ganun ka-vivid. I believe it’s because she reads and writes a lot. That’s why when she became a Nanay, I know she’ll enjoy telling her son stories, and nurturing his love for reading too.

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    Roanne and her son Noah. Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Kaya wala nang patumpik-tumpik pa, here’s how Roanne raises her son to be a reader and a leader. In her words, she’s a Bagong Nanay who is ‘living the prayer, and learning every day.’

    Read on, and share this with another Bagong Nanay.

    Why raise your child to be a reader, according to a reading mama

    I strive to raise a reader because, first, reading opens up a limitless world—and books are passports that take my son to places we never could. I love how books allow him to see, hear, and feel things beyond his everyday experience. How his imagination expands with every new character he meets and new adventure he takes on. This is particularly crucial during children’s foundational years (0-3yo), when their brains are developing at lightning speed. Which brings me to my second reason. 

    Studies have proven a wide range of benefits of reading to child development. From cognitive and communication skills, to focus and critical thinking. Kids learn faster, comprehend better, and analyse sharper. Of course, we can teach all these skills in other ways, but if we can nurture them all just from one regular activity, isn’t that a big win for us parents?

    Reading is one of the best ways to learn empathy.

    -Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Third, and most importantly for me, I want my son to grow up recognizing and respecting others who are different from him. To hear voices and feel experiences other than his own. Reading is one of the best ways to learn empathy. Like why Rainbow Fish won’t give up any of his shiny scales, or how happy Giraffe felt when Porcupine knitted him a scarf—simple stories allow him to learn others’ struggles and emotions.

    Little Noah and his book. Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    He may not fully show these traits now, but it’s never too early to teach him compassion, kindness, and seeing the world through the eyes of others.

    How to raise a reader: 3 practical tips

    Be consistent.

    I know, it’s hard for us parents who have endless to-do lists and barely half a brain to keep up with routines. So choose at least just one part of your kid’s day and dedicate that time for reading. It could be before bedtime, after shower, first thing in the morning—whichever works best for you and your kid. It doesn’t have to be long, even just 15 minutes of fully present time, every day, makes a huge difference in the long run. Consistency is key.

    Make it accessible.

    Have books within their reach as much as possible. (Yes, there will be book casualties, but trust me–it’s worth it). If you can, get a toddler shelf so they can pull out books anytime they want (there are pretty decent ones in Lazada/Shopee that are less than P1,000).

    Books don’t have to be expensive. Check with other parents if they have hand-me-downs. Second-hand bookstores are also great places to score affordable gems.

    Roanne Duran-Pascual

    If that’s not an option, just set up a cozy corner with a pile of their books. We also usually leave books lying around in bed, which he can pick up when he wakes up before we do; and we always pack a book in our baby bag as the default “toy” when we go out.

    Make it fun.

    Reading should be something they enjoy, not earned or dreaded. Avoid associating reading with rewards, punishments, or chores. Make it as normal as eating and playing. Bonus: let them see you reading yourself and finding joy in it. 

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    Noah: Happy reader here! Courtesy of Roanne Duran-Pascual

    Book and author recommendations

    Noah’s turning two in October and these are the books he engaged well and clearly picked up most from.

    Dr. Seuss beginner books

    They use simple, repetitive words, and catchy rhyme and rhythm. These help kids learn and memorize words more easily, boosting their confidence and encouraging them to read more.

    Adarna board books

    Books from Adarna House are best in introducing age-appropriate concepts in Filipino, like body parts, family members, and food. I especially love their series on Filipino values and mabuting asal.

    Sandra Boynton and Eric Carle books

    Both are engaging series. Boynton’s are short and humorous, often in sing-song patterns, making them super fun to read. Carle’s have vibrant and engaging illustrations with subtle lessons embedded in stories. 

    There are so many wonderful books out there, so feel free to discover what your child enjoys most. And remember, books don’t have to be expensive. Big tip: check with other parents (friends, mommy/daddy groups, online declutter pages) if they have any hand-me-downs. Second-hand bookstores are also great places to score affordable gems.

    About the Bagong Nanay: I am Roanne Duran-Pascual from Marikina City. I am the Bagong Nanay of Noah, 1 year and 9 months. Outside motherhood, I’m a storyteller and development worker, who dreams of opening her own bookstore one day.

    Want to share your #KuwentongBagongNanay too? Comment below or send me a DM on Instagram.